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9 Years
Mine did. No contact seems to work. I would give it some time. Let him miss you.
Yes, no contact may work. What you can do depends how your relationship ended.
From my experience and reading other's on here, caps are confusing. They might come off cold, but they have so many feelings that they don't show. That's important.
How long did you date?
If I move on, that's it. Things can be fixed, worked on and revisited before that point. When that door closes though, it's a wrap.
Well, a few months ago I told him a very polite "goodbye" after months of contemplating what the right move would be. It was difficult for a few days, then I managed to forget him and totally concentrate on all that I loved doing. That's when he came back and apologised in a humble manner (very contrary to his normal nature, apologising for the first time after the romance phase). I thought he really meant it even if part of me warned me saying, "he came back only because you were the one who left him. It wasn't he who left you. He didn't get the chance to show off his control and authority and have the last word."
I don't know about him, but I really cared much for him, so I got back. He was neither rude nor sweet for a few weeks after which his old colours have begun showing up again - disappearing, attempting to control me, wanting it all his way, etc.
But he'd accuse me of the same because I'm a Leo and I'm openly demanding. Wonder if I should really let go for good this time! That care and love I'd developed for him is what's hindering the process.
My suggestion for you is that, even I feel that he'd come back to you when you least expect it (when he senses that you've really moved on), and if he does that, make sure that he isn't what he was earlier that caused the breakup. Don't be fooled. Till then, move on and don't even think of him. Or at least don't let him know you're thinking of him. That's what I'm trying to do now. Good luck!
They do!!!
You're a taurus. You guys won't be able to leave eachother alone.
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I have given in and have decided to respect his decision and have let him, move on.
I'm doing what I can to move on, too. Am focusing on my work and reading. It's hard not thinking about him.
Do Capricorn Men ever come back?
I'm a Taurus.