Ask a Cap Male

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by daron76 on Friday, November 18, 2016 and has 563 replies.

Common Questions About Capricorns Male Traits

Capricorn males are known for their practicality, ambition, and loyalty. They often ask questions to understand deeper truths and value honesty. If you have questions about their behavior or traits, learning about their disciplined nature and dedication can help you connect better.

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Posted by sakuraflowers

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You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. 🙂

Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one. 😛

Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?

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Well for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.

The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.

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Posted by UndauntedSoul88
Would you think less of a woman if she initiated physical contact first? I'm asking for a friend's cousin.

Oh sure you are my dear 😉

No, not at all. I prefer it actually. My goal is to please her (especially in that department) and getting a feel for her pace is really helpful I have found.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp

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why are cap male obsessive

Ummm that only happens when I love someone. I don't obsess over women I don't love. I don't obsess over the women I have had crushes on either.

and when you love them, you tell them ? or you make them wait forever??

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Well, there is two parts to this. My heart will fall in love before my brain figures out what's going on. So the actions will be there before I verbalize it. But once my brain catches up, I will definitely let her know. I'm not scared to go first.

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
The Cap (who I thought was a lost cause) msgd me last night saying some excuse about how he thought he had replied to my last msg instead of leaving me hanging bla anyways idc if he was just covering his ass because I don't hav expectations nor care really... I know he's just making sure I know he exists etc... But the question is:

Is there anything I can do to get this ball rolling?

I'm not going to chase him or ask him out btw

Actually yes, there is. You're a scorpio if I remember correctly, right? Anyway, I actually would suggest meeting up for a drink and talking to him in person. There is probably a lot that needs to be said between you two. And lets be honest, Cap males aren't the best at informal communication so if you really want to get through to each other I would say meet up. Alternatively, you could just tell him to tag along to something you already planned on doing- it doesn't have to be a formal date or anything.

Remember- your goal is to get the ball rolling. Does it really matter who gives it the first push?

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Posted by Capri-sun
Are cap men capable of compartmentalizing?

Say some for sex? Fwb? Or do you only pursue serious relationships?

In simpler terms do you sex without feelings? Just for the physical aspect?

Ok so let me break this down.

1. I compartmentalize. Often.

2. Do I have sex without feelings? Yes particularly if I am single.

There are some women I meet and sex is the only thing I want from them and I know it right away. However, most I meet with an eye for something more but, either through conversation or behavior (or both) I realize we wouldn't work long term. But, if she is really attractive, I'll still give her the business-- as often as she will let me!!! hahaa And, no, there won't be any feelings attached in that scenario.

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Posted by Arielle83
Why do cap men act so above everyone, but then you catch them in the back of some millenial's panel van, getting his divk wet?

While his wife is at home with his children making casserole.

LMAO!

We don't put ourselves on pedestals, other people tend to just see us that way. Maybe its because we tend to have strong opinions?

Anyway, assholes come in all shapes, colors, sizes and stars. Interestingly, the same applies to hypocrites.

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How do you as a cappy guy would show her that she is " the one?" Is it true that if a cappy guy did not fall in love with you in 3-6 months, he probably will not?

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Posted by Capri-sun
1. What's the most important quality in a woman?

2. How do you define love? And at what point do you know you're there?

3. Capricorn male deal breakers?

4. What should a woman do if you're angry?

5. What makes you smile?

6. How and/or what can a woman do to get you to open up?

7. What are your ideal gifts to receive from a s/o?

Oh my lol. Well let me pull up a chair....

1. What's the most important quality in a woman?

I'll break this down in to two categories; aesthetics and personality.

Aesthetically- the most important thing for me is that she keeps herself well. She doesn't have to be in amazing shape but she needs to dress well and carry her self in a confident manner. Having nice hips/ thighs is also a must.

Personality wise, I would say smart, confident and a bit mysterious. I don't like pushovers and I can't stand women I have to explain everything to. It gets old. fast. I'm pretty sure it was for this reason google was invented lol.

2. How do you define love? And at what point do you know you're there?

Love for me is about endurance, vulnerability and acceptance. I'm going to give you all of me and I want the same from you. Add to that this feeling of home- the place you can't wait to get to at the end of the day.. When its just you and I in our space/place it should feel like home. Also, my boundaries no longer exist for the person i am in love with. My space is their space. That's usually what triggers my brain to go "oh shit, I'm in love"

3. Capricorn male deal breakers?

Hmmm. If I don't feel respected or valued then I'm going to leave. I can tolerate it for a while, but once I start second guessing myself as a result, then I'm out. Also, rash out bursts. You get one. It happens again, I'm out- and I have to love you for you to get the second chance.

4. What should a woman do if you're angry?

If I'm angry at her? be physical- kisses, hugs... sex lol. I can't stay mad when that stuff happens.

If I'm angry about/with someone/thing else? If I'm talking let me vent, then do something from the previous answer. If I'm not talking- don't talk either. Just hold me.

5. What makes you smile?

My friends laugh at me cause when the woman I love texts me, I wear the biggest smile (I have huge dimples) on my face as I text her back. So basically any attention or affection from the woman I love. Other than that... its probably the same as most people.. good news, good jokes etc.

6. How and/or what can a woman do to get you to open up?

Don't ask me to. The less you pry, the more comfortable I will feel. The more comfortable I feel, the faster I open up.

7. What are your ideal gifts to receive from a s/o

Practical stuff. Watches, grooming equip etc. Or tickets to an event or a game. If you want to go romantic- include chocolate and you should also wear lingerie lol

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Posted by Capri-sun
How does a woman tell whether she is a friend, fwb, or girlfriend without having the "what is this talk?"

Where we spend time together or how we spend it. If we just eat and have sex= we are fwb. If we go on dates that involve more than eating, if i let you sleep over without trying to have sex, then= we are more than fwb.

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Posted by sakuraflowers
How to make a good impression on a Cap boss? How to work best with a Cap coworker? What would you suggestion for someone, if they have a crush on a Cap coworker or vice versa?

I've never had either. Just hypothetical questions for future reference. 😄

Be reliable. And always produce good quality. That goes for both the boss and the co-worker. As for the crush... drop it.

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Posted by sakuraflowers
What do you think of someone, who asks a lot of general questions about you? Would you think they are prying? What do you suggest as ways in getting to know a Cap?

What do you think of someone who likes to talk about themselves?

No, you can ask all the surface level questions you want. If you ask deep questions about me and I avoid them or don't answer at all, don't keep trying.

If you want to get know a cap, just spend time with them. The more you are around, the more comfortable they will get with you.

As long as they are answering questions that I asked its fine. If they keep going and ramble on, I'll eventually tune out. No big deal.

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Posted by Capri-sun
How do you define success?

Will you date or entertain the idea of a relationship if you aren't financially stable?

Will you call your romantic interest everyday?

How do you define success?

Short answer- for me its 2 things, 1) be a good father to my children (when/ if I have any), 2) be a good husband to my wife (if i ever find one). Everything else is a bonus. Career goals come and go, but family is the most important for me.

Will you date or entertain the idea of a relationship if you aren't financially stable?

No, unless we have "that" connection.

Will you call your romantic interest everyday?

Yes, but I am a bit greedy. I want to see her everyday.

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Posted by Virgiene
How do you as a cappy guy would show her that she is " the one?" Is it true that if a cappy guy did not fall in love with you in 3-6 months, he probably will not?

I don't believe in "the one". But if you play a starring role in my plan for the future, then I will definitely let you know that.

Is it true that if a cappy guy did not fall in love with you in 3-6 months, he probably will not?

Not true at all. Some times it takes longer. Sometimes it takes less. Again, especially for me, my actions will tell you where my heart is long before my mouth will.

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Posted by Rosaknowsya
1.Do you go out of your way to help people in need?

2.can you like a woman whose opinion differs from your own?

1.Do you go out of your way to help people in need?

Yes, that is very important to me.

2.can you like a woman whose opinion differs from your own?

I love that, actually. I love it when isn't afraid or apologetic about being different. Just be willing to debate it openly and honestly.

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
What is your favorite sign and why?

1. Scorpio

I feel drawn to them even before I find out their sun sign. We both don't like people to pry, so our pace at opening up seems to mesh really well. Maybe its my cancer moon but we just click on a level that is magnetic. They are also mysterious (which I love). So damn sexy.

2. Cancer

I just get this feeling that I am in good hands with them. I also feel protective of them for some reason. Great kissers.

3. Taurus-

They are adorable. A bit strong willed, but always a great package. But we are often too similar and that can tend to get boring.

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Posted by daron76

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What is your favorite sign and why?

1. Scorpio

I feel drawn to them even before I find out their sun sign. We both don't like people to pry, so our pace at opening up seems to mesh really well. Maybe its my cancer moon but we just click on a level that is magnetic. They are also mysterious (which I love). So damn sexy.

2. Cancer

I just get this feeling that I am in good hands with them. I also feel protective of them for some reason. Great kissers.

3. Taurus-

They are adorable. A bit strong willed, but always a great package. But we are often too similar and that can tend to get boring.

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You should get a girl that's like Scorp sun cancer rising and Taurus moon 🙂

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Posted by UndauntedSoul88
If you're in a relationship with a woman and her best friend is a male, is this an issue for you?

Depends on how you bring it up. If you keep him a secret or never bring him around to hang out with us, then yes this is a problem. And it could kill the relationship. If you are upfront and honest about it, and make efforts to have him engage with us, then there is no problem.

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My cappy guy calls every night , text me several times in a day , ccoks for me, we see each other once or twice a week but we go to church every Sunday. It is been like this for more than a year already but he doesn't say anything about the future, did not meet his friends and family yet . My question is , IN YOUR OPINION... what am I to him?

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Posted by pinkbird03
How long does it take you to introduce a new girlfriend or crush to your friends? Is this very important to you?

Depends on our connection. If it is strong and I feel this is definitely going somewhere hen that will happen pretty quick. Meeting friends isn't that big of a deal though. If I let you meet my mom, or the rest of my family-- then its serious. Only 3 women I have dated have met my mother.

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Posted by daron76

Posted by pinkbird03
How long does it take you to introduce a new girlfriend or crush to your friends? Is this very important to you?

Depends on our connection. If it is strong and I feel this is definitely going somewhere hen that will happen pretty quick. Meeting friends isn't that big of a deal though. If I let you meet my mom, or the rest of my family-- then its serious. Only 3 women I have dated have met my mother.

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I'm the same way about family! I've never met this caps friends though. We've known each other since April. He wants us to organize a group outing. I'm a little nervous!!

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Posted by Virgiene
My cappy guy calls every night , text me several times in a day , ccoks for me, we see each other once or twice a week but we go to church every Sunday. It is been like this for more than a year already but he doesn't say anything about the future, did not meet his friends and family yet . My question is , IN YOUR OPINION... what am I to him?

Best case scenario- he feels you are important but is still working through his feelings. He may also have other stuff he is focused on. Or he could think you are good with the way things are. Hard to say really.

Worst case- You are comfortable. I have been guilty of staying with someone just because the situation was comfortable and reliable. Don't get me wrong, comfort and reliability are very important. But there needs to be that spark. Without that spark, I'm just wasting your time and mine.

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Posted by LiveAndLove

Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. 🙂

Why would you block someone you love? And out of nowhere? Has the feeling been building up and you take the opportunity? You all are so reliable and consistent.. then you're not. The frustration is real.

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I would do it because you hurt me and you keep hurting me. If I explain that to you and it keeps happening, then i need to get away from you to heal and recharge. We can talk about it again AFTER that. This also prevents me from losing it and saying some really mean shit to you.

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