Ask a Cap Male

You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. :)
daron76
male
Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo.
Cancan26
female
in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
....
Cancan26
female
in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
I will start out light ...
whats your favorite color?
daron76
male
Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
Lol, mine is Red
aquapiscescusp
female
why are cap male obsessive
Cancan26
female
in the name of the moon cookiemonster this is a stick up...
so who is capricorn favorite sign?
aquapiscescusp
female
Posted by leowww
Posted by aquapiscescusp
why are cap male obsessive


Are you still in contact with the cap?
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no... I guess it was clear I had moved on
daron76
male
Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
Posted by sakuraflowers
Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo.


Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one.

Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
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Well for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.

The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.
daron76
male
Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
Posted by UndauntedSoul88
Would you think less of a woman if she initiated physical contact first? I'm asking for a friend's cousin.


Oh sure you are my dear

No, not at all. I prefer it actually. My goal is to please her (especially in that department) and getting a feel for her pace is really helpful I have found.
daron76
male
Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
Posted by aquapiscescusp
why are cap male obsessive


Ummm that only happens when I love someone. I don't obsess over women I don't love. I don't obsess over the women I have had crushes on either.
daron76
male
Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
Posted by Cancan26
so who is capricorn favorite sign?


For me it goes like this; 1 Scorpio, 2 Cancer, 3 Taurus. I wish I had met a virgo to see what they are like ( I hear they are awesome) but it hasn't happened yet.
aquapiscescusp
female
Posted by leowww
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by leowww
Posted by aquapiscescusp
why are cap male obsessive


Are you still in contact with the cap?


no... I guess it was clear I had moved on


Tu fais bien !!
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ouiii écoute it was great to hear from him even if it was after so many years, the reminiscing and all but quite strange at the same time

do you have a cap in your life?
aquapiscescusp
female
Posted by daron76
Posted by aquapiscescusp
why are cap male obsessive


Ummm that only happens when I love someone. I don't obsess over women I don't love. I don't obsess over the women I have had crushes on either.
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and when you love them, you tell them ? or you make them wait forever??
The Cap (who I thought was a lost cause) msgd me last night saying some excuse about how he thought he had replied to my last msg instead of leaving me hanging bla anyways idc if he was just covering his ass because I don't hav expectations nor care really... I know he's just making sure I know he exists etc... But the question is:

Is there anything I can do to get this ball rolling?
I'm not going to chase him or ask him out btw
daron76
male
Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by daron76
Posted by aquapiscescusp
why are cap male obsessive


Ummm that only happens when I love someone. I don't obsess over women I don't love. I don't obsess over the women I have had crushes on either.


and when you love them, you tell them ? or you make them wait forever??
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Well, there is two parts to this. My heart will fall in love before my brain figures out what's going on. So the actions will be there before I verbalize it. But once my brain catches up, I will definitely let her know. I'm not scared to go first.

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