The Great Disappearing Act

Since this topic seems to occupy every thread, regardless of the original topic, I am hoping to use this thread to draw in all those queries so other views, questions and insights can actually get seen.

Please feel to address the following;

1) Have you ever disappeared,

2) If you have, what caused it,

3) Do you re-appear after disappearing,

4) What does it mean if you do re-appear

5) What do you consider disappearing

Don't worry about the various communication issues that are implied in all of this. I plan on giving that its own thread.

Fire away...

@capri-sun

#5 is there because often, when you read people's stories it is filled with lines like; "I pushed X away", "I went cold", "I moved on", "I said something mean"-- then followed by their Cappy's disappearance. Which is kind of odd considering that the OP in these instances is putting distance between themselves and their S/O. And this begs the question, "how is it disappearing when you admit to driving the other person away?" So, I figured maybe they need clarification on what actually could be considered "disappearing".

Posted by ParisianCappy
was this thread reserved for cap

Not really. However, it is a question that gets posted on here about us very often.

1. Yes I do it every now and then.

2. Because I went on vacation

3. Yes I reappeared after vacation

4. It means I'm back

5. Breaking all contact appear only when it's convenient. ?

is there any Cancer guy who could answer this one?

Hey guys!

I would normally disappear b/c it was something that you've shown me about yourself that does not line up to my future. Maybe it was negative energy.

I would reappear only if I think I had made a mistake. Or I really, really want to know how you've been.

Ive became "ghost" with about 10 people in my lifetime. Blocked them from my phone as well as FB if they were on there.

This is my biggest pet peeve about Caps! I swear I love Cap men, currently trying to break it off with one now, and I ALWAYS attract Cap men, but after this and my ex who was also a Cap I just can't anymore. You jokers sure know how to drain a person, really without knowing you're doing it because you're just being you but still I can't deal! —??