Capricorn man moving a little fast than what i'm used to

Libra x cap bad combo.

when they want something they are verrry persistent

Posted by MoonshineLeo
when they want something they are verrry persistent

hmmm okay, but do you see any red flags?

Posted by Alley08

Posted by MoonshineLeo
when they want something they are verrry persistent

hmmm okay, but do you see any red flags?

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no but if you think he's moving too fast then slow it down

Posted by Alley08
We chatted for 3 weeks every other day or so, he asked me out from the second message. Called me hot/sexy and was very flirty and told me a couple times that he is actually shy in real life and isn't as open as in texts, he though used to send sexual texts which put me off a little, he apologized and said he'll stop them, i said at least until we meet, and he agreed. Finally met spent like 6 hrs together i made him laugh a lot, he was kinda quiet, awkward (at the same time confident) he revealed a couple things that made him say "oh wow i never said this to anybody" he told me he loves traveling to Paris and that i should join him, i said umm we just met, and he said oh i meant in the future if things go well, he kept talking about future dates like yeah we should go to this concert/game. Towards the end he said he really likes me and likes my personality and he feels i'm worth his time. He kissed me passionately before we parted. Since the 1st date (a week ago) he's been texting me everyday, sometimes they are sexual texts in a funny way (initiated by him) nothing dirty but stuff like oh i'm way too hot that you can't stop touching me or i bet you won't handle seeing me nude! And then he also keeps mentioning going to Paris with him and how it's a romantic city for "couples" i just play along tbh. He texted me today "i wanna see you again so bad, when can we meet?"

Does he seem a bit too much or am i overthinking things? libra here

tbh he sounds very immature, is he 16?

how old you 2 are?

Posted by Alley08

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Posted by Alley08
We chatted for 3 weeks every other day or so, he asked me out from the second message. Called me hot/sexy and was very flirty and told me a couple times that he is actually shy in real life and isn't as open as in texts, he though used to send sexual texts which put me off a little, he apologized and said he'll stop them, i said at least until we meet, and he agreed. Finally met spent like 6 hrs together i made him laugh a lot, he was kinda quiet, awkward (at the same time confident) he revealed a couple things that made him say "oh wow i never said this to anybody" he told me he loves traveling to Paris and that i should join him, i said umm we just met, and he said oh i meant in the future if things go well, he kept talking about future dates like yeah we should go to this concert/game. Towards the end he said he really likes me and likes my personality and he feels i'm worth his time. He kissed me passionately before we parted. Since the 1st date (a week ago) he's been texting me everyday, sometimes they are sexual texts in a funny way (initiated by him) nothing dirty but stuff like oh i'm way too hot that you can't stop touching me or i bet you won't handle seeing me nude! And then he also keeps mentioning going to Paris with him and how it's a romantic city for "couples" i just play along tbh. He texted me today "i wanna see you again so bad, when can we meet?"

Does he seem a bit too much or am i overthinking things? libra here

tbh he sounds very immature, is he 16?

how old you 2 are?

Both mid 20's.. Could you explain more please? I'm new to the dating scene

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"Could you explain more please? I'm new to the dating scene"

I never been a part of that kind of dating scene, so I am not qualified. But I commented on your post, so some thoughts: sending sex messages is tacky, like you felt already. Planning to go to paris is awesome, but dont hang on it. Maybe its the real thing, maybe its not. Dont take online dating too seriously until its proved in person repeatedly. Be open to him and meet him so you will know for yourself if he is okey.

But, what concers me more, is your nearly subservant tone of the whole thing: "he kissed me passionately" - meaning, its him who decides to kiss you passionately? did you kiss him passionately? or, what do you feel about him? you listed the things he said about you and to you, but how you feel about him? what are his qualities (besides talking to you and planning paris? 🙂

you dont really say what you like about him, but only how you made him laugh, etc. Like its all about him

Edit: what are the reasons you created this post, honestly? do you personally feel some red flags?