Capricorn man with Pisces venus

Hey guys, I'm currently seeing this Capricorn supposedly just for benefits. We agreed on the typical friends with benefits terms together since the very beginning. However I obviously caught feelings, being the waterball that I am (Scorpio stellium, Pisces moon, 12 house stellium). I was honest with him about myself catching feelings. I tried my best to leave him many times by telling him that fwb does not work for me but he always calls or texts me after a couple of weeks, asking me to meet him.

He seems like he genuinely cares about me, and he's never rude to me. But a couple of days ago when we met, he made it very very clear that he is, in his words "not monogamous, I just want to focus on my career."

He told me that I should try dating others, but I said I didn't feel comfortable dating more than one person at a time.

He also sometimes gets mad when I mention other men.

He tells me that he likes me a lot, and is attracted to me, but that his career is his priority.

So I felt really hurt and wanted closure, so I asked him to repeat that he never wanted to see me again. But he refused several times.and I asked why that was, he didn't answer.

I asked him what he felt for me, and he said he didn't want to talk about it.

So when we were leaving the hotel room, he left me in the room, but then he came back saying he wouldn't leave without me there, and asking me to call him if I ever needed a friend to talk to and that he always wanted to see me happy.

I have high functioning autism and I'm really bad at reading social cues. Please let me know what this man is about. Thanks.

Posted by Butterfly22
Hey guys, I'm currently seeing this Capricorn supposedly just for benefits. We agreed on the typical friends with benefits terms together since the very beginning. However I obviously caught feelings, being the waterball that I am (Scorpio stellium, Pisces moon, 12 house stellium). I was honest with him about myself catching feelings. I tried my best to leave him many times by telling him that fwb does not work for me but he always calls or texts me after a couple of weeks, asking me to meet him.

He seems like he genuinely cares about me, and he's never rude to me. But a couple of days ago when we met, he made it very very clear that he is, in his words "not monogamous, I just want to focus on my career."

He told me that I should try dating others, but I said I didn't feel comfortable dating more than one person at a time.

He also sometimes gets mad when I mention other men.

He tells me that he likes me a lot, and is attracted to me, but that his career is his priority.

So I felt really hurt and wanted closure, so I asked him to repeat that he never wanted to see me again. But he refused several times.and I asked why that was, he didn't answer.

I asked him what he felt for me, and he said he didn't want to talk about it.

So when we were leaving the hotel room, he left me in the room, but then he came back saying he wouldn't leave without me there, and asking me to call him if I ever needed a friend to talk to and that he always wanted to see me happy.

I have high functioning autism and I'm really bad at reading social cues. Please let me know what this man is about. Thanks.

My Cap has venus in Pisces too.

Well, seems to me that this guy is clear with where he's at. You're a good fwb, but he doesn't want more. Not only did he mention career but also that he's not monogamous.

He isn't supposed to be rude and uncaring. That should be expected. You're sleeping with him.

As long as he can conveniently get what he wants and not have to commit himself only to you, he'll keep doing it. If you don't like this, give yourself the closure that you can't change his mind and move on. Otherwise, if you wanna keep at it and enjoy the moment, keep at it. Just don't get your hopes up that it'll turn into anything.