Capricorn men treat their women like an object??

I've been dating this cap guy for two months and now i'm seeing all hi bad sides.At first he was sweet and I feel in love with him and now im seeing tons of red flags.He always wants to know who I'm with.He never really wants to hangout with me or spend time with me,it's as if his friends are more important to him than me.Like he always acts so nice and angelic and funny around his friends,i feel like he just wants to be liked by everyone and he puts on this facade.with his friends he's so outgoing and chatty and gives them advice,but with me he does't even wanna interact with me.Like he's one way in a relationship and completely different when it comes to being his friend.He's also really insecure.It's like all he wants from me is sex.And this guy actually took my virginity.He treats me as if I'm his property.He doesn't communicate and everything is always about him.Very selfish.Doesn't show emotion,always aloof and I feel like when he is sweet it's all an act and he's doing it to get something out of me. Doesn't wanna listen about my day,it's all about what his day was like.Responds to my testx when he feelsl ike it ,takes hours and hours to respond yet I know he sees the texts but when I don't respond fast enough he gets mad and doesnt get why i'm not responding fast enough.Also extremellyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy cheap.I always have to pay for everything,even condoms.Also guilt trips alot and makes it as if i'm to blame for things when in reality he does everything wrong.Idk what to do anymore.He treats me like crap,yet love him.He only told me he loved me once.I don't even know if he loves me back because his actions don't show me that he loves me.I do so much for him and he take me for granted and i've never had a guy treat me like this.He only opens up to me when he's drunk and once he was drunk and started crying and told me he's sorry for not spedning time with me and being with his friends all the time.I just feel like i'm under control by a dictator.Is this how terrible most cap guys are——?do caps act differently when it comes to being friends with someone compared to being involved in a romantic relationship?Does he not love me?I'm so saddened by everything 😢

Posted by Kikikako
his actions don't show me that he loves me

Everything you need to know is right here.

Treat him the same way and things will change 🙂 Seriously. Become the most capricious and demanding woman in the world and he will adore you 😉

Yes, some of them do.

Why are you still with him? Its okay to love someone, but I doubt you are in love with him, so find you someone better. Luckily, its only been 2 months, and has not taken years for you to see his true colors.

Lol @ buying condoms. He is even cheap to his OWN dick!? wow..thats really cheap! Tell him i say, bfore he whips out something hot and hard out of his pants, he needs to 1st whip out something cold and hard out of his wallet... and buy that rubber. Yeesh

I'm just going to come right out and say it. He doesn't love you. Move on to someone who will. You are nice and sweet and he doesn't deserve you. There are probably ten guys out there who would knock each other down to get a chance at you. Remember this, ALWAYS be true to yourself. If you don't respect yourself, know one else will either!!! Don't ever put up with less than you deserve!!!

For the record, most caps are aloof, yes. However, most caps when they love and respect you would NEVER treat you this way. Underneath that cold exterior, most of us are warm and gooshy on the inside. I think you found one thats rotten.