Hey everyone- I recently started dating my first capricorn and am heavily confused at his actions. Weve been dating for a month now and I feel like im always the one initiating/asking him to meet up. I can't read him so i can't gauge the situation properly, but we have a lot of fun together and he seems interested. Can someone help provide some insight into the capricorn mentality & actions during this initial courtship phase?
Capricorn mentality?

Capricorns take a lot of time choosing partners to make sure they are the one. They don't date meaninglessly. You need to slow the pace of the relationship, and make sure he is thinking clearly, otherwise if he starts thinking you aren't the one, he may disappear suddenly without a trace. Make sure you are talking to him about yourself, and asking what he wants and needs in a woman. That way he can gauge what you have to offer him, and what he can give you.
Posted by jawsclaws
Hey everyone- I recently started dating my first capricorn and am heavily confused at his actions. Weve been dating for a month now and I feel like im always the one initiating/asking him to meet up. I can't read him so i can't gauge the situation properly, but we have a lot of fun together and he seems interested. Can someone help provide some insight into the capricorn mentality & actions during this initial courtship phase?
Cap here
I'm very straightforward
If I really like you, I'd not lose time and be all over you in a heartbeat, probably think about it a few days on how to approach you (we think about everything, there's always a plan B), and then act on it.
that's just me tho
now about committing.... well that takes a lot longer

Posted by jawsclaws
Hey everyone- I recently started dating my first capricorn and am heavily confused at his actions. Weve been dating for a month now and I feel like im always the one initiating/asking him to meet up. I can't read him so i can't gauge the situation properly, but we have a lot of fun together and he seems interested. Can someone help provide some insight into the capricorn mentality & actions during this initial courtship phase?
Stop asking and initiating. That's the man's job. If he's into you, he will initiate, otherwise, you're just chasing. I don't think cap men appreciate women who chase them. Sure, they'll meet up and get what they want, but they won't bother to respect a woman who doesn't make him make an effort.
My advice is just step back and stop initiating meet ups. See what he does. His actions will tell you whether he likes you or not.
Posted by truecapPosted by jawsclaws
Hey everyone- I recently started dating my first capricorn and am heavily confused at his actions. Weve been dating for a month now and I feel like im always the one initiating/asking him to meet up. I can't read him so i can't gauge the situation properly, but we have a lot of fun together and he seems interested. Can someone help provide some insight into the capricorn mentality & actions during this initial courtship phase?
Stop asking and initiating. That's the man's job. If he's into you, he will initiate, otherwise, you're just chasing. I don't think cap men appreciate women who chase them. Sure, they'll meet up and get what they want, but they won't bother to respect a woman who doesn't make him make an effort.
My advice is just step back and stop initiating meet ups. See what he does. His actions will tell you whether he likes you or not.click to expand
I actually like it when the woman approaches and chases me, shows me thats she has courage and that turns me on somehow lol
It has more to do with the fact of her being attractive to me in the first place, wether if she approaches or I do doesn't matter then lol 🙂
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