Capricorn Venus People

Hello there
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I want to know more about you all who have this placement! In your opinion how would you describe Venus in Capricorn. How you love, what you love etc... just whatever you'd like to share

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Posted by Foreverloveme
Love stability. I look for long term relationships, I'm picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Love someone who is financially secure, I'm a giver. I like to give all my partners something unique & memorable during the relationship. Letting go is hard for me if things don't work out.

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Posted by Foreverloveme
Love stability. I look for long term relationships, I'm picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Love someone who is financially secure, I'm a giver. I like to give all my partners something unique & memorable during the relationship. Letting go is hard for me if things don't work out.

That's interesting, all good things. The money thing I kinda already noticed from the person. And they mentioned long term. I do have trouble figuring this particular person out though
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Do you guys fall fast for a love interest or normally you like to take your time?

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Posted by Foreverloveme
Love stability. I look for long term relationships, I'm picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Love someone who is financially secure, I'm a giver. I like to give all my partners something unique & memorable during the relationship. Letting go is hard for me if things don't work out.

That's interesting, all good things. The money thing I kinda already noticed from the person. And they mentioned long term. I do have trouble figuring this particular person out though
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What's confusing you specifically?

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Well, I'm kind of afraid about how sincere he is... normally in my mind if it sounds too good to be true....
He mentioned he's having to hold himself back because he doesn't want to scare me off, like he feels like he loves me already... and planning our future, talking about responsibility, money and how to manage it should be we become serious, our own little family planning thing, meeting friends and possibly family soon.

Idk.. im not used to any of this so soon, it's been less than a month.

The best placement! â¤

Posted by RumiL
The best placement! â¤

Exactly.. and I love venus in Capricorn threads 😛

Had an ex (late 20s) whose sun and venus is in cap, aggressive in getting me. Thereafter we pretty much had a loving r/s for most of it, however he can get really jealous at times. He has moon aries and mars scorpio, we quarrelled 2-3 times in the yr we were together. I know he is faithful, but when he is buried or stressed at work, he withdraws to a point it puts a strain on us.

Anyhow I m dating another sun and venus cap now, moon aq and mars leo (late 30s). Aggressive initially in asking me out for dates, and we are have a load of passion when together. He doesnt hv a prob with PDA, unlike what i know abt caps. 2 mths now, we still see each other once / twice a wk but he travels a lot and I dunno if its that or just diminishing interest. Another thing i cant figure out, he says he doesnt know if he wants a r/s now....dont caps normally know what we want.......

Posted by Jalent99
Had an ex (late 20s) whose sun and venus is in cap, aggressive in getting me. Thereafter we pretty much had a loving r/s for most of it, however he can get really jealous at times. He has moon aries and mars scorpio, we quarrelled 2-3 times in the yr we were together. I know he is faithful, but when he is buried or stressed at work, he withdraws to a point it puts a strain on us.

Anyhow I m dating another sun and venus cap now, moon aq and mars leo (late 30s). Aggressive initially in asking me out for dates, and we are have a load of passion when together. He doesnt hv a prob with PDA, unlike what i know abt caps. 2 mths now, we still see each other once / twice a wk but he travels a lot and I dunno if its that or just diminishing interest. Another thing i cant figure out, he says he doesnt know if he wants a r/s now....dont caps normally know what we want.......

You have all my dad's placements! Except rising : D

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Posted by Jalent99
Had an ex (late 20s) whose sun and venus is in cap, aggressive in getting me. Thereafter we pretty much had a loving r/s for most of it, however he can get really jealous at times. He has moon aries and mars scorpio, we quarrelled 2-3 times in the yr we were together. I know he is faithful, but when he is buried or stressed at work, he withdraws to a point it puts a strain on us.

Anyhow I m dating another sun and venus cap now, moon aq and mars leo (late 30s). Aggressive initially in asking me out for dates, and we are have a load of passion when together. He doesnt hv a prob with PDA, unlike what i know abt caps. 2 mths now, we still see each other once / twice a wk but he travels a lot and I dunno if its that or just diminishing interest. Another thing i cant figure out, he says he doesnt know if he wants a r/s now....dont caps normally know what we want.......

You have all my dad's placements! Except rising : D

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🙂 whats your dad like? Just curious, whats your mum's placement?

The only one i really ever fell for was the cap sun and venus ex.

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Do you guys fall fast for a love interest or normally you like to take your time?

I hate rushing in love. Makes me nervous. I'm already a skeptic so rushing or falling fast will only make me run.

Slow and steady wins the race. Let me be sure about what I'm getting into.

@Foreverloveme



Haven't figured out rising or house placements but

Cap sun, Aries Moon and Mars, Cap Venus, Aquarius Mercury. Almost 30.

I kinda know that his past events in his life kind of explain his feelings, I realize it's sincere as I talked more to him about it. Usually I'm the one falling hard and fast in relationships. So I'm still cautious however I know how I felt before so I can relate and be sensitive to him even if im not totally on his same intensity yet. and truly wants to make something work for us. And after all the bs I've dealt with recently with men, im willing to try and work for it also keep an eye out for his actions. So far I haven't seen any red flags.. we couldn't do the 90 day rule thingy so we rushed into that and I know this is tmi but, my mars is a fire mars too and it's mind blowing and personal record breaking amazing. I like the seriousness and openness. He's not very shy, but a little reserved when he wants to. I want to get inside of his head lol

Agreed with the long-term relationship, stability and future plans thing.

I don't rush in although I can get attached quickly. Even when I'm in it it takes a long time to settle in and relax in the relationship. The first couple years is merely experiences and the meeting of minds.

I realise I don't like too much space or too long a period of time without talking. It wasn't quite an issue with the Aqua ex but with my Libra it has had quite an effect.

I value honesty. I like to be told what you want from me, why and how. Put what you can honestly offer me on the table so I can make an informed decision.

In love I'm generous, warm, sensitive. I cook, clean and serve. I give quiet security and love.

Posted by Ninjagirl
Agreed with the long-term relationship, stability and future plans thing.

I don't rush in although I can get attached quickly. Even when I'm in it it takes a long time to settle in and relax in the relationship. The first couple years is merely experiences and the meeting of minds.

I realise I don't like too much space or too long a period of time without talking. It wasn't quite an issue with the Aqua ex but with my Libra it has had quite an effect.

I value honesty. I like to be told what you want from me, why and how. Put what you can honestly offer me on the table so I can make an informed decision.

In love I'm generous, warm, sensitive. I cook, clean and serve. I give quiet security and love.

Thank you 🙂 I like those qualities

Im also a Libra by the way.

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Do you guys fall fast for a love interest or normally you like to take your time?

I hate rushing in love. Makes me nervous. I'm already a skeptic so rushing or falling fast will only make me run.

Slow and steady wins the race. Let me be sure about what I'm getting into.

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Thank you for sharing 🙂

That's what I normally associate earth venus signs with, slooowwnesss. Ive been with enough venus and virgos and that drove me crazy after a while, Taurus venus guys seemed to rush things for me subtly like make all the moves and then sit back.

My venus is in Scorpio in the 6th house

I'm actually keeping everything in order(because normally I fall dead fast), i dont want to rush this, I actually enjoy talking and seeing this guy. I kinda want to savor every moment so I don't want things to get boring if we know everything about each other in like the first month or so of communication

My libra has venus scorpio also and I definately get his 'not show too much too soon' thing. For me as a venus cap once I'm made secure and safe I'll dish most out knowing I'm protected and same for him but he's definately more reserved and private.

My role would be to provide our safe space for him to share when he feels ready. I seem to get more out of him with a laid-back 'free' approach.

I think the main thing of venus cap is our stability. We have your back. The only time it's done will be due to a lack of respect because we let you know from the beginning what's what. Mess up once and you're out. On one hand it's a very basic black and white mindset which works (in fantasy) but the reality is much more of an internal struggle to try to grapple with the grey areas.

It's one of my favorite placements of my entire chart. Although Capricorn anywhere in your chart is usually a pain in the ass. Love isn't easy for ViCap people. But we are generous, warm and down-to-earth. Devoted and committed to a fault (me at least) and very loyal - in every sense. Once you've earned our love, we'll be on your side no matter what, and support you till the end.

I do value safety and stability, but I put much more importance on emotional security than financial. If there's one thing that would kill me, it's uncertainty about the feelings and commitment of the person I love.

Women with their Venus/Moon in an earth sign tend to be the ones that are the happiest with a more traditional life style , eg calm family life, taking care of household etc. I think it's a very good placement for women.

I tend to attract other Venus in Caps, most of my friends actually have this placement.

Posted by Ninjagirl
My libra has venus scorpio also and I definately get his 'not show too much too soon' thing. For me as a venus cap once I'm made secure and safe I'll dish most out knowing I'm protected and same for him but he's definately more reserved and private.

My role would be to provide our safe space for him to share when he feels ready. I seem to get more out of him with a laid-back 'free' approach.

I think the main thing of venus cap is our stability. We have your back. The only time it's done will be due to a lack of respect because we let you know from the beginning what's what. Mess up once and you're out. On one hand it's a very basic black and white mindset which works (in fantasy) but the reality is much more of an internal struggle to try to grapple with the grey areas.

I have venus in scorpio and he has venus in cap. I like how he makes me feel secure in our relationship. ViS needs that. Loyalty is very big for ViS and I feel he's loyal.

Okay, I am totally confused now...

He told me he loved me and I haven't heard from him in two days

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Posted by aquamila
It's one of my favorite placements of my entire chart. Although Capricorn anywhere in your chart is usually a pain in the ass. Love isn't easy for ViCap people. But we are generous, warm and down-to-earth. Devoted and committed to a fault (me at least) and very loyal - in every sense. Once you've earned our love, we'll be on your side no matter what, and support you till the end.

I do value safety and stability, but I put much more importance on emotional security than financial. If there's one thing that would kill me, it's uncertainty about the feelings and commitment of the person I love.

Women with their Venus/Moon in an earth sign tend to be the ones that are the happiest with a more traditional life style , eg calm family life, taking care of household etc. I think it's a very good placement for women.

I tend to attract other Venus in Caps, most of my friends actually have this placement.

That's awesome

Oh need to find me some VIC peeps. I like it alot. Lol similar to VIT almost. Nice.

Posted by Ninjagirl
My libra has venus scorpio also and I definately get his 'not show too much too soon' thing. For me as a venus cap once I'm made secure and safe I'll dish most out knowing I'm protected and same for him but he's definately more reserved and private.

My role would be to provide our safe space for him to share when he feels ready. I seem to get more out of him with a laid-back 'free' approach.

I think the main thing of venus cap is our stability. We have your back. The only time it's done will be due to a lack of respect because we let you know from the beginning what's what. Mess up once and you're out. On one hand it's a very basic black and white mindset which works (in fantasy) but the reality is much more of an internal struggle to try to grapple with the grey areas.

Okay that makes sense... I just cant seem to figure out how sincere he is. I'm always cautious, maybe a little too much.. i dont want to mess up a good thing however I still don't understand what exactly are we doing.

Posted by Foreverloveme
I'm like that, just because I don't want to be annoying or overbearing, and sometimes I just don't have anything to talk about. I personally wouldn't worry too much about it. If it bothers you mention it to him.

I tried, but I'm thinking maybe he got upset I didn't say it back? But then he said that I make him really happy. And then nothing.

I'm just totally grrr face right now.

Im all or nothing, so I'm like I'm willing to try to do this thing and hes like mia

Patience is not my strongest suit neither is being ignored that really is hard for me to handle without a warning or an explanation..

Sigh

😢

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Oh need to find me some VIC peeps. I like it alot. Lol similar to VIT almost. Nice.

Im always attracting earthy men minus the last Gemini venus, most of my ex's have been venus in virgos

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Posted by Jalent99
Had an ex (late 20s) whose sun and venus is in cap, aggressive in getting me. Thereafter we pretty much had a loving r/s for most of it, however he can get really jealous at times. He has moon aries and mars scorpio, we quarrelled 2-3 times in the yr we were together. I know he is faithful, but when he is buried or stressed at work, he withdraws to a point it puts a strain on us.

Anyhow I m dating another sun and venus cap now, moon aq and mars leo (late 30s). Aggressive initially in asking me out for dates, and we are have a load of passion when together. He doesnt hv a prob with PDA, unlike what i know abt caps. 2 mths now, we still see each other once / twice a wk but he travels a lot and I dunno if its that or just diminishing interest. Another thing i cant figure out, he says he doesnt know if he wants a r/s now....dont caps normally know what we want.......

Yes we typically know what we want, sometimes we're slow in figuring it out or revealing it. Sometimes we simply don't want to commit to a relationship for various reasons.

If it's been 2 months I would take him at his word meaning he's still deciding.

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Thanks for the assurance! Typically how long before someone with cap venus aquarius moon decides on someone? If we get along but he is the knowledgable one telling me different stuff, he is intelligent, well-read and travelled, have a mind of his own but always open to hear what my opinions. I totally gets what he tells me but I am kind of worried he finds me too ignorant. His mercury in sag.

I think the moon sign is definitely an impt determinant, despite both having same sun and venus sign, My ex with an aries moon, cap mercury is passionate even when we r apart, he verbalizes it VS this guy with aquarius moon, he seems soo detached when we arent together....less text, probably just a short exchg, though I hear from him at least 6days a wk. Somehow my venus aquarius seems to gravitate towards his moon at this moment.....feel more strongly abt him than my ex during the initial stage.

Another ex from before was a pisces sun sag moon venus cap and aquarius mars......i too felt very attracted to him initially, but after the initial pheromones, i dont get him, cant read his emotions and we seem parallel at times, his mercury in pisces.....then again it was a LDR, might not have had enough time spent to get there....

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Oh need to find me some VIC peeps. I like it alot. Lol similar to VIT almost. Nice.

Im always attracting earthy men minus the last Gemini venus, most of my ex's have been venus in virgos

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How did that work out?

I am sorry but I think VIG not capable understanding seriousness with the VIT or VIC. Lol maybe Venus in Capricorn and Gemini or Virgo in Venus. But not sure makes me nervous VIG with VIT. Maybe you change alot to be with him.

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Posted by Foreverloveme
I'm like that, just because I don't want to be annoying or overbearing, and sometimes I just don't have anything to talk about. I personally wouldn't worry too much about it. If it bothers you mention it to him.

I tried, but I'm thinking maybe he got upset I didn't say it back? But then he said that I make him really happy. And then nothing.

I'm just totally grrr face right now.

Im all or nothing, so I'm like I'm willing to try to do this thing and hes like mia

Patience is not my strongest suit neither is being ignored that really is hard for me to handle without a warning or an explanation..

Sigh

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in all our threads we are so much alike!

I'm also dealing w a Cap Venus who's acting quite a bit like yours....he has cap Mars too. they're conjunct.

I give him his space. I get it. but can't I be warned if he's doing family stuff? etc etc.

he's already done some really ignorant things that have opened my eyes and aroused suspicion of his integrity and honesty. he's since apologized and we've moved forward. he then kind of twisted it and said he would've asked me out had I not gotten upset with him...whatever. I'm not gonna be silent about my frustrations. though I'll admit I could've done it a little differently. lol. I can't help I have Aries as my third dominant!! not to mention Scorp as my first.

I will say this. he gives long gaps to reply with no explanation. I get it. life is busy. but then to not reply going into the next day...? come on man. get with it. plus he always has his phone, so give me a break. you didn't have two minutes to say "hey I'll be busy for awhile". even "busy" wouldn't annoy me as much.

my new plan as of now is to just slam on the breaks. if he wants me, he knows where to find me. if he doesn't, whatever. it's not like I'll never find a man who will value me and give me attention. I don't want attention 24/7, but I do like to be notified like "hey I've been busy doing _". I thought he'd be different, but I mean men are men. doesn't matter what their placements are. they're curious about women. who am I to judge? I just will remove myself from the situation. no harm done.

it's easier said than done. I say I'm going to slam on the breaks, but it will be painful regardless. I did really like him, but I think there is a communication barrier. he wants to know everything about me, but he doesn't tell much about himself. not really worth it to me.

I'm also being a little sassy because I'm fresh off the "ignored" plate, so I have strong annoyed emotes flowing right now.

I'm probably overthinking. regardless. being repeatedly put on the back burner (ignored) doesn't help their cases. however if we just go our own way they'll do one of two things: continue to ignore or chase.

I think if you were not ready to tell him you love him then you are not at fault. he will either see that or he won't. if he doesn't, then was he really worth it anyways?

being a Venus in Scorp I know how you feel especially when things seem like they were going so well. some things just don't go so well for us, and it's ok because we learn valuable lessons from everyone we encounter.

you'd think that because I'm a ViS, I'd get along better with Cap Venus. I don't. my Venus is in 0 degree, so it is actually square my Guy's Venus AND Mars. its trine his moon though (and his sun/merc).

I think your heart is right and so is mine. just keep your guard up, and don't chase him. I think if there's anything we've learned in the past, at least I have, is that we were not meant to be the chasers. it'll only make them run farther.

if it's meant to be, he'll come back. if it's not, he won't. either way life goes on. we will find someone eventually. 🙂

Foreverloveme >> with the moon in aquarius, is it tougher for him to commit in a r/s although he has a venus cap?

Posted by Jalent99
Foreverloveme >> with the moon in aquarius, is it tougher for him to commit in a r/s although he has a venus cap?

Hey @Jalent99 how are you haven't seen you on here.....

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Foreverloveme >> with the moon in aquarius, is it tougher for him to commit in a r/s although he has a venus cap?

Hey @Jalent99 how are you haven't seen you on here.....

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I got over him! Thanks for beating some sense in me 🙂

Been busy with work, still on my quest for love.....hopefully

I have Aquarius moon and I'm an earth venus as well. I take it relatively easy learn about someone whole heartedly. Through time and patience, and I will show you patience and efforts on my part, but the minute one behavior is oddly weird to me is when I start questioning more and hopefully communicating better. So communication skills is a must. Be honest and straight forward at all times..

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Foreverloveme >> with the moon in aquarius, is it tougher for him to commit in a r/s although he has a venus cap?

Hey @Jalent99 how are you haven't seen you on here.....

I got over him! Thanks for beating some sense in me 🙂

Been busy with work, still on my quest for love.....hopefully

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Great news sorry. Have you been on any dates ?

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Foreverloveme >> with the moon in aquarius, is it tougher for him to commit in a r/s although he has a venus cap?

Hey @Jalent99 how are you haven't seen you on here.....

I got over him! Thanks for beating some sense in me 🙂

Been busy with work, still on my quest for love.....hopefully

Great news sorry. Have you been on any dates ?

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Yes some! Started out just to forget my ex...then i got attracted to this cap sun, venus, aquarius moon and leo mars guy.....he seems emotionally detached at times and i m all hesitant. Especially since he mentioned after the first mth, he doesnt know if he wants something serious then..... Been seeing him 1/2 times per wk for 2 mths

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Foreverloveme >> with the moon in aquarius, is it tougher for him to commit in a r/s although he has a venus cap?

I apologize, I'm unfamiliar with the aqua moon placement. Hopefully the advice FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 gave will be helpful to you

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No worries! And thank u for what u shared earlier! 🙂

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Foreverloveme >> with the moon in aquarius, is it tougher for him to commit in a r/s although he has a venus cap?

Hey @Jalent99 how are you haven't seen you on here.....

I got over him! Thanks for beating some sense in me 🙂

Been busy with work, still on my quest for love.....hopefully

Great news sorry. Have you been on any dates ?

Yes some! Started out just to forget my ex...then i got attracted to this cap sun, venus, aquarius moon and leo mars guy.....he seems emotionally detached at times and i m all hesitant. Especially since he mentioned after the first mth, he doesnt know if he wants something serious then..... Been seeing him 1/2 times per wk for 2 mths

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Cool just kick back, chill, and it seems like it still on between you two. Be friends and carry on to one that is ready if you are. Or continue seeing each other like that. Hard workers air moon with earth venus. Lol like routinely..lol maybe do sometimes special next time no pressure.

Taurian0428 >> Thanks! I will do just that! He is going away for 2 wks and will see after that. Absence hopefully makes him miss me.....

Okay maybe this is a reason to be not so attached if he's going to be gone a few weeks. As long as you both are honest, talk, and mature and not hes not leading you on. Ttyl.

@degenerate_ingenue

Yes girl yessss...

I'm like okay you can do what you want to but at least have the decency to tell me a warning like I don't mind if you're busy but I have a problem when you just go ghost and you don't say a word and me being me I'm going to be thinking the worst possible scenario because I already have issues trusting people so you do something like that I'm thinking okay you know... either I did something or you don't like something but you know that's just not cool with me. tell me something at least. His phone isnt cut off or dead so wtf. I expect you to be more mature about this since you're the one who started talking to me and pursing me in the first place.

I'm just trying to like not say anything or not say too much because I don't actually know what's going on I don't know if it's something serious or whatever but I just find it odd that someone would you know make that kind of Declaration if you will and then just disappear.

it's like what are you doing are you trying to do something serious or are you not because it's either you are or you're not there is no black and white there's no in between there's no maybe it's either you will or you won't cuz if you don't then obviously I've got people on deck who would and that's just how I am.

His moon is an Aries and also his Mars is in Aries so I already know like that Aries energy just kind of sometimes little selfish Without Really meaning to but you know it's possible which I don't mind that cuz I know my Mars is fire also so I know how i come off sometimes but it's just like my moon is in Libra and of course Aries and libras opposite so I'm just trying cooperate you know I can try and have more patience this time around because normally I don't and I am like really really really close to just cutting off everything because I don't have time for that at all.



(Lol sorry I say Like alot and I am voice typing

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But yeah...

I really like him but things like this make me want to hold back even more like I don't even want to jump into anything because I'm wondering okay is it something that's like all the time Behavior cuz I don't know maybe I might work it out with him but how can I trust you if you if you do this often this is crazy. You have to be able to prove to me that what you say isn't just words like there needs to be some kind of value from it from your actions if not then you just talking into the air.



You know, I don't need him 24/7 but I need attention and reassuring behavior and communication.



😢

I like you and everything but I'm not that far yet so you haven't won anything you don't have me.

I want him but now I'm even more afraid to let myself be vulnerable because if he dissappears for good then what...

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Oh need to find me some VIC peeps. I like it alot. Lol similar to VIT almost. Nice.

Mmm i love venus in taurus

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Oh need to find me some VIC peeps. I like it alot. Lol similar to VIT almost. Nice.

Im always attracting earthy men minus the last Gemini venus, most of my ex's have been venus in virgos

How did that work out?

I am sorry but I think VIG not capable understanding seriousness with the VIT or VIC. Lol maybe Venus in Capricorn and Gemini or Virgo in Venus. But not sure makes me nervous VIG with VIT. Maybe you change alot to be with him.

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That didn't work actually I mean we're still friends though but yeah that just didn't work out for multiple reasons and I should have thought like okay you know Venus in Geminis not that big of a deal because my Mars is in Leo but it's in 3rd house so I'm like you know I kinda understand the whole you want constant variety constant change you don't really want to be like stuck in something boring or something that's repetitive I don't even know like I don't even think that that's the case with this person honestly there's just like a lot of outside obstacles that got in the way of us having a solid relationship.

and it's like okay I could obviously see the clear solution to everything but he couldn't so I'm like he wasn't willing to actually do anything about it so just like oh you know that's hard it's too hard and I'm like okay well then don't do anything so that's just like it was crazy.

Sweet guy but he's like lazy in a way. To relax and i was seriously considering him. Too serious and I had to retreat from that.

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Posted by Foreverloveme
I'm like that, just because I don't want to be annoying or overbearing, and sometimes I just don't have anything to talk about. I personally wouldn't worry too much about it. If it bothers you mention it to him.

I tried, but I'm thinking maybe he got upset I didn't say it back? But then he said that I make him really happy. And then nothing.

I'm just totally grrr face right now.

Im all or nothing, so I'm like I'm willing to try to do this thing and hes like mia

Patience is not my strongest suit neither is being ignored that really is hard for me to handle without a warning or an explanation..

Sigh

😢

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It is very important to a venus in cap to know where they stand. They need to feel secure and need to know you feel the same. Otherwise they pull back due to feeling vulnerable.

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@degenerate_ingenue

Yes girl yessss...

I'm like okay you can do what you want to but at least have the decency to tell me a warning like I don't mind if you're busy but I have a problem when you just go ghost and you don't say a word and me being me I'm going to be thinking the worst possible scenario because I already have issues trusting people so you do something like that I'm thinking okay you know... either I did something or you don't like something but you know that's just not cool with me. tell me something at least. His phone isnt cut off or dead so wtf. I expect you to be more mature about this since you're the one who started talking to me and pursing me in the first place.

It looks like all the VIC are just same. Mine do this too and it really annoys me I even jokingly call him ghost because he just disappears suddenly without any warning. I have told him numerous times that I don't want him 24/7 I really don't mind if he is busy but at least tell me that you are busy with something so that I don't spend the entire time wondering what could have happened and making all the scenarios in my mind. 😛

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Posted by Foreverloveme
I'm like that, just because I don't want to be annoying or overbearing, and sometimes I just don't have anything to talk about. I personally wouldn't worry too much about it. If it bothers you mention it to him.

I tried, but I'm thinking maybe he got upset I didn't say it back? But then he said that I make him really happy. And then nothing.

I'm just totally grrr face right now.

Im all or nothing, so I'm like I'm willing to try to do this thing and hes like mia

Patience is not my strongest suit neither is being ignored that really is hard for me to handle without a warning or an explanation..

Sigh

😢

It is very important to a venus in cap to know where they stand. They need to feel secure and need to know you feel the same. Otherwise they pull back due to feeling vulnerable.

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Hey truecap does your VIC also do these ghost acts without informing what he is actually doing ??

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Oh need to find me some VIC peeps. I like it alot. Lol similar to VIT almost. Nice.

Im always attracting earthy men minus the last Gemini venus, most of my ex's have been venus in virgos

How did that work out?

I am sorry but I think VIG not capable understanding seriousness with the VIT or VIC. Lol maybe Venus in Capricorn and Gemini or Virgo in Venus. But not sure makes me nervous VIG with VIT. Maybe you change alot to be with him.

That didn't work actually I mean we're still friends though but yeah that just didn't work out for multiple reasons and I should have thought like okay you know Venus in Geminis not that big of a deal because my Mars is in Leo but it's in 3rd house so I'm like you know I kinda understand the whole you want constant variety constant change you don't really want to be like stuck in something boring or something that's repetitive I don't even know like I don't even think that that's the case with this person honestly there's just like a lot of outside obstacles that got in the way of us having a solid relationship.

and it's like okay I could obviously see the clear solution to everything but he couldn't so I'm like he wasn't willing to actually do anything about it so just like oh you know that's hard it's too hard and I'm like okay well then don't do anything so that's just like it was crazy.

Sweet guy but he's like lazy in a way. To relax and i was seriously considering him. Too serious and I had to retreat from that.

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Damn feels like emotional roller coaster like you tried but he didn't feel the need to. Bullshit no one is god. And yeah maybe was one of those experiences to when I grew up i don't need that, you need alittle more uphm of consistency.......Or yeah got to compromise together but that doesn't work, got to separate..

Give me consistent and security over flirty not dependable on shit, too many woman, and never on time doesn't bother to call only when he wants too, OR doesn't feel to change to hear the other out. Nah good luck with this one just some hiccups.

Do these hiccups with current situation change? you know someone times shouldn't always be keep addressing really simple things like call me and say good night text or phone call, or schedule a date and stick to it, or if it's LDR got to talk alot when ever and keep progressing...

VIC are similar to VIT we are earth sign we love stability and adventure but it has to be the right mix.

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Posted by Foreverloveme
I'm like that, just because I don't want to be annoying or overbearing, and sometimes I just don't have anything to talk about. I personally wouldn't worry too much about it. If it bothers you mention it to him.

I tried, but I'm thinking maybe he got upset I didn't say it back? But then he said that I make him really happy. And then nothing.

I'm just totally grrr face right now.

Im all or nothing, so I'm like I'm willing to try to do this thing and hes like mia

Patience is not my strongest suit neither is being ignored that really is hard for me to handle without a warning or an explanation..

Sigh

😢

It is very important to a venus in cap to know where they stand. They need to feel secure and need to know you feel the same. Otherwise they pull back due to feeling vulnerable.

Hey truecap does your VIC also do these ghost acts without informing what he is actually doing ??

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Maybe occasionally in the beginning. Not often. He usually volunteered an explanation if it did happen.

As our relationship progressed, I just learned his routine and could usually guess why he would be slow to respond.

It would drive me crazy if he responded slowly but I'd tell myself to have faith. Then he'd respond with explanations. I never had to ask.

ViC takes relationships seriously. They're not players. I don't think I've ever met one who did FWB. If they're coming around they're interested. They are one woman people.

You gals just need to chill out and have faith. If they're disappearing they're actually busy with work, family or friends.

Someone mentioned wanting a warning. Well sometimes things just come up. Relax. Stop analyzing. Trust. Stop letting your imagination take over.

The longer you're with them, the less you'll worry.

@truecap

Okay, thank you for that.

I know you're right. I have to try to relax lol

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ViC takes relationships seriously. They're not players. I don't think I've ever met one who did FWB. If they're coming around they're interested. They are one woman people.

You gals just need to chill out and have faith. If they're disappearing they're actually busy with work, family or friends.

Someone mentioned wanting a warning. Well sometimes things just come up. Relax. Stop analyzing. Trust. Stop letting your imagination take over.

The longer you're with them, the less you'll worry.

Thanks for the reassurance truecap and yeah I agree with all you've said they are one women's people and if they are comming around that meàns they are intrested. We just have to keep our (self admitted) insecurities in check 🙂

It's so hard sometimes lol

But he talked me, everything is okay between us.

yes he's extremely busy with work etc.. i can understand, (or I'll have to force myself to understand and not be so dam selfish all of the time.)