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Okay an actual venus in capricorn question?
When you guys are stressed out, or even sick, do you prefer to keep to yourself and not accept help unless it is absolutely necessary?
Like would you prefer to handle things yourself and not get others involved?
I prefer to get through it myself. I dont want to bother anyone.
However my ex sag would demand to know and demand to help me. When i would be upset, he demanded to know what was looking bothering me. I could have kept it to myself but i do feel like it brought me closer to him.
Its a case by case example. Some ppl can really just fuck off
I love stability and long term relationships. I'm also more on action than words. I'm picky and I prefer matured person (age or experience)
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI love to DO for my mate in every way possible.
Hello there
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I want to know more about you all who have this placement! In your opinion how would you describe Venus in Capricorn. How you love, what you love etc... just whatever you'd like to share
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Okay an actual venus in capricorn question?
When you guys are stressed out, or even sick, do you prefer to keep to yourself and not accept help unless it is absolutely necessary?
Like would you prefer to handle things yourself and not get others involved?
Mine keeps such things to himself, like last week he was sick and was vomiting all night but didn't tell me untill three days later and upon asking that why didn't you tell me he said I didn't want you to vomit too. Lol wtf
Posted by DMVOh okay I see lolPosted by HarleyTwinFlame
Okay an actual venus in capricorn question?
When you guys are stressed out, or even sick, do you prefer to keep to yourself and not accept help unless it is absolutely necessary?
Like would you prefer to handle things yourself and not get others involved?
I prefer to get through it myself. I dont want to bother anyone.
However my ex sag would demand to know and demand to help me. When i would be upset, he demanded to know what was looking bothering me. I could have kept it to myself but i do feel like it brought me closer to him.
Its a case by case example. Some ppl can really just fuck off
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Hmm.. I'll try not to pry. I am a prying type of person honestly, but only because I live to help people. Especially in love. I love to be useful or needed.
I'll keep that in mind. Lol
Posted by ForeverlovemeYeah i can see that... he mentioned some stuff was going on but he's got it, and he doesn't want to drag me into it. Work/health related.Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Okay an actual venus in capricorn question?
When you guys are stressed out, or even sick, do you prefer to keep to yourself and not accept help unless it is absolutely necessary?
Like would you prefer to handle things yourself and not get others involved?
Keep to myself. I'll let you in on what's going on if & when I'm ready...either I've resolved it & tell you after the fact or it's overly stressful & I tell you to prevent me from shutting down completely...
I could see males with this placement definitely keeping it in
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I'll respect that.
I shouldn't have no reason to be offended then
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameThey do keep things to themselves, especially those with more earth in other placements, put a strain on me and one of my ex previously.
Okay an actual venus in capricorn question?
When you guys are stressed out, or even sick, do you prefer to keep to yourself and not accept help unless it is absolutely necessary?
Like would you prefer to handle things yourself and not get others involved?
2 of my exs were VIC and the guy I m currently seeing is a VIC. They never disappear. The current guy I m dating is definitely very busy at work, mature in age (less the staying connected via txt kind), but he makes an effort to stay in touch everyday. Apart from the initial mth, there will be a day every wk tht he doesnt txt me.
One of my VIC ex is a pisces sun, mercury and aquarius mars, he never ever disappear before and during the r/s. He travels a lot and is tired from tht, but never fail to txt me before and after he lands.
Posted by anna1Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Okay an actual venus in capricorn question?
When you guys are stressed out, or even sick, do you prefer to keep to yourself and not accept help unless it is absolutely necessary?
Like would you prefer to handle things yourself and not get others involved?
Mine keeps such things to himself, like last week he was sick and was vomiting all night but didn't tell me untill three days later and upon asking that why didn't you tell me he said I didn't want you to vomit too. Lol wtf
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He doesn't want to burden you with it.
Posted by ForeverlovemeOhhh ok maybe not all then, these are just 3 of the guys I met, 1 late 20s at that time, 2 late 30s.Posted by Jalent99Posted by HarleyTwinFlameThey do keep things to themselves, especially those with more earth in other placements, put a strain on me and one of my ex previously.
Okay an actual venus in capricorn question?
When you guys are stressed out, or even sick, do you prefer to keep to yourself and not accept help unless it is absolutely necessary?
Like would you prefer to handle things yourself and not get others involved?
2 of my exs were VIC and the guy I m currently seeing is a VIC. They never disappear. The current guy I m dating is definitely very busy at work, mature in age (less the staying connected via txt kind), but he makes an effort to stay in touch everyday. Apart from the initial mth, there will be a day every wk tht he doesnt txt me.
One of my VIC ex is a pisces sun, mercury and aquarius mars, he never ever disappear before and during the r/s. He travels a lot and is tired from tht, but never fail to txt me before and after he lands.
I'm capable of disappearing when upset sometimes just to keep from lashing out at people, especially those who have nothing to do with why I'm upset. Same applies when stressed because I don't want to feel as if I'm always complaining or being negative.
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Posted by LittlePieces62Gotcha lol
But funny is when you come to me with your problem I will help you. But hate to ask others to help me.
More ViC questions
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1. Can you separate love and sex?
2. What are your deal breakers in a relationship?
3. How important are your family and friend relationships to you?
4. What kind of personalities are you drawn to?
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1. Can you separate love and sex?
2. What are your deal breakers in a relationship?
3. How important are your family and friend relationships to you?
4. What kind of personalities are you drawn to?
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
More ViC questions
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1. Can you separate love and sex? Yes
2. What are your deal breakers in a relationship? No job, no goals, bad hygiene, disrespectul behavior, cant behave in public, no home training
3. How important are your family and friend relationships to you? Utmost
4. What kind of personalities are you drawn to? Stable yet alluring
So to summarize
Slow and steady, likes goal oriented people, money: don't have to be rich but earn something and make effort to be responsible with it, protective and loving, take pride in maintaining close relationships, likes uniqueness and stability.
Slow and steady, likes goal oriented people, money: don't have to be rich but earn something and make effort to be responsible with it, protective and loving, take pride in maintaining close relationships, likes uniqueness and stability.
1. What makes you fall out of love?
2. Do you forgive easy? Would you or have you ever gotten back with an ex who has wronged you in the past?
3. How do you handle breakups? (If you're the one doing it.)
4. How do you handle being rejected or dumped?
2. Do you forgive easy? Would you or have you ever gotten back with an ex who has wronged you in the past?
3. How do you handle breakups? (If you're the one doing it.)
4. How do you handle being rejected or dumped?
1. No job. Disrespect
2. I forgave the one and only ex i had. I dont regret it cause everything happens for a reason. But no second chances anymore. Im too old for that shit. You do me wrong once, youll just up the ante on me again and again.
3. Ive only broken up one time. I had to get a court order. The judge broke us up. If i meet a guy and i dont like whats going on, i give him his walking papers and tell him exactly why. Usually be phone or text. Then i amputate.
4. My ego does not.like thag shyt. Hits me hard. I become a bitch and a brat. Don't expect friendship from me
2. I forgave the one and only ex i had. I dont regret it cause everything happens for a reason. But no second chances anymore. Im too old for that shit. You do me wrong once, youll just up the ante on me again and again.
3. Ive only broken up one time. I had to get a court order. The judge broke us up. If i meet a guy and i dont like whats going on, i give him his walking papers and tell him exactly why. Usually be phone or text. Then i amputate.
4. My ego does not.like thag shyt. Hits me hard. I become a bitch and a brat. Don't expect friendship from me
Posted by truecapPosted by Ninjagirl
My libra has venus scorpio also and I definately get his 'not show too much too soon' thing. For me as a venus cap once I'm made secure and safe I'll dish most out knowing I'm protected and same for him but he's definately more reserved and private.
My role would be to provide our safe space for him to share when he feels ready. I seem to get more out of him with a laid-back 'free' approach.
I think the main thing of venus cap is our stability. We have your back. The only time it's done will be due to a lack of respect because we let you know from the beginning what's what. Mess up once and you're out. On one hand it's a very basic black and white mindset which works (in fantasy) but the reality is much more of an internal struggle to try to grapple with the grey areas.
I have venus in scorpio and he has venus in cap. I like how he makes me feel secure in our relationship. ViS needs that. Loyalty is very big for ViS and I feel he's loyal.click to expand
I have Venus in Scorpio and my Sag has his Venus in Cap. I definitley feel a connection I've never felt before. It feels very secure. Loyalty is very big for us...I just feel Venus in cap is the best match for my ViS.
You too?
Yeah this guy confuses me at times but it's nice to know I can relax a little... I'm used to freaking out and sometimes my insecurities come up but I'm learning to be grateful and enjoy his company more than be suspicious.
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Yeah this guy confuses me at times but it's nice to know I can relax a little... I'm used to freaking out and sometimes my insecurities come up but I'm learning to be grateful and enjoy his company more than be suspicious.
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Posted by ForeverlovemeYes it is. My guy was the same way and once we established that trust and discussed exactly what we wanted... The plans started for him (for our future). Lol He's never gone ghost on me (in fact he can't stay away from me for too long), but we are very upfront about our feelings for each other.
It is very important to a venus in cap to know where they stand. They need to feel secure and need to know you feel the same. Otherwise they pull back due to feeling vulnerable.
^Yes this is very true
Posted by jane84How long did it take for him to feel secure and start a relationship? Any air signs in the rest of him? Just for my ref in my current situation....thanks!Posted by ForeverlovemeYes it is. My guy was the same way and once we established that trust and discussed exactly what we wanted... The plans started for him (for our future). Lol He's never gone ghost on me (in fact he can't stay away from me for too long), but we are very upfront about our feelings for each other.
It is very important to a venus in cap to know where they stand. They need to feel secure and need to know you feel the same. Otherwise they pull back due to feeling vulnerable.
^Yes this is very true
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Posted by Jalent99It took him less time than it normally takes me. I'm a triple Libra... I would say about 3 months. However, we were friends and he ended up taking me on a road trip to see a family member that was in need of my help. It was a 12 hour trip to see them. He said it was after that trip that he knew he wanted to pursue me because he saw things in me he'd want in a partner. Plus it was a long trip and we never once got on each others' nerves. Lol I was there for my family, helpful, loving, passionate about the things I believed in, and treated everyone with respect that we encountered. He said he really liked that about me. Said he knew I was stable and able to take care of myself and others. After that we just became closer and closer. It felt like I had my best friend with me and he felt the same..someone we could count on.Posted by jane84How long did it take for him to feel secure and start a relationship? Any air signs in the rest of him? Just for my ref in my current situation....thanks!Posted by ForeverlovemeYes it is. My guy was the same way and once we established that trust and discussed exactly what we wanted... The plans started for him (for our future). Lol He's never gone ghost on me (in fact he can't stay away from me for too long), but we are very upfront about our feelings for each other.
It is very important to a venus in cap to know where they stand. They need to feel secure and need to know you feel the same. Otherwise they pull back due to feeling vulnerable.
^Yes this is very true
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Anyway...he does not have much air...all fire, earth, and water.
Hope that helps!
@jane84
He has a critical air in moon....guess we need more time together then. We are comfortable with each other but I dont know him well enough and vice versa for us to know how stable we both are. I like the best friend part, thats what I seek for in a partner too.....
He has a critical air in moon....guess we need more time together then. We are comfortable with each other but I dont know him well enough and vice versa for us to know how stable we both are. I like the best friend part, thats what I seek for in a partner too.....
Posted by DMVLol seems like most of you agree 1. Is related to money/jobs
1. No job. Disrespect
2. I forgave the one and only ex i had. I dont regret it cause everything happens for a reason. But no second chances anymore. Im too old for that shit. You do me wrong once, youll just up the ante on me again and again.
3. Ive only broken up one time. I had to get a court order. The judge broke us up. If i meet a guy and i dont like whats going on, i give him his walking papers and tell him exactly why. Usually be phone or text. Then i amputate.
4. My ego does not.like thag shyt. Hits me hard. I become a bitch and a brat. Don't expect friendship from me
Would you stand by your man if he had a job when you met him buto lost it and had trouble finding a new one for let's say over a year? Even if you loved him would you leave?
I'm lover not a fighter towards cap. But I will end up challenging your physical strength as a VIT. Mars in Taurus can square off anytime.
I really don't know if I can handle this anymore
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All this guy does is work and come home sleep and one day off and that's spent half sleeping the other half with his kid. And I'm lucky if I get a text a day anymore.
Like wtf... you pursue me then this?
I hate feeling like I'm wasting my time but this guy seems to be focusing on everything but me.. I wonder if I'll ever have a place..
Like wtf... you pursue me then this?
I hate feeling like I'm wasting my time but this guy seems to be focusing on everything but me.. I wonder if I'll ever have a place..
I should probably end things... I really don't like my efforts wasted..
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I'm gonna break up with him.
He's sweet and all but maybe right now isn't the best of times for a relationship. I don't think he can handle that which I wonder why he even started one to begin with. Whatever...
And no I won't judge you lovely cap venus people
I still like this venus very much
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I'm gonna break up with him.
He's sweet and all but maybe right now isn't the best of times for a relationship. I don't think he can handle that which I wonder why he even started one to begin with. Whatever...
And no I won't judge you lovely cap venus people
I still like this venus very much
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI would leave after a year. there are so many ways to make money. I would be a very supportive partner. but I would also recognize when I start to become a hindrance, a crutch, etc.Posted by DMVLol seems like most of you agree 1. Is related to money/jobs
1. No job. Disrespect
2. I forgave the one and only ex i had. I dont regret it cause everything happens for a reason. But no second chances anymore. Im too old for that shit. You do me wrong once, youll just up the ante on me again and again.
3. Ive only broken up one time. I had to get a court order. The judge broke us up. If i meet a guy and i dont like whats going on, i give him his walking papers and tell him exactly why. Usually be phone or text. Then i amputate.
4. My ego does not.like thag shyt. Hits me hard. I become a bitch and a brat. Don't expect friendship from me
Would you stand by your man if he had a job when you met him buto lost it and had trouble finding a new one for let's say over a year? Even if you loved him would you leave?
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im currently working on my own personal goals so im not working full time anymore. I would hope to meet a supportive partner especially since ive felt the anxiety,
Posted by truecapvery true,
ViC takes relationships seriously. They're not players. I don't think I've ever met one who did FWB. If they're coming around they're interested. They are one woman people.
You gals just need to chill out and have faith. If they're disappearing they're actually busy with work, family or friends.
Someone mentioned wanting a warning. Well sometimes things just come up. Relax. Stop analyzing. Trust. Stop letting your imagination take over.
The longer you're with them, the less you'll worry.
I don't however seem to have this problem with men 7 years and older from me. they understand space and attention from afar.
I am a clingy partner tho. I really like to sink my teeth into a person. just not everyday 🙂
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI think remember you saying that he also has a moon and mars in aries? with a venus in Capricorn, he is a very cardinal individual. will prefer to initiate always. cardinal people like to control when to go for things and hate being forced to do something. they have to feel like they initiated somehow.
All this guy does is work and come home sleep and one day off and that's spent half sleeping the other half with his kid. And I'm lucky if I get a text a day anymore.
Like wtf... you pursue me then this?
I hate feeling like I'm wasting my time but this guy seems to be focusing on everything but me.. I wonder if I'll ever have a place..
whats his sun again? as a sag sometimes a man has to fight his way into my life. so used to do my own thing.
as a venus in Capricorn, I love it when someone asks me "where do I stand?" so you could ask him where you stand.
its worrisome tho because a venus in cap will want to spend quality time with someone they're interested in. its a definite love language,
Posted by DMVCap sun moon and mars in aries, Aquarius Mercury...Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI think remember you saying that he also has a moon and mars in aries? with a venus in Capricorn, he is a very cardinal individual. will prefer to initiate always. cardinal people like to control when to go for things and hate being forced to do something. they have to feel like they initiated somehow.
All this guy does is work and come home sleep and one day off and that's spent half sleeping the other half with his kid. And I'm lucky if I get a text a day anymore.
Like wtf... you pursue me then this?
I hate feeling like I'm wasting my time but this guy seems to be focusing on everything but me.. I wonder if I'll ever have a place..
whats his sun again? as a sag sometimes a man has to fight his way into my life. so used to do my own thing.
as a venus in Capricorn, I love it when someone asks me "where do I stand?" so you could ask him where you stand.
its worrisome tho because a venus in cap will want to spend quality time with someone they're interested in. its a definite love language,
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The deed is done now. I left a voice mail and a series of texts and I have no regrets. Only sad because he was actually hubby material and the best sex I've ever had.
I dont think he meant to be mean or anything like that it's just he bit off more than he can chew and im like 5th in his life and he hardly makes it to 3 on a daily basis so where tf are we going?
Le sigh...
Posted by ForeverlovemeI hope at least he'll say something back. At least he seems reasonable and sweet enough to talk.. I'd like to know where he stood. And if anything we take a break while his life calms down a bit.. because I can be impulsive and dramatic. I take this as a huge hit to my ego being ignored and not talked to in feel like I've chosen wrong... but now that I've calmed down a bit I can be more patient only if he doesn't shut me 100% even a little effort is okay w/ me.
You have to do what's best for you. Wish you the best 🙂
That's if i haven't already ruined things
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So I guess something weird happened and he never got my text or my call wtf... that saved my dumb ass for overreacting.
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We didn't talk things through fully but im hoping I can see him this week and we can talk.
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We didn't talk things through fully but im hoping I can see him this week and we can talk.
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Venus in Capricorns:
Have you ever cheated? Why?
Thoughts on marriage?
How would you describe your personal style in a few words? (How you dress, etc.)
Have you ever cheated? Why?
Thoughts on marriage?
How would you describe your personal style in a few words? (How you dress, etc.)
This sounds just like the situation I'm going through with my VIC. Haven't seen him in almost 2 weeks 😢 He'll call and text me consistently, but hasn't made any plans.... I was just about ready to break up with him until I read this. I don't want to risk overreacting and saying or do something I'll regret. I think I need to be fair and share how I'm feeling allowing him a chance to make things better.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameNope, never
Venus in Capricorns:
Have you ever cheated? Why?
Thoughts on marriage?
How would you describe your personal style in a few words? (How you dress, etc.)
Still death do we part
Im a rooster, so im a showboat
Posted by LolaRedAlways be apart of the solution. Tell him he has to eat
This sounds just like the situation I'm going through with my VIC. Haven't seen him in almost 2 weeks 😢 He'll call and text me consistently, but hasn't made any plans.... I was just about ready to break up with him until I read this. I don't want to risk overreacting and saying or do something I'll regret. I think I need to be fair and share how I'm feeling allowing him a chance to make things better.
I feel the same that he seems so interested in me at the beginning text a lot and make joke also plan a bit of the future with me but yet after a month conversation he text me less I'm confused, I can't be sure anymore is he still interested in me.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI dated 3 (married 1) and I can assure you, that this is not a happy thread if you're indeed going to talk about Goat Venus
Hello there
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I want to know more about you all who have this placement! In your opinion how would you describe Venus in Capricorn. How you love, what you love etc... just whatever you'd like to share
This is a happy thread
Posted by RamOfPeaceGoat venusPosted by HarleyTwinFlameI dated 3 (married 1) and I can assure you, that this is not a happy thread if you're indeed going to talk about Goat Venus
Hello there
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I want to know more about you all who have this placement! In your opinion how would you describe Venus in Capricorn. How you love, what you love etc... just whatever you'd like to share
This is a happy thread
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Posted by Foreverloveme+1 to you too
Love stability. I look for long term relationships, I'm picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Love someone who is financially secure, I'm a giver. I like to give all my partners something unique & memorable during the relationship. Letting go is hard for me if things don't work out.
Posted by Foreverloveme
Love stability. I look for long term relationships, I'm picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Love someone who is financially secure, I'm a giver. I like to give all my partners something unique & memorable during the relationship. Letting go is hard for me if things don't work out.
So accurate! I've always been like this.
However as somebody who's had one too many encounters with players, I feel I've become closed off.. Which, as a Pisces sun/moon, took a lot. I was easily taken advantage of. I feel like something has shifted and I now only put my own self interests first, and if somebody does something unbecoming or is too clingy, I'm gone..
It's almost like I've locked my heart up in an ice tower. I don't know if things will ever change. I also have a ton of other cap in my chart, besides Venus, though.
This placement... it makes me % -}
Best placement besides Taurus moon! ?
Best placement besides Taurus moon! ?
Also, to summarize, I recently went on a "date" (friends, but he wanted more) to see a local band. He was being a little cocky and was asked to leave the venue for the night. I decided to stay, since there were other people I knew there, and also didn't want to associate myself with that type of behaviour. Here's what had to say about my attitude afterwords.
"Didn't you read? I didn't do anything! Geez sorry your more worried about how this reflects on you, so thanks for your concern for me! Have nice life, thought u were a nice person?"
Moral of the story: don't f*** up with a Venus in Capricorn.
"Didn't you read? I didn't do anything! Geez sorry your more worried about how this reflects on you, so thanks for your concern for me! Have nice life, thought u were a nice person?"
Moral of the story: don't f*** up with a Venus in Capricorn.
C0cky* not chickeny, lol. Weird how it changed.
Leo guy.
Leo guy.
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