Capricorn woman Friendzone or more

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maple485
@maple485
10 Years

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I've met her a year ago (almost 2), we were acquaintances, we hangout with a bunch of friends. But slowly, we got to know more about each other. We share similar talks, interest, and values. Eventually we went out alone, alot. more than 10 times, it becomes a regular basis.
We went for movies, shopping, dinner, orchestras. There were intimate moments, where we would look each other in the eye, but no one makes a move. & yea, I have fallen for her.

I'm still in doubt whether she still wants something more than a friendship.
She calls me "bruh" on multiple occasions, in front of my friends, and appear cold & distant.
But I know cappy girls, I give her alot of space, & patience (yeah) & be there when she needed me to.

& there was One time, she saw something she'd really like but couldn't afford it, & i offered to buy it for her as an advance birthday present, she agreed. She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened, same business as usual.

So I really need to know does she want something more than a friendship?
If yes, should I make a move or give her time, she'll do it when the time comes?
I’m a Cancerian, by the way.
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truecap
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13 Years10,000+ Posts

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Posted by maple485
I've met her a year ago (almost 2), we were acquaintances, we hangout with a bunch of friends. But slowly, we got to know more about each other. We share similar talks, interest, and values. Eventually we went out alone, alot. more than 10 times, it becomes a regular basis.
We went for movies, shopping, dinner, orchestras. There were intimate moments, where we would look each other in the eye, but no one makes a move. & yea, I have fallen for her.

I'm still in doubt whether she still wants something more than a friendship.
She calls me "bruh" on multiple occasions, in front of my friends, and appear cold & distant.
But I know cappy girls, I give her alot of space, & patience (yeah) & be there when she needed me to.

& there was One time, she saw something she'd really like but couldn't afford it, & i offered to buy it for her as an advance birthday present, she agreed. She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened, same business as usual.

So I really need to know does she want something more than a friendship?
If yes, should I make a move or give her time, she'll do it when the time comes?
I’m a Cancerian, by the way.
Cappy girls expect a man to be a man. So man up and make a move on her. Geesh! It's a wonder she's even still around and hasn't found someone else yet.
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"She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened,"
She flirted with you and you didn't make your move. Of course she's going to save face and act like nothing happened.
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"appear cold & distant"
If she likes you, she's probably monitoring herself because you haven't even told her you like her. How else is she supposed to act when you haven't made a move. She probably thinks you don't like her.
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" but no one makes a move."
You're the man. This is YOUR job. You're staring in each other's eyes and you didn't even make a move to kiss her? Geesh!
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She must like you or she wouldn't hang around this long.



So, man up!!!! Either make a move or friend zone it. But, make a decision, for Heaven's sake. You're thinking too much, just do it already!









Freak
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maple485
@maple485
10 Years

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Posted by maple485
I've met her a year ago (almost 2), we were acquaintances, we hangout with a bunch of friends. But slowly, we got to know more about each other. We share similar talks, interest, and values. Eventually we went out alone, alot. more than 10 times, it becomes a regular basis.
We went for movies, shopping, dinner, orchestras. There were intimate moments, where we would look each other in the eye, but no one makes a move. & yea, I have fallen for her.

I'm still in doubt whether she still wants something more than a friendship.
She calls me "bruh" on multiple occasions, in front of my friends, and appear cold & distant.
But I know cappy girls, I give her alot of space, & patience (yeah) & be there when she needed me to.

& there was One time, she saw something she'd really like but couldn't afford it, & i offered to buy it for her as an advance birthday present, she agreed. She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened, same business as usual.

So I really need to know does she want something more than a friendship?
If yes, should I make a move or give her time, she'll do it when the time comes?
I’m a Cancerian, by the way.
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Cappy girls expect a man to be a man. So man up and make a move on her. Geesh! It's a wonder she's even still around and hasn't found someone else yet.
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"She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened,"
She flirted with you and you didn't make your move. Of course she's going to save face and act like nothing happened.
------------------------------

"appear cold & distant"
If she likes you, she's probably monitoring herself because you haven't even told her you like her. How else is she supposed to act when you haven't made a move. She probably thinks you don't like her.
----------------------------------------------
" but no one makes a move."
You're the man. This is YOUR job. You're staring in each other's eyes and you didn't even make a move to kiss her? Geesh!
-----------------------------------------------

She must like you or she wouldn't hang around this long.
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truecap
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Posted by IndependentCappy
@True cap I'm a Capricorn who's also dating a similar man (nothe to be rude @Cancerian) but that was ON point that's exactly how I feel in my situation.
similar man huh? if he were to make a move & confess his feelings, what way do you think it's best doing?
just asking.
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Be direct and come right out and say "I want to be with you". Cappys respect directness.
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Posted by maple485
Posted by IndependentCappy
@True cap I'm a Capricorn who's also dating a similar man (nothe to be rude @Cancerian) but that was ON point that's exactly how I feel in my situation.
similar man huh? if he were to make a move & confess his feelings, what way do you think it's best doing?
just asking.
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Just don't be all sappy when you confess your feelings. And don't sound needy. Thus, the comment about being direct and confident.