
maple485
@maple485
10 Years
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Posted by Impulsvwhich is why i'm here. advice?
It doesn't matter. What are you going to do to find out?

Posted by Impulsvnoh, not bi sexual, lol.
Not sure if this is bi sexual but if ur the man after all these years I think u can make a move now.

Posted by maple485Cappy girls expect a man to be a man. So man up and make a move on her. Geesh! It's a wonder she's even still around and hasn't found someone else yet.
I've met her a year ago (almost 2), we were acquaintances, we hangout with a bunch of friends. But slowly, we got to know more about each other. We share similar talks, interest, and values. Eventually we went out alone, alot. more than 10 times, it becomes a regular basis.
We went for movies, shopping, dinner, orchestras. There were intimate moments, where we would look each other in the eye, but no one makes a move. & yea, I have fallen for her.
I'm still in doubt whether she still wants something more than a friendship.
She calls me "bruh" on multiple occasions, in front of my friends, and appear cold & distant.
But I know cappy girls, I give her alot of space, & patience (yeah) & be there when she needed me to.
& there was One time, she saw something she'd really like but couldn't afford it, & i offered to buy it for her as an advance birthday present, she agreed. She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened, same business as usual.
So I really need to know does she want something more than a friendship?
If yes, should I make a move or give her time, she'll do it when the time comes?
I’m a Cancerian, by the way.


Posted by truecapPosted by maple485Cappy girls expect a man to be a man. So man up and make a move on her. Geesh! It's a wonder she's even still around and hasn't found someone else yet.
I've met her a year ago (almost 2), we were acquaintances, we hangout with a bunch of friends. But slowly, we got to know more about each other. We share similar talks, interest, and values. Eventually we went out alone, alot. more than 10 times, it becomes a regular basis.
We went for movies, shopping, dinner, orchestras. There were intimate moments, where we would look each other in the eye, but no one makes a move. & yea, I have fallen for her.
I'm still in doubt whether she still wants something more than a friendship.
She calls me "bruh" on multiple occasions, in front of my friends, and appear cold & distant.
But I know cappy girls, I give her alot of space, & patience (yeah) & be there when she needed me to.
& there was One time, she saw something she'd really like but couldn't afford it, & i offered to buy it for her as an advance birthday present, she agreed. She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened, same business as usual.
So I really need to know does she want something more than a friendship?
If yes, should I make a move or give her time, she'll do it when the time comes?
I’m a Cancerian, by the way.click to expand
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"She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened,"
She flirted with you and you didn't make your move. Of course she's going to save face and act like nothing happened.
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"appear cold & distant"
If she likes you, she's probably monitoring herself because you haven't even told her you like her. How else is she supposed to act when you haven't made a move. She probably thinks you don't like her.
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" but no one makes a move."
You're the man. This is YOUR job. You're staring in each other's eyes and you didn't even make a move to kiss her? Geesh!
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She must like you or she wouldn't hang around this long.

Posted by truecapy-yes ma'am ._.
Didn't mean to add freak on that.
I was going to say freakin' cancers.....smh
But I changed my mind.


Posted by truecapYou did. thanks. I just asked her to go to prom with me, she said yes. 🙂
Hope I encouraged you.

Posted by IndependentCappysimilar man huh? if he were to make a move & confess his feelings, what way do you think it's best doing?
@True cap I'm a Capricorn who's also dating a similar man (nothe to be rude @Cancerian) but that was ON point that's exactly how I feel in my situation.

Posted by IndependentCappyI've dated cancers in the past, so I had that experience to draw on.
@True cap I'm a Capricorn who's also dating a similar man (nothe to be rude @Cancerian) but that was ON point that's exactly how I feel in my situation.

Posted by maple485Yay!!!!!!Posted by truecapYou did. thanks. I just asked her to go to prom with me, she said yes. 🙂
Hope I encouraged you.click to expand

Posted by maple485Be direct and come right out and say "I want to be with you". Cappys respect directness.Posted by IndependentCappysimilar man huh? if he were to make a move & confess his feelings, what way do you think it's best doing?
@True cap I'm a Capricorn who's also dating a similar man (nothe to be rude @Cancerian) but that was ON point that's exactly how I feel in my situation.
just asking.click to expand

Posted by maple485Just don't be all sappy when you confess your feelings. And don't sound needy. Thus, the comment about being direct and confident.Posted by IndependentCappysimilar man huh? if he were to make a move & confess his feelings, what way do you think it's best doing?
@True cap I'm a Capricorn who's also dating a similar man (nothe to be rude @Cancerian) but that was ON point that's exactly how I feel in my situation.
just asking.click to expand
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We went for movies, shopping, dinner, orchestras. There were intimate moments, where we would look each other in the eye, but no one makes a move. & yea, I have fallen for her.
I'm still in doubt whether she still wants something more than a friendship.
She calls me "bruh" on multiple occasions, in front of my friends, and appear cold & distant.
But I know cappy girls, I give her alot of space, & patience (yeah) & be there when she needed me to.
& there was One time, she saw something she'd really like but couldn't afford it, & i offered to buy it for her as an advance birthday present, she agreed. She was pretty flirty that day, but the next day....she's like nothing ever happened, same business as usual.
So I really need to know does she want something more than a friendship?
If yes, should I make a move or give her time, she'll do it when the time comes?
I’m a Cancerian, by the way.