Capricorns and Ego

As it seems to many other signs of zodiac that Capricorns are naturally stubborn and egoistic. And of course I consider them two of the most bad traits in my personality. I am working on changing my behavior and things that harm me and my significant others . It actually helps me in my work life but in personal life its totally a mess. I am unable to get control on my ego issues specially when I am upset or angry on something. or example if I have a fight with one of my close friends I will turn cold not talking to them even if I realize my ,mistake I try to settle things without apologizing and on other hand when its their mistake they keep saying sorry and apologizing but I don't consider their apology . Its not that I don't care of anyone else its not also about only me but its something else. Like I realized this after losing one of the most precious relations in my life and I can't afford more loss in fact I want to fix the previous ones as well. I want to practice this with small exercises I want to learn how to be sacrificing when it comes to relation ships .

I am here to get some help from you guys as you people have got more experience in life than me and I truly believe that I will be able to change my self because its the time when its my hand how my life would be in future.

Its just like I want to apologize but I can't not even in person or at corner.

Posted by Carolz
As it seems to many other signs of zodiac that Capricorns are naturally stubborn and egoistic. And of course I consider them two of the most bad traits in my personality. I am working on changing my behavior and things that harm me and my significant others . It actually helps me in my work life but in personal life its totally a mess. I am unable to get control on my ego issues specially when I am upset or angry on something. or example if I have a fight with one of my close friends I will turn cold not talking to them even if I realize my ,mistake I try to settle things without apologizing and on other hand when its their mistake they keep saying sorry and apologizing but I don't consider their apology . Its not that I don't care of anyone else its not also about only me but its something else. Like I realized this after losing one of the most precious relations in my life and I can't afford more loss in fact I want to fix the previous ones as well. I want to practice this with small exercises I want to learn how to be sacrificing when it comes to relation ships .

I am here to get some help from you guys as you people have got more experience in life than me and I truly believe that I will be able to change my self because its the time when its my hand how my life would be in future.

If you're wrong and you recognize it, there is no shame in an apology. And there is no shame in accepting one. It takes a big person to realize their own fault in a situation and take ownership of it. People will respect you for it. And isn't having respect more important to a cap than having a big ego?

Posted by FrenchKpricorn
explain the argue, does it was public ?

My arguments are usually in person.

Posted by truecap

Posted by Carolz
As it seems to many other signs of zodiac that Capricorns are naturally stubborn and egoistic. And of course I consider them two of the most bad traits in my personality. I am working on changing my behavior and things that harm me and my significant others . It actually helps me in my work life but in personal life its totally a mess. I am unable to get control on my ego issues specially when I am upset or angry on something. or example if I have a fight with one of my close friends I will turn cold not talking to them even if I realize my ,mistake I try to settle things without apologizing and on other hand when its their mistake they keep saying sorry and apologizing but I don't consider their apology . Its not that I don't care of anyone else its not also about only me but its something else. Like I realized this after losing one of the most precious relations in my life and I can't afford more loss in fact I want to fix the previous ones as well. I want to practice this with small exercises I want to learn how to be sacrificing when it comes to relation ships .

I am here to get some help from you guys as you people have got more experience in life than me and I truly believe that I will be able to change my self because its the time when its my hand how my life would be in future.

If you're wrong and you recognize it, there is no shame in an apology. And there is no shame in accepting one. It takes a big person to realize their own fault in a situation and take ownership of it. People will respect you for it. And isn't having respect more important to a cap than having a big ego?

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I know that respect is more important than ego but it makes it influence on me usually when I am angry or upset. Like then I don't care if people will respect me or hate its just my ego there

my ego can be out of control too, but one thing I can say is that i dont have a problem apologizing if im wrong...granted, i dont recall a time where ive apologized lol, but i dont think it would be an issue. my taurus friend helped put a dent into my ego, now his seem slightly out of control.

anyway, maybe better communication can help. i think we need to communicate much better, and we need to deal with people that are always willing to communicate. when everyone is open and honest maybe there is no need for an ego. idk