disciplinary action

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by pathfinder on Friday, January 20, 2006 and has 11 replies.

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@CapGirl
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I have unfortunately found this to be very true. I have snubbed this man in public on occasion (bc. I was mad at his non-responsiveness/out-of-contact), told him he's a low class azz and that I'm out of his league as we both already knew, told him it'll never work, etc., and he still keeps coming 'round. Most "self-respecting", normal men would leave well enough alone!

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@MyCap
20 Years

Oh yeah I have learned that they want a woman who will do this. I've done it to him and he loves it. I will not take sh!t from him and he knows it. They respect u a lot more for this.

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@shaiessence
20 YearsCancer

Yea i understand what you all are saying. I hate to defintely give him a azz whuppin bad. Im going to leave him alone and not talk to him anymore becuz he's been disrespecting me. . . so therefore i have to do it.

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@MyCap
20 Years

shaiessence,

U have to be strong and stand up for yourself. Don't take any sh!t from him without giving twice as much sh!t back. Show him how u can be strong and not take it from him. Call him out when he's disrespecting you and let him know that u won't put up with him and show him that u won't. That's pretty much what pathfinder means.

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@pathfinder
20 Years1,000+ Posts

See? You ladies get it. I knew you would!

shaiessence, whuppin azz for your cappy could be to throw his azz in jail for statutory rape. He's over 21 and you were under 18 when he got you pregnant.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

On capricorns though just from being friends with them is that i've noticed they like women who can play both roles,the intelligent,reserved,classy,etc. but still strong enough to hold thier ground,be independant,self reliant and stuff as well.Its kinda like that usher song verse "lady in the street,freak in the bed" type vibe I get from them type thing sort of in a different way,the caps here would have to say so on the literal "sex" part though I don't know about that part lol.

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@Wheretomylady
20 Years

Finally! I have said this again and again "ladies stand for yourselves and these guys will respect you!" i will never forget the day I stood up to my cappy, he was never the same after that, now we are closer than ever and I am more myself than ever! When they piss you off, gte on their backs STAT, tell them "hey thats not cool, or pout..." yes, as sad as it seems these guys like a little drama and they want to at least half-believe they are mean asses....they are not, they are big softies, sweet hearts who just want to be loved, BUT at the same time the like a bit of a challenge, give em one, every once and awhile...

PS Dont we all like a challenge?