Dish up the Low down on a Cap male

I don't know you people but strangely enough a couple of months ago I was asking if we'd be compatible....did I have a strange premonition?? I'm a Libra and I have this Cap guy who I spent time with and yes had sex with 3 years ago after his marriage split. We parted amicable because he wanted too much and didn't like being on his own...way too fast for me.

He's sort me out again by visiting my mother, (his old neighbour) to get my numbers to ask me out.

Part of me thinks maybe he is still in that same place of not wanting to be alone...not sure how long ago he and his gf split..and I have only been out of my relationship for 4 months but feel I'm over that...not sure if I want to jump straight into another though.

So dish up the dirt, what are Cap men like? Do they do the hot/cold, do they jump in too fast or are they more cautious...just want a little heads up.

All I can say is the good ones are DAM GOOD! And the bad ones are trouble.
Perhaps, to some their moves are glacial in pace, however, I would counsel well worth the wait =)
He's doing the chasing yeh? Always a positive!

Many men do the chasing in the beginning...it's what they do.

What are the bad ones like? What are the tell tail signs?

Mmmm 1,3 & 4 fits the male species...will take that song into account and listen to my gut instinct when we meet after all this time.

That's a typical Libra trait...my ex

and reading these boards...seems like it fits, Virgo and Cancer...don't get into many other threads but the hot/cold thing seems quite common.

Mmm, not going to sweat it then, not sure about stepping back into anything serious right now. Was thinking maybe because we had been there previously that in his mind, he thinks the door is revolving...and it's not.

His contact is minimal and he's set up lunch for Friday and then also asked me to his place Saturday night for a BBQ get together..find it funny that he didn't wait to see me Friday first before asking for a second date...or why he didn't just go with the BBQ, where others are around.

It's been a couple of years since we saw each other..

Yep, he is...that's why it didn't work last time around. I told him I wasn't looking for a committed relationship and he found someone that was...that has now ended and I'm not sure how long ago.

He did say to me that he should have listened to me 3 years ago when I told him he needed to take time out and find himself...he "might" do it this time but I'm not convinced...guess I'll meet with him and suss him out again...

Other than that he is a real catch...good looking, tall, a carpenter, has a boat, own business...however, I felt more a friend last time around..

what about a Cap with an Aqua moon and Pisces Venus?

Look, my Cap has aqua Venus, it just means partner= best friend...
I mean, when you really boil it down. It isn't this incredibly negative aspect people make it out to be.

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Posted by wagtail
Look, my Cap has aqua Venus, it just means partner= best friend...
I mean, when you really boil it down. It isn't this incredibly negative aspect people make it out to be.

How long have you been together wag?

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Two years 26th of this month...
He has a Scorp Moon, I'm thinking this has been more influential.

Thank you very much! It's been hard work though...hehe Men! Sheesh!
But I'm derailing...
All I can say is I'm a huge fan of the Capricorn in general... And I believe they at well worth the effort =)
Both romantically and friends- wise too.

As suspected...he thought it was a revolving door and struck out!

Don't think I will be hearing from him again.

Because we had a Fwb relationship 4 years ago for a month before finding other partners he assumed that I would sleep with without question this time...lots has changed and I'm no longer interested and he thought that I was still open to it..

Absolutely, who needs that!? At least you pegged sooner rather than later!

I always suspected that would be the case...

Not overly fussed with it as I realised I wasn't really interested in him that way, hence why it never went further 4 years ago.

It's hard to find the perfect man 🙂