Disliking people

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Carolz on Saturday, August 8, 2015 and has 8 replies.

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@Carolz
11 Years

Being a Capricorn its really hard to hide our disliking towards people. But then I tried to look into the reasons that what makes me dislike them.

So there are few things like not being career oriented , emotionally in stable, dependent , negative thinking , being selfish and mean . If these qualities are present in any person I will strongly dislike him or her.

I want to know what are the typical Capricorn dislikeness about people . That they can't hide from them and if not speak it at least show them by their actions 😉

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@KaptainKhaos
11 Years500+ PostsPisces

If you can't learn how to treat people that live a different life than you or live a lifestyle you don't respect. .. it says more about you than the person you don't like.

People are individuals that deserve to express themselves in what ever way they choose. If you don't like that you should stay in the house or learn some self control. Or you can leave the situation.

I'd imagine Capricorn would have very classist, sexist, and tradition based dislikes ie.

Not liking poor people
Not liking women's liberation
Not liking people that don't dress well
Not liking people that they feel are lazy
Not liking women that dress in a revealing way
Not liking women in power
Not liking someone because they are from a poor part of town
Not liking gay people

Caps remind me of the status quo.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I decide whether I like someone based on there character and not what khaos assumes about us. Rich, poor, lifestyle choice, etc I don't care about but character I do. And if I don't like someone it's pretty obvious and it makes no difference to me what they think about it.

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@Carolz
11 Years

This is really a kind of wrong assumption about capricotns they really don't bother these things .. But as true cap said and I mentioned its all about that abstract part of the person like character

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Its all character.

I can care less what someone does with their life because they are adults, and its theirs. We should all have the freedom to live how we want.

I don't like people that don't respect my space/boundaries, are rude, and just mean spirited. Other than that, everyone is cool.

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@SpiceNSugar
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm bound to agree with KaptainKhaos to some degree. As humans, we are all different, having different strengths and weaknesses. Is it reasonable to dislike everyone who is weaker and/or less stable? Personally, I find this way of thinking judgemental and egocentric.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by SpiceNSugar
I'm bound to agree with KaptainKhaos to some degree. As humans, we are all different, having different strengths and weaknesses. Is it reasonable to dislike everyone who is weaker and/or less stable? Personally, I find this way of thinking judgemental and egocentric.

No one on here said they dislike weaker or less stable people.

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@lucieloveless
11 Years

I can't stand relentlessly negative people. People who just constantly talk shit. People who don't respect my privacy. People who judge others for superficial reasons. People who consciously start drama. I can't even hide it. I'll just mentally shut down on you whenever you're around.