End of relationship

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sarasa
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"I have to admit I probably had very few closures with anyone I know. I have moved around a lot. Most of my relationships have faded. The ones I tried the closure thing, I later talked to them again."

I'm like that too....I never want to "end" it with anyone unless they have crossed my limit...and when I do try to "end" it, I end up talking/initiating contact with them once again....

May be it's b/c I fear loss/failure in general....Caps are known for perseverance and endurance in all aspects of their lives (of course the moon signs affect that)...so, they wouldn't want to "give up" so easily....whether it's relationship or other things in life....I have heard a lot of ppl on here say Cancerians have a hard time saying "no" or "letting go"...trust me, I have no cancer in my birth chart and I'm like that...then again, astrology doesn't define your life!
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GEMuine
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My Cap wouldn't give me closure when I asked for it. I blatantly asked for closure and told him exactly what he could say to send me on my merry way. I let him know that I wouldn't be able to move on unless he explicitly told me that he didn't want to pursue anything with me. His reply to that email was a long laugh, then a message that said the distance made it hard for us to communicate and how we had made such great progress the last time we had seen each other.

No closure whatsoever.

Then he went back to being silent on me. Then he came back around a week later and we were good for about a month, we saw each other again and made even more progress. Then he pulled away again. So I think the fading thing is pretty popular among the goats when they're not 100% sure if they're done with you. When you get closure, it's really over lol. If I know one thing, it's that if he cuts you out of his life, you're out of it -- point blank, period. Non-negotiable.
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_Patt_
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I don't think this is a capricorn thing, I think it's a childish man thing. My ex boyfriend is a Virgo and he did the same, but he is a coward so... Our relationship was very intense and suddenly he was a big asshole to me, he asked for a time and I came back to my country. I sent an email in early January saying time's over, he didn't reply lol. (but did stupid and childish things to "call attention")
Be strong and move on with your life, you deserve to be happy. 🙂
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CapGirl
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Patt is right. When these guys start acting like this, there's little hope that it's ever going to end up being a normal solid committed relationship. So forget about whether he's coming back. It may give you a temporary boost/thrill if he contacts you, but will only prolong you moving on and getting over this guy. Been there/done it for years with a Cap- what a huge time-waster! Also had a Virgo try to keep circling back around and I cut him off alot quicker, because I had learned my lesson well from the Cap CRAP and had no more tolerance or patience for it. They are immature messes and it's not likely to change anytime soon.