Ever Have to Land on Your Feet?

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I'll start. I got downsized from my lucrative job with a good title. Lived on unemployment and severence pay for four months. Then went back to a previous company for less income. After six months they did a mass layoff. A week later I kicked my ex husband out. Lived on unemployment for five months while maintaining a mortgage and bills. Then I found the job I had now with more income and less responsibility than either of the two positions I grieved over losing. Cheers for climbing back up the mountain!

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XX000 - It's all in perspective. If you look at the negative and find ONE single positive and focus on that, then you can see the negative could be seen as a positive.

For instance - if the negative experience taught you a lesson, or changed your priorities, etc. Then it becomes a positive experience.

I had a counsellor tell me one time that she worked with a rape victim. The girl said that there was nothing positive about that. The counsellor then told her one, he didn't kill her and two, she was a survivor, three, it changed her to be more careful and to be more aware and four, she appreciated how it changed her priorities and had a better understanding of what a good man was.

Just sayin' and just a suggestion.