For all the Cappy Men...i need your help!!! (Page 2)

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OLD JAKE
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Hi lov how is it going I shall not get involved you are doing fine, just fine by yourself. I would not be of any help,nor do you need any. He sits he sings his song
Ive seen fire and Ive seen rain ( frozen rain) Ive seen sunny days I thought would never end, but I always thought I would see you agian.

I will end my act with
she started a smoldering deep down in my soul. Her eyes were ablaze like ice blue pools, she was fire.
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looneybird
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Ah Well !!
Once upon a time two pairs of twins met at the Mountain Goat's abode to discuss their predicament about the respective male goats in their life. A fish too joins them with her priceless views form her pearls of experince. Everything is cosy. Unless a she- goat and he-goat decide to throw in their views on the situation. They thought they were enlightening the twins. But alas! that's not what the twin wanted to hear. So from there on a rounds of attack and self-defense followed. Politically incorrect words were used in the Prim and Proper Cappy Board!!!! and boy did the goats retort! It all looked like as if the twins were trying to tell the goats in the goat-territory- what to talk and what not to. Even a water-bearer, one of my dear friend and a virgin lover was not spared.

well gimme a break ladies. All this because a certian cappie told a gemini what she thought about her cappy heart-throb's behaviour? You come to the cappy board to get suggestions. baby you are going to get it in cappy style . For you support only means that people say what you want to hear? There is a truth to what they say about cappies. How many signs are capable of really admitting to their nasty side?

And by the way Cappies donot always wait for so long to confess their love. Depends on whom he/she is dealing with. They calculate the risk of loosing you before deciding how long they are going to take to make that decision. If they know that they may lose you if they wait too long, they move quicker than the speed of lightining.

Well without saying much furhter you know why your cappy took so long!

And yes I am ready for all the projectiles coming my way from the sharp tongued geminis..(LOL)

looneybird
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fullblowncappy
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wow i am a double capricorn male, and i really do not know how i came across this site but i am not at all like you capricorns. wierd as it may seem, but i am not at all. Yes i am very dtermined in what i want and go for it no matter how long it takes, but most people are like that. Well i don't want to fight with anyone about what i am going to say, becuase i don't want you to embarrass yourselves more than you have already. But, i am dating a gemini woman, and have been for 3 years and i think she is the most fascinating woman i have ever met. It is like i get so many different women all in one. It is wierd that you guys do not like geminis...she is very faithful, yet she has a mysterious side to her that i love to unrap piece by piece. She is so exciting to be with, and i would never want anything different. And i have no prpblem expressing my feelings to her, and i tell her i love her all the time. So maybe you guys are just so wrapped up in what a capricorn is, that you are molding yourselves just to fit the description of one. Is it that really that important to you—
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fullblowncappy
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
well i gave you the benefit of the doubt, but you guys really do sit on your a** waiting for people to post so you can write back, yes i did it this once, but you have been doing this everyday. That is so funny and sort of pathetic. But just glad it is not me that does not have a life. I am assuming you are old, considering the "old" in your screen name, so why don't you make the most of your last days and get out side and enjoy yourself.
And thank you i will have wonderful holiday....i won't be alone.
good day sir, and don't forget to live like you did in your good old days. No need to stop now just cuz your old 🙂
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Fire&Ice
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UMMMMMM, I wonder if he is dating Atlantic Myst... I wonder— Any ways, Old Jake don't let this guy get to you, obviously he dose not have a life since he did post 3x in a row......He doesn't have the guts to come back, and if he is in love GOOD FOR HIM, I don't mold myself— What a Moron I live and I learn. And we still have allot to learn. I am not perfect, but I strive to understand, obtain wisdom, and learn. Have a good one OJ🙂Goodness people can not even take what you give.....
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looneybird
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O.J. You are innocence is killing me.. you rock!!!!

well now what we see here. A knight in shining armour... a real goat or a pair of twin disguised as a mountain goat .. because i would ...errr.. say that ... the disguise wasn't good...

anyway so here comes a braveheart - to be knighted ( i wish posthumously) as the saviour of the much "misunderstood" twin. Oh sorry ... who chooses to think she has been misunderstood....accept the queen of the goat pewing fire and ice by turns will not entertain any protection to enemies in her home territory.. a true patriot .. well done!!! keep it up!!!

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looneybird
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AAAAAAWWWWWWWW Atlantic dear that really hurt you. I didnt even mention your name. You seem to be so sure that I was refering to you. Sweetheart! having had a capricorn BF in the past I have quiet a deep knowledge of what classy kinda people cappies are! Some how this fella didnt seem to have that great style .

And dear thanks for the applause. At Duncan we are all here in a mood to forgive & enjoy. So in no mood of getting into any arguements dear. Besides, after having such a great time yesterday with my Virgo honey nothing is going to get me down. I celebrate life honey. No time to cookiemonster.
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Wow,

What an unfortunate missunderstanding was given birth here!

Sweet-p (our little pixie, much like tinkerbell in peter pan) your tenacity protecting those close to you here was nothing short of heroic. Such a true and steadfast heart you possess. You are a true friend and a rare jewel indeed.

OJ you are you are my hearts desire through your wit and wisdom. Sweet OJ always interjecting just the right thing at the right time to lighten ones heart. but alas it took me a few posts to settle into your unique but wonderful style . As at first I was not quite sure of the intent as our acquaintence was so new. You are truly a master of your own creation, and I have grown to treasure it.

Fire & Ice my newest friend your intent was only to help remove them from harms way and further pain. Even I could see that there were elements that were not right in their relationships.

Looneybird as always your assessment of it all was so eloquently put, and much like a razors edge in accuracy. Your attempt could not be fully appreciated for what it was trying to convey, except by those who know and love you well.

And sweet Alana (good to see you again) I remember your kind words to me in the past.

Again there are awsome people here on the boards, it is a shame that the new ones missed that point. But they dont know us, I remember how I felt when I first posted I was nervous and unsure of myself for a while.

Unfortunate lines were crossed, but we should not judge to harshly. As they simply do not posess enough life experience to be able to see that for themselves yet. As we all have they must learn the lessons life must teach us.

Its not something you cant tell them, due to the idealized way they view their hearts desire. Precious youth has its many dangers through inocence of heart.

I can see a little of my distant self in the ones posting to each other about their cappy relationships. Reading their posts I could see similar patterns of thinking and relating when I was much younger.

Their communication was centered around the outcome they wished to achieve. It is hard to let go or see beyond the viel of our own desires sometimes, to the truth of things as they are.

It is a shame that things went in the direction they did through the exchanges between everyone. I feel sorry for the fact that they will never experience what it truly is like here. Or the kind of careing people we have through our little extended family.

I must say that I was dissapointed in the choice of language and method of communication used. Even though we did not initiate it, we let our emotions cause us to participate in return. As it was very dissrespectful and lacking in appreciation for what was being offered in help.

TW2
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Scorpionlady
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Girl I can feel you on the cappy men.....I am going on 2 years with mines we met Memorial Day 2004 and trust me the first year was a beast. mind you I am a scorpio and he did the same thing to me we was seeing each other on a regular and then he just said "I'll Call You" and he never did. and I went off and he stayed calm and then I just said F him and moved on and he called me around Jan of 2005 and had the nerve to aske me why I did not call him and wish him a happy new year or even asked to spend some time with him girl by then I was to through with him. He has taken me through a lot of mental issues. but the one thing about him that really really irritates me is when he has adversities. He will become distant and sex is the last thing on there mind. He has told me that is how he is and I have excepted it to a point. One thing I don't do and that is sit around and wait for his call. I have gotten to the point that sometimes I just don't call him...I go out with my girlfriends..I ask to spend time with him and when he says he has to work. I tell him I am going to busy myself. I don't think he likes that to much. Just to weeks ago we finally consitmated our friendship into a relatioship. With him making that decision and I know the only reason he did it was because he knew I was a bout to walk and he really does care about me. I was just that mad at him. I told him how I felt, I told him I did not want nothing from him and I did not care what happens to the friendship and I meant it I was ready to leave him I stopped calling him. Know we are trying to find a way to make the relationship a happy one right know we both are very stubborn and are not ready to comprimise but at this point I will wait or him act like I don't care and when he can't take it no more he will then express his true feeling or love for me hopefully...and I also have to say thanks to a girlfriend of mines who spent 14 years with a cappy and she has been giving me a lot of insight basically helping me deal with him.
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Scorpionlady
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Well as of know. My Cappy is not speaking to me because I cuss him out. I was screaming and everything, but I was aware of the consequences of my actions so. When he is finish not speaking to me. Our love making is very passionate and intense and I believe he really enjoys it. I never felt that he was using me for sex, because I have a very high sex drive. So when he called me I would come over. and because we always either ate, played cards and watch tv a game or something I never got that feeling, yes he used to cook for me a lot but that has stop. I really think he has falling in love with me and need some time to make a decision. I don't think he was mad at me for cussing him out because he did actually say he was sorry. But I know he has other issues pressing him right know right along with me. So he can have a much time as he likes, this way I get to keep my car to myself, you see he has no car and I was always there for him to make sure he can do the things he need. and I never felt that he was using me. He as manage to disrect me a few times and this last time was the icing on the cake, I know these men are fragile but at the same time, they cannot go around treating people that they claim to care about like crap and still think they are supposed be like ok with it, if any women allows a man to treat them like crap then they need to take a step back and re-evaluate themselve, because ain't no man worth me losing my selfrepect and dignity behind him. I have been dealing with him for almost 2 years,and he has manage to distant him self 2 times, for a long period of time, maybe like a month but after awhile I was like screw it and move on. then he would call like nothing is to it. I can't wait until he makes a decision, I just hope that I don't be the one to hurt him after he has open up. because that is what I am feeling right know. a lot of anger and as scropio you really don't want us to me mad and anger.