Gemini female (Virgo Moon) with Capricorn male (Aquarius Moon)

I have only been seeing this guy a short while and am just curious in general about the compatibility. I know Gem and Cap can be a difficult combo, but I thought with my earthy moon and his air moon it might make things a bit easier?

I am fickle, but I tend to appreciate a man who is a leader. I'm supposed to be very compatible with Aquarius men but I don't like them at all, they are way too all over the place for me. So far my guy seems grounded, but he is very non-emotional and judging by what I've read on the boards here, I should feel lucky I've gotten out of him what I have. He doesn't really express how he feels himself, but once I do, he will agree/say he feels the same way, etc and I do trust his word but I wish he would be a bit more "wordy" on his own about it.

We are both 30 and have yet to sleep together (which is actually a pretty big feat haha!).

Hahaha yes not to toot my own horn but my wit is razor sharp, has been that way since I was a kid.

My mars is in Gemini and his is in Pisces I believe.

My venus is in Aries (fiesty) and his is in Aquarius

Also, my rising sign is Libra and his is Aries