Sandy855
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Have I lost my capricorn...
"i was in relationship, he knew it and he also knew I wasnt romantic with my ex (he also had another woman), but living together separately in different rooms because of children. I was very open with him from the beginning and now I broke up finally with my ex."
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This ^^^^ is the problem. I can offer up two possible reasons. You came for for objective opinions and although what I say may be harsh, please don't take offense to it, but it is from an honest capricorn perspective.
One, he didn't take you seriously because you were with someone else. Even if the other relationship wasn't physical, technically you were committed to someone. And kids were involved. So, he thought you wanted to play and he was willing to play for a short while until he continued his search for girlfriend material, which he now has.
Second possibility is that you lost your credibility with him from the get go. You were technically with someone and were willing to cheat on that person. Although not directed at the cap, your actions showed dishonesty, willingness to betray, and you were disloyal. The cap didn't take you seriously because a cap sees it as they'll do it with me, they'll do it to me. He never saw you as girlfriend material.
He may have been willing to wait, if he completely understood your situation, but you took to long to finalize things. In reality, you should have finalized things before you started dating him, but sometimes obstacles get in the way and it takes longer to get done that we would like. He may have understood this, but since it took so long, he may have thought you weren't serious about finalizing your previous relationship. Caps don't like to share.
Gosh, I hate to sound so mean, but in all honesty, you didn't have a chance from the get go. I'm sorry. That's not what you wanted to hear.
I'm sure he likes you as a person, he's just not interested romantically. At least the cap is being honest with you by confessing he has another girl he's interested in. And, he's not flat out ignoring you, he's being polite and responding to you, albeit slowly.
I do apologize for my bluntness, but I figure you ask for an unbiased opinion, you're going to get one. I'm sorry it didn't work out, but truth is, you might think you were ready for a relationship, but in reality it will take you more time.
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This ^^^^ is the problem. I can offer up two possible reasons. You came for for objective opinions and although what I say may be harsh, please don't take offense to it, but it is from an honest capricorn perspective.
One, he didn't take you seriously because you were with someone else. Even if the other relationship wasn't physical, technically you were committed to someone. And kids were involved. So, he thought you wanted to play and he was willing to play for a short while until he continued his search for girlfriend material, which he now has.
Second possibility is that you lost your credibility with him from the get go. You were technically with someone and were willing to cheat on that person. Although not directed at the cap, your actions showed dishonesty, willingness to betray, and you were disloyal. The cap didn't take you seriously because a cap sees it as they'll do it with me, they'll do it to me. He never saw you as girlfriend material.
He may have been willing to wait, if he completely understood your situation, but you took to long to finalize things. In reality, you should have finalized things before you started dating him, but sometimes obstacles get in the way and it takes longer to get done that we would like. He may have understood this, but since it took so long, he may have thought you weren't serious about finalizing your previous relationship. Caps don't like to share.
Gosh, I hate to sound so mean, but in all honesty, you didn't have a chance from the get go. I'm sorry. That's not what you wanted to hear.
I'm sure he likes you as a person, he's just not interested romantically. At least the cap is being honest with you by confessing he has another girl he's interested in. And, he's not flat out ignoring you, he's being polite and responding to you, albeit slowly.
I do apologize for my bluntness, but I figure you ask for an unbiased opinion, you're going to get one. I'm sorry it didn't work out, but truth is, you might think you were ready for a relationship, but in reality it will take you more time.
I think Truecap nailed it.
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Additional info: i was in relationship, he knew it and he also knew I wasnt romantic with my ex (he also had another woman), but living together separately in different rooms because of children. I was very open with him from the beginning and now I broke up finally with my ex. I dont expect new relationship but just confused what happened 😢 I really liked him and cared about him.