He came back after breakup

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Leostrong on Monday, May 19, 2014 and has 9 replies.

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@Leostrong
13 Years

Crappy and I moved in together. We had a few minor issues and ultimately decided to go separate ways. He initiated it and said he was done. I agreed and left. Four days later he asked me to come home and said he was sorry. He continued for a week until I was convinced that our issues could be worked through.

I thought once caps were done they were done (?).

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@Leostrong
13 Years

I guess I don't know what went wrong and what would make him decide that he's committed. I guess scared of it happening again.

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@Leostrong
13 Years

That's exactly how it felt and that's what I explained when I was hesitant on coming back. Communication is necessary.

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@Leostrong
13 Years

Thanks for remembering :-) yeah, I've read some of them. Seems like a communication factor is a big issue. I'm not clingy like people claim Leos are which seems to be another ongoing issue on here.

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@Leostrong
13 Years

Posted by GG
Two much ego from both sides...that's also what attracts them to each other.

I definitely agree that both sides have strong personalities. I have the utmost respect for Capricons personalities. It's like our destinations are the same, we just take different roads to get there. We both respect that in each other.

I guess I'm still in awe that he initiated fixing everything. I never expected it, but I'm very grateful.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

They're only done when they see no more benefit for themselves by keeping you around.

I've also noticed that they stick around/keep coming back when the other person is likely to allow them to.

This applies to the scum dweller type, though. The ones who know how to act like adults would behave like this if they felt they reacted irrationally.