Intense capricorn

Do you Capricorns recognize this? Once your interest is triggered you want to be very close and deeply involved with that person? And fast?

I do. I'm kind of cold and distanced at first, while getting to know someone, but once I see potential in someone & start trusting them I want everything to happen at once lol.

Yeah, we go after what we want and won't stop til we get it. We're persistent and patient little sh*ts!!

Lol!!!

We are totally persistent! And we usually always get what we want because of this persistence. If I don't get something I wanted, it's because I don't want it any longer.

yes and no.

deep and close, yes.

fast, no.

though fast ends up happening sometimes.

Yes. I am very picky, but once i find that special connection with someone I really like, I move surprisingly fast.

The intensity is short-lived.

That's how it was for my ex...but he had venus/mars in fire signs.

Posted by SpiceNSugar
The intensity is short-lived.

Yep.

Intensity is short lived? Do you mean the deep and close, doesn't last long?

And fast.. With fast I mean, it takes a long time to get in the "moving mode" but when there, it's an almost unexpected "BAM" !! Very direct and intense

Posted by YS1
And fast.. With fast I mean, it takes a long time to get in the "moving mode" but when there, it's an almost unexpected "BAM" !! Very direct and intense

^This. Yes.

🙂 , I think that after the sudden move they also get into a kind of shock ( as in ; help! What have I done!) and I think that's the time that the other person should act the same as they did, otherwise I'm afraid that the capricorn will retreat.. Am I right?

This so me especially right now. I get so caught up in what I want that I will say exactly how I feel then ask myself why did I say that. I'm feeling that shock now and I'm hoping she doesn't act too different tomorrow when I see her because I will retreat.

I'm the receiving party of this rather overwhelming honesty and I'm VERY charmed by it. I think most people would be so there is nothing to be afraid of!
This men blew me of my socks , very reserved , polite at first (we did talk a lot though) and then all of a sudden, when I started to doubt what his intentions are, he made a very unexpected (not physical) move, which made me open up. The minute I retreat , he takes over.. All in all.. I think Caps are very brave in showing what they want! The reason why it's so charming is because they make you feel special . I have a moon in capricorn and even having my sun in Leo makes me more reserved than him!

Intense Cap mode is soooooo sexy and slightly intimidating in a good way.

YS1, I agree with you on their bravery. Also will add that they have the courage of their convictions!

Yes true. Never get wobbly! OR tell them that you're sometimes wobbly and why, that gives the consistency back.

Which allows them to "disappear" now and then. As long as I know/ understand the disappearance im fine with it.

Have experienced the intense side followed by the disappearing. When I feel like bailing cap will open up a lot. Wish it was more consistent - how do I achieve this?

Hmmm.. Don't know exactly because it took me by surprise .. He did disappear now and then, but there was always a reason. At first I didn't know that, thought I did something wrong ( never behaved like that or said that to him though!stayed my "cool" self) and Kept doing the things I wanted to do. He always came back and in that time I learned that the reason why he disappeared wasn't because of me. I was still insecure though if he was interested in me, then we experienced something quite disturbing at work (both involved) and after that out of the blue he took the initiative and never stopped. I think ( but I'm not a Cap) that they want to be sure that they can have their space, and that after having their space you will still be the same. Trust maybe? That you put your trust and loyalty in them?What surprises me is that they clearly want their space and cave time but when they're on the go, they almost take up all your time. Must say nice surprise!

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Have experienced the intense side followed by the disappearing. When I feel like bailing cap will open up a lot. Wish it was more consistent - how do I achieve this?

Good question! Consistent in what way?

If he's genuinely busy with jobs, try to support him if you can, don't give him shit for it...
I've come to realize that work is really #1. Cap men need a lot of financial security, so they can provide for the people they love.

Try to use the time when he's busy to focus on your life. Always have your own goals and hobbies.

Maybe change the word "disappear" for "no time for you now" ? Which is normal isn't it? I don't always have time myself!

What's long?how long does he disappear?are you living together or shared responsibilities?

Posted by SamCancerGirl
I have hobbies n full time work which is very demanding of my time.. I work just as hard as he does. He likes to have his downtime n disappear and act like it hasn't been long. It annoys me to no end. Why should he behave that way n come bck as he pleases.
When I try to talk to him about it he'll become moody so il pull back n then he'll open up after a while. I know the reasons he does this n I don't feel the blame should soley rest on me.
I'll get the usual crap I was busy, my phone wasn't working. What happens whn I need him to step up or b there? He knows he does this n I call him out on it he doesn't like it n disappears. I'll ask him if he's avoiding me n he says no- sometimes whn he's open he say why n then bam becomes really really open which is great but I want this bit to become more often

Cap guys are probably not the best for signs that need a lot of constant daily attention. I have a Leo Moon, so I've had to learn to adjust the level of contact throughout the week when I'm not with my Cap. Just think that they don't see a lot of need to text back and forth unless there's an issue.

Maybe try talking to him about your deeper concern "What happens whn I need him to step up or b there?".

Well, I think that 4-6 days without any form of communication is long when you are In a relationship... I wouldn't accept that. I wouldn't even take the energy to nag about it if he thinks that normal. I would tell him "take it or leave it". Does he really love you? The Cap I know is very consistent and scheduled in his (daily) contact, sometimes short sometimes long, but always something which makes me sure that he thinks of me. He'll now and then will have " lapses" but I know why the and therefore respect that he needs that time. The lapses are maybe 2 days but to be honest very rare and he always explains why.

Posted by noonie1801
This so me especially right now. I get so caught up in what I want that I will say exactly how I feel then ask myself why did I say that. I'm feeling that shock now and I'm hoping she doesn't act too different tomorrow when I see her because I will retreat.

I'm in the same boat! I just met this pisces woman and we've been talking for almost 2 months now. We've also been on a couple dates but already have plans for other dates. I don't usually go after woman, I like them to pursue me even if I see woman that I might be interested I won't bother going up to them. But if I see a woman that I think would interest me I'll go out of my way and make a move. No matter how shy I am, etc. Anyway I really like this woman and I want to move quickly but carefully because of all the bad experiences with other woman. She's a pisces and wants to take things slow so it's tough!!! But I'm doing it. Really want this one to work out because things are going really well so far 🙂

Posted by SamCancerGirl

Posted by YS1
What's long?how long does he disappear?are you living together or shared responsibilities?

Around 4-6 days is consistent, if it's really bad 2 weeks. No shared responsibilities

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Sorry, missed this post.

Does he explain why he's gone so long? Does he have any bad habits? Just wondering because that seems like a long time.