Help me understand my Capricorn GF. (Page 2)

xxoommm..........I dont understand either

Again I have faults and have been very mean when I was drinking. But, it was because I was upset I wasn't getting the sugar from her I felt like I deserved.

I should probaby just quit trying

WL........her reply would of been the same.

You are always welcome to add ur .02

I think she means 'lets wait and see if your actions match your words'.

So, I think they have not. You tell her one thing like then, then turn around and text mean things. So, from her point of view the words are empty and meaningless because your actions are not backing up your words.

So though you said a beautiful thing, she doesn't believe you just yet.

Make sense?

I'll add:

The actions in the past (mean words and texts) have NOT made her feel loved, happy and secure. So you're contradicting yourself.

She needs to know you actually mean what you say and follow through on it. There's that trust thing coming up again.

Grrrrrrrrr, Trucap.

Why do y'all have to be so damn difficult? LOL

Just gimme some love back and let me romance the hell out of you (not you the GF).

#sigh

Yeah, I guess that makes sense if you are a Capricorn 🙂

So she can't agree to try and make me happy because she doesn't trust me due to previous drunken emotional outbursts on my part.

I think I understand, seems odd to me because she knows I care.

Posted by MA😆ADDY
Yeah, I guess that makes sense if you are a Capricorn 🙂

So she can't agree to try and make me happy because she doesn't trust me due to previous drunken emotional outbursts on my part.

I think I understand, seems odd to me because she knows I care.

Then prove it. Let your actions back up your words.

And it's not that we are difficult. We are just very choosy who we trust. Those who earn that trust, reap so many rewards with a lifetime of loyalty.

Again I greatly appreciate everyones input and insight. I feel like I have a much better understanding of how she thinks. I only wish I would of found this board a couple months ago.

I hope she allows me to show her that I do understand now.

You guys are awesome