help me with my cappy plzz

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Don't read too much in it. Right now, he's just catching up. If it were me, I wouldn't consider it in a romantic way until I've met up with you in person to see if there's any chemistry. He's most likely not considered this romantically. Yet, anyway. The tell tale sign is the months of no talking.

Meet up with him, see how that goes and go from there. Just don't have any expectations.
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He might be interested in more than friendship, but he's not revolving his life around it.

This may be a case of nostalgia..maybe he had a crush when you were younger, and I'm sure he's attracted and loves you as a friend. I just wouldn't read into it too much though, 2 years and he hasn't pushed for a meeting yet...
Wait until then, only then you will get a better feel for the situation.
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Posted by nessa1980
we've try to meet up but something happens where we cant. Yes he's a capicorn and im a cancer we get along very well he's always flirting with me and he told me a couple times that he loves me and if I text him to check on him he does reply back that's a couple times he didn't but he check up on me every 2 weeks or a month
I would say he doesn't really love you, not in the way you think. Some people toss that word around like nothing. I honestly don't believe you can actually love someone without knowing them face to face. That's a red flag for me. Most likely he meant he loves chatting with you or he loves that you're friends. That's a big difference.

I'm not trying to burst your bubble or be mean, it's just the reality of how I see it. I don't want you to make the mistake of reading something into that and then being hurt or disappointed. I wouldn't want to see you wasting time by putting all your eggs in this basket while missing out on someone that could be right in front of you. Don't get caught up in the fantasy of him and miss out on someone who could be the love of your life.

Hope that makes sense.