wild, confusing cappy

geez where do I start...
he's in the army. he has a dark evil/malicious side to him. which sparks my darker side. he's wild and crazy, which I totally love. I'm just as crazy. he's also really sexy, can turn me on in the most subtle and perfect way. he's a satyr.. all this I find really odd cause he's a Capricorn. just 2 days ago we had a 4 hour conversation on the phone. I thought earth signs get to the point quick when calling...
he's so mysterious. he's got me going crazy. I literally want to lock him and me in a room and talk for hours. then rip his clothes off and well Yea.... for hours
I can't get him out of my head. I dream of him all the time. literally. it's weird. we haven't even met in person yet.. ok well last time I saw him was 6 years ago and we never spoke or anything. now we started speaking and we are so in sync.
only problems I'm having is when he's busy and I get all clingy. start wondering why he's ignoring me etc. don't know what to do.

help please

In which way is he confusing? The only problem you seem to be having is you getting clingy when he's busy.

May I ask, what's your respective venus signs?

his Venus is Pisces, mine is cancer

Thanks.🙂

But.

In which way is he confusing? The only problem you seem to be having is you getting clingy when he's busy.

Posted by HappyCapper
Thanks.🙂

But.

In which way is he confusing? The only problem you seem to be having is you getting clingy when he's busy.

ok maybe I am wrong about him being confusing.. maybe I'm just confused. how do I know what to say and what not to say? when he suddenly stops talking, I panic and try to get him to reply. I get clingy and I'm afraid that will scare him away. which just make me more clingy and my emotions go crazy 20 different feelings in a minute. he's frying my brain. overload. lol

Aww lol

Well, what do you mean by suddenly stop talking. Is it like mid convo and then quiet for three days? Or, what are we talking about?

Hehe 😄

Dont act on your anxiety. Know that the world wont end if you won't contact him right away... Its an opportunity for you to deal with problem of being clingy! 🙂

He's in army and you know how patient you have to be.. ☺

Haha Cappy done the same to me 😉 also in the Army

Wild guess: cancer sun and/or venus, conjunct gemini moon?

Let's start with the easy question:

"how do I know what to say and what not to say?"

Answer: whatever you're doing right now seems to be working just fine. Just relax and do what you're doing.

Posted by HappyCapper
Aww lol

Well, what do you mean by suddenly stop talking. Is it like mid convo and then quiet for three days? Or, what are we talking about?

stop talking mid conversation and then only read my messages for the next hour. Im too clingy. I feel pathetic

Posted by RumiL
Hehe 😄

Dont act on your anxiety. Know that the world wont end if you won't contact him right away... Its an opportunity for you to deal with problem of being clingy! 🙂

He's in army and you know how patient you have to be.. ☺

yes yes I know. how do you cure clingy-ness

Posted by HappyCapper
Wild guess: cancer sun and/or venus, conjunct gemini moon?

my sun cancer his sun Capricorn
my moon Gemini his moon Scorpio
my Venus cancer his Venus Pisces

Posted by HappyCapper
Let's start with the easy question:

"how do I know what to say and what not to say?"

Answer: whatever you're doing right now seems to be working just fine. Just relax and do what you're doing.

thanx lol

Posted by lexie

Posted by HappyCapper
Aww lol

Well, what do you mean by suddenly stop talking. Is it like mid convo and then quiet for three days? Or, what are we talking about?

stop talking mid conversation and then only read my messages for the next hour. Im too clingy. I feel pathetic

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But he continues talking after that hour?

Posted by HappyCapper

Posted by lexie

Posted by HappyCapper
Aww lol

Well, what do you mean by suddenly stop talking. Is it like mid convo and then quiet for three days? Or, what are we talking about?

stop talking mid conversation and then only read my messages for the next hour. Im too clingy. I feel pathetic

But he continues talking after that hour?

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after I get his attention. then we continue talking like crazy. however when I wait, then I'll wait for days. he doesn't initiate, maybe cause he knows I'll start the conversion again? I don't know. I just don't want to end up chasing after him and scarring him away. but I don't want to not go after him and then he losses interest and forgets about me or such. even as friends I'm not sure how to handle things. I need to find a balance, but the Cancer in me either wants to drag him back by iron claws, or hide away till there's definitive hope.

Oh boy. You'll lose his interest in no time if u continue like that. I know it can be hard to not get clingy. But trust me.... that's not what u should do.

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Oh boy. You'll lose his interest in no time if u continue like that. I know it can be hard to not get clingy. But trust me.... that's not what u should do.

I'LL lose interest?? and how do i "not get clingy"?

Posted by lexie

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Oh boy. You'll lose his interest in no time if u continue like that. I know it can be hard to not get clingy. But trust me.... that's not what u should do.

I'LL lose interest?? and how do i "not get clingy"?

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lol.... didnt read properly. blond moment. ok just how do i NOT get clingy?

By realizing that men lose interest in no time if u act that way because u give away yourself like u r on 80% sale. U don't want that he sees u as desperate and clingy. Especially a cap man needs a woman who he can redpect because she is strong and not desperate for his attention nor anybody's reassurance.

I learned a loooot from this website
Blackgirlsareeasy.com

Its written by a guy and it opened my eyes!!! Its not racist at all. Trust me. Read his blog, its your new dating bible.

After reading his blog you'll at least think 20x "fuck I did that before" then u'll realize that u have the power

Never invest ur energy in a guy who doesnt make concrete steps to a more serious level.

Posted by AquaNextDoor
By realizing that men lose interest in no time if u act that way because u give away yourself like u r on 80% sale. U don't want that he sees u as desperate and clingy. Especially a cap man needs a woman who he can redpect because she is strong and not desperate for his attention nor anybody's reassurance.

I learned a loooot from this website
Blackgirlsareeasy.com

Its written by a guy and it opened my eyes!!! Its not racist at all. Trust me. Read his blog, its your new dating bible.

After reading his blog you'll at least think 20x "fuck I did that before" then u'll realize that u have the power

thanx, will check it out now.

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Never invest ur energy in a guy who doesnt make concrete steps to a more serious level.

ive heard that before, de'ja' vu. guess that means its an important message and i should listen. :p hehehe

good luck 🙂 it's really fun to read the blog although you'll have some "yeh I'm dumb as fuck" moments. but hey, it's fun because you'll learn and see progress within yourself. others will react differently to you because you are changing. the hardest part is to actually act up on what you learn on this blog. first you realize, but then you have to act up on it.