Help the Cappy Male!

Pretend a Capricorn male in your life is asking you this. It could be any Cap. male, lover, friend, brother, coworker.

If you was to give a Capricorn man advice of any kind or nature, what would that advice be?

What behavioral trait that a cap. man have that could damage his relationship in life or with others?

Open up and let someone love you, its ok to get hurt, the world won't end if your heart gets broken

Don't flirt unless you mean business!

Too funny... "10-4"... I understand that [hehe]-- Here's something I said, in speaking about us being "friends", to which my Cap. guy responded with "I understand":

"yea, likewise, I guess ,at times. But I don't do "friends with benefits" as has become clear.... I'm too old for that nonsense and too serious about my life/future, etc. Just for the record. ; ) "

And this was a notable improvement from merely sitting there in silence saying nothing! Woohoo!!

Riffraff.... hmmm... stop working! ...so much. Love isn't always going to wait.

I think work is another aspect. For some reason the Cap I know has started working like CRAZY. Like out of the blue. I swear in the past he was always available and now its just work and more work. He said to me last night "All I'm doing right now is working" And not in an informative way, but more like, just in case you were wondering and no I'm not up to anything bad. Which would explain why he has so many hit and miss relationships. Its like he came on like gang busters and then FLIP this is my life, are you gonna deal or bail. So I'm doing neither, especially since we have nothing established which is probably a good thing. Fortunately I'm surrounded by hard working men in my family so I'm use to it. But man....they work like robots.

But being on the outside looking in, I have found a real sympathy with ladies dealing with these men on a more intimate level. If I were any less of a woman it would probably drive me to drink heavily! Its like a roller coaster ride, so much fun and then it stops suddenly and all you do is stand in line waiting for it to start all over again.

"Its like a roller coaster ride, so much fun and then it stops suddenly and all you do is stand in line waiting for it to start all over again."

Haha thats so true. This is how my cappy was. Had all the time in the world, was available and then suddenly, all this work come up out of the blue and he disappears. I think work is a very BIG aspect. And yeah, they do that too.. make you feel like a puppy rescued from a dog pound... so i'm just really busy studying and working just as though to reassure me that he's not busy having fun with other girls. He is so good looking and well educated, I used to wonder why he's still single. Now I know.

The Cappy I know is a hard worker but I wouldn't go as far as calling him a workaholic..he has the time to speak to me on msn from 9-5pm..and he starts complaining if I don't log on!!!..I know he can do anything he puts his mind too but he also likes his home life too..