He's Having A Baby

if not just let it go, but don't become another him !

Oh don't worry JD, I really don't see myself becoming like him at all my dear 🙂

Indeed, I have left him alone ... but getting him to leave me alone is the problem. He wants to be friends but I liked it better when we were distant -- I think he needs time to do some growing up.

Is not that I can't be friends with the guy (I could because I'm over him) but I don't want to be pulled into any of his drama. I

Once upon a time last year, one of his "bed-buddies" was looking for me because she thought I was his new "girlfriend". Ayeayeayeaye! I don't like that kind of stuff at all. But telling him we should keep our distance from each other is just like telling a Grizzly Bear NOT to eat fish.

He won't listen. And to think, last year he wanted me to leave him alone completely -- which I did. Now he won't leave me alone for whatever freaking reason ...

He doesn't sound like a nice person at all.

You are right SB 😢 But he's been acting different lately ...

He is very mean to the other girls ... until he wants something from them. That's why I happy that I'm not the one getting a swollen belly.

I did everything what I stated I was going to do on this board. It's just now, he changing up .... and acting strange.

@daligogh

I had a similar expeience with a cancer guy go to school with ..he is like the sexiest man alive..
I mean when he looks at me I get turned on --just plain white hot...and as bad as I wanted to give in I didnt, I had a feeling that is should just leave him alone...and it turns out hes a playboy with two kids he doesnt care 4.

And for some reason no matter how I resist he wont leave me alone
And god knows the man oozes sex appeal.

people like that anger me...but its ok. i'm glad you aint got a swollen belly too.

Thank you Merc 🙂

I glad too ...I would be a basket case right now. You have no idea how happy I am that I'm not the poor soul that is linked to him for a really LONG time.

And for some reason no matter how I resist he wont leave me alone
And god knows the man oozes sex appeal.

Well, this man isn't bad looking either but I need more substance and realness -- I actually need a "man", not an image. He give me an image in the beginning so now I look at him and I feel nothing like I use to. LOL! Thank goodness because I would be just as obsessive with him as these other women -- ewwwww!

Last year he wanted to stay away from me for a while because one of the girls (the now pragnent one) thought he was getting serious with me and not her ... Gee Weezzz :O

Cancerian Men don't leave you alone. They should though if you ignore them enough. But that doesn't work at times either.

Really SB ——?? Oh dear .......

@LeoWithCapAndAnnoyed

20 Years500+ Posts

Cancerian males ARE playboys and SB is absolutely right...they always keep coming back to you. It's hard to get rid of these overemotional fools. Obviously, a Cancerian male pissed me off this weekend. :-)

Hey LeoWithCap,

What happened last weekend— What did he do ? 😢

"I actually need a "man", not an image. He give me an image in the beginning so now I look at him and I feel nothing like I use to."

I admire how strong you are. I know a lot of women keep going back to men even though they know that they will hurt them again. Sometimes we get caught up in the "image" and hesitate to see the true man, but it looks like you realized things quickly !!!!

not friends with benefits, mind you, once I'm over someone, there's no backsies)

Same here! Friends with benefits is a stupid cope out in my opinion. Theres no way I'll go for that and know it!

I admire you for being so strong !!!

RLC,

Thank you very much but it took alot of advice in order for me to feel this way. Plus, I grow tired of feeling like an idoit for some dude that's probably never going to be serious about me.

He's an idiot for losing you. You sound like you are a good woman who knows what she wants. It's his loss and what it sounds like - HE MISSES YOU! He knows he screwed up and it's just too little too late.

I really like that Jack: "Just squeeze the beautiful out of what you've been through and throw the rest in the garbage."

Every bad situation happens because we are to learn from it. We come out as stronger individuals and wiser than if it hadn't happened.

@kym1209

20 YearsSagittarius

i admire your strength too, cappysweetie. i saw you in the cancer boards. i, too, am having problems with a cancer male. they're so hard to trust! aaah! i don't know if he's sleeping around, cause he spends a lot of time with me...but i'm always suspicious (perhaps the scorpio in my chart). anyway, i think it's really funny that he impregnated some girl.