Hi Cappies advice please

So met a Cappie guy handsome like a Greek god. Be being a Virgo gal was shy and a little to giggles. It was a little chilly outside we were with mutual friends and his bestie. We talked a little about meditation etcetera. He kept on forcing me to take off my cardigan...I was to shy about it but he tried. He told me his exs were mostly from big cities with midwestern values...lol. We went on a city bus ride with th gang he was talking to other pretty woman chatting it up. He seems like he wants to find someone. He looked me over up and down but I guess all guys do that. I offered to pay for th uber...I think that was a big no no for the capoie since they like to take the lead. His deadly stare scared me... that I offered to pay. But he was ok after that turning around to smile at me several times. No talking just a quick deep stare. But he likes to talk about his experiences which are amazing. I just want to get to know him better even as friends. But I don't want to push it. It was his event so I gave him a gift for hosting it. He said have a safe trip home and gave a very distant hug.

I think I might of annoyed him by being distant and shy but it takes me tim to warm up to people I admire... I was nervous because I was so smitten with him. Do I have any chance of earning his friendship? We didn't exchange contact numbers but I know a mutual friend of ours he might be able to convey something.

I just want to give him a big hug and tell him everything will be ok. The the vibe I got from him was that he is deep, hardworking, sympathetic and contemplative. I really respect him and I think he's going through a rough time. He kept on staring at me I don't know if he was trying to figure me out or I rubbed him the wrong way

I think I was a little too girly and bubbly it might come out as naive and immature and childish but that I'm not but I think he kind of just took my guard down.

Need advice my darling Capricorns?

Stop overthinking it or it will drive u crazy. This happens to me too. Caps are just not direct in their feelings or thoughts about persons of interest. It takes so long for them to truly open up.

Posted by pinkbird03
Stop overthinking it or it will drive u crazy. This happens to me too. Caps are just not direct in their feelings or thoughts about persons of interest. It takes so long for them to truly open up.

I get you l felt th same but the stares were just so

intense and long at times I didn't know what to thing...if I see him again I'll try not to be too shy.

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Posted by pinkbird03
Stop overthinking it or it will drive u crazy. This happens to me too. Caps are just not direct in their feelings or thoughts about persons of interest. It takes so long for them to truly open up.

I get you l felt th same but the stares were just so

intense and long at times I didn't know what to thing...if I see him again I'll try not to be too shy.

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He might be interested or curious about you. That's where a possible relationship starts.

Posted by pinkbird03
Stop overthinking it or it will drive u crazy. This happens to me too. Caps are just not direct in their feelings or thoughts about persons of interest. It takes so long for them to truly open up.

Not true. I've had a few caps admit to liking me all within a few weeks.

From my experience, they become interested when you show them indifference because their ego takes a hit.

Keep your bubbly personality going, don't change it. That's who you are and it's genuine. He'll see it.

Next time he speaks of his experiences, ask more questions, it shows your interest in him. Give him direct eye contact and lots of smiles while he's speaking. And when you give him a hug, put a little tight squeeze in there 😉

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Posted by pinkbird03
Stop overthinking it or it will drive u crazy. This happens to me too. Caps are just not direct in their feelings or thoughts about persons of interest. It takes so long for them to truly open up.

Not true. I've had a few caps admit to liking me all within a few weeks.

From my experience, they become interested when you show them indifference because their ego takes a hit.

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It's definitely been true in my latest experience with one. He always shows me how he feels. He even told me he's not good at being emotional. He's also aqua Venus, moon, and mars.

Thanks guys for all the support I love Capricorns I've had most of my interactions with woman Cappies though. This was my first male...I don't like games I'm not going to be fake for someone. I am who I am. And I was just bubbly shy girl when ever I saw him. Since I very much admire and respect him and am attracted to him. It's weird because no other guy has made me feel like he has...the butterflies just bloom in my tummy when I'm even near him it's so electric...You Cappies sure have a lasting impact on Virgo girl.

But he is hard to read and he started avoiding me later in the day. I felt it because the starting of the day he was more talkative and even held my waist and gave it a squeeze at a group picture. However by the end of the day he was distant and just touched my shoulder during the group picture. And was ignoring me a little and when he did look at me he would throw a stoic stare and look away or just interact with someone else. He didn't even want to be in the pic some one had to call him back to take the picture and then he was out the door.

I hardly interrupted him when he was speaking...I just added my input a couple of times when he was talking about his life experience in an informal session. But when ever I gave my input he gave me this deep stare like he was upset with me and would look away and he would answer someone else's question. I got the feeling that he thought I was trying to be a know it all which is not at all what I was doing I just wanted to know that I agreed with what he said unlike some others who just didn't understand his depth and were being frivolous.

The stares were so magnetic at times I started getting lots of tears in my eyes one because I felt he knew what I was thinking and two because I felt his pain. I know he is going through a whole self discovery process. But he did say get home safe...kind of like he was being sarcastic and went on to talk to others. I don't want to figure him out or fix him or any of that stuff. I just want to form a bond get to know him learn from him and vice versa but I guess he is not open to it at this point in his life. With whomever he ends up with I hope he is happy that's all I ask for...though I wouldn't mind if that's me in the near future lol but I doubt it.

By the way he's January 14th Capricorn are they more fiery?

Would love some input on whether I should let him go or actually interact with him in the future.

I have no agenda just want to know him better.

Thanks guys 🙂