HOW DO YOU MAKE A CAPPIE HAPPY??!!!!

Help me out here anyone! What can you say or do to make a cappie smile - am I asking the impossible here

Hmmmm, that's a tough one. Let me think on that one .....

Still not working - damn negitive boy I tell u

Sokay now he is bagging me out & that seams to please him - Ill let him go for now - but one more seriously nasty comment & I have to fire back

Don't do it! I do the same thing. He don't mean any harm by it! He just joking. But if you try to hurt his feelings..well it won't be good!

Too late 😢 angry cappie now 😢 😢 think his ex wifie being a pain in the royals - asking for child maintenance or somin - I was in a happy mood this morn n now look whats happened

What makes a cappy smile, depends if your talking to a male or female cap.

I have to say what makes me (female cap) smile is someone who can prove me wrong, but do it with a smile. So i know they only want to pull me off my perch without hurting my feelings. Sounds warped but its what comes to mind

Male cappie - He calls me copa cause I am always on his case (we work in an office together & I am the office wench)

hmm couldent tell you sorry, i dont know any male caps 😢

Thats ok - I give up

hey i'm new here and just wanted any advice and pointers on what the hell is going on in my cappie mind. so i'm just going to vent. We have been seeing each other for 4 months, and he still hasn't called me his girlfriend. We get along great we are not too much in each other face because we both like our space. But i'm just not sure if i'm what is really looking for! i really like for reasons unknown. But didn't what one of u did by not calling him and waited for him to call. Two weeks later he "ran into me" at our local coffee shop and was like why haven't you called me. So we started to hang out get to know each more. We are both really low key people so usally each others movie and dinner or morning coffee and paper. what is his deal because begining to get a little impaient being in dark on where we stand! Thanks for at least reading my nonsensical ramblings any advice would be greatly appreiated. kisses

Lol!..I don't think Pisces have the patience for a Cappy..be sarcastic and yes dry humour!

Definitely no patience 😢 - Its ok the day ended well - he went home early & didn't tell me he was going for the day as only a cappie will do!!
This is so frustrating sometimes
Cappies - have dry humour & be sarcastic but don't laugh cause really nothing is funny
Virgos - have witty humour but don't be silly
Pisces - Crack a joke, yes - but not about them or they will cry
Gemini - Make it a dirty joke with extra dirt please
Aquarius - Don't have be sarcastic & definitely no slap stick

I don't know couldn't be bothered going through them all - But its really hard making everyone happy - I would hate to be a comedian

Why do you want to make them happy?..If anyone isn't happy in themselves then screm them!..lol

Don't try too hard..If he doesn't like you for who you are, then no amount of pretending to be something else is gonna wash with them..
They are funny folk..they do know how to crack a joke without actually knowing they are doing it..but they also laugh at their own jokes to make them sound funnier just to avoid rejection..

And they can be very miserable as well..I am always cracking a joke or being sarcastic with my cappy friend and he seems to still be on my tail so I guess I am doing something right..But yes have ambition, be up to date with current affairs, whats going on in the world..don't be all dreamy like you pisceans are..because unless you can turn those dreams into reality they don't respect you for it!..Respect is where its at with Cappy's.

Yes interesting you say that SB regarding the second sentence..I have noticed that too..I always think..hmmm are you actually cracking a joke here because to me it implies you are making a judgement/observation but you add lol at the end to reduce the harshness/seriousness of the statement..or maybe its a nervous laugh cos you don't know what the response will be—

Would you say you folk are judgemental? or too afraid to be seen as judgemental?

I only asked because my cappy friend always accuses me of being judgemental of him and in general. I don't hold back, I will just tell it how it is. Don't really care who it offends..Just be man enough to handle the truth..Have tried to calm down of late cos he keeps going into his little sulking moods..which I just laugh at hysterically!..

But I do think he is judgemental, he just does it in a joking manner so its difficult to pick up..what he doesn't realise is that I am a human x-ray machine and can sense everything..but he's lovely..my little poppet! Each to their own..we can't all be the same..the world will be a boring place

Aaah..in that case, we are singing from the same hymm sheet...we work well as a team..

You can make him happy by making seriously flattering comments. By doing that, and massaging his ego big style , he will gain confidence. After being prodded, we usually unveil our much coveted sense of humour and have your bladders doing overtime restraining the urine from tricking out.

I wouldn't ever flatter anyone or polish anyones ego, not my thing..they shouldn't need to be flattered..end of..

Exactly! We prefer to earn money rather than get it gifted to us....

I can't speak for every Capricorn. But since I am one, I do have a little insight about this. This is how you make a Capricorn smile.

Compliment their taste in music!
Thank them for little things!
whatever they work hard in, notice it!!
Be kid-like!!

ha ha...that's true what Riffraff says..."don't hurt cappys feelings" if you don't want to lose him/her...cause once you do it's forever...she/he will never forget....

can anybody tell me what the best match for a female capricorn is? I am currently with a guy who was born on may 20th which is on the cusp of taurus and gemini right? so how does that work? which one is he?

I hurt mr Cappie at works feelings all the time & we always make up - Is he still holding grudges on me?

I know he likes me - This one is a complicated one so I won't go into it cause it will take a couple pages - but I just push his buttons sometimes & I don't know - lately he has been driving me nuts - little irritating things he does like thinking out loud when I am trying to concentrate

How do you make a cappy happy you can't

My cappy just said to me, "your the kind of girl I want to wake up to the next morning, smile and snuggle up to before going to work (thats when your not barking and biting)..lol...so I replied ..thanks..I think..gosh I love it when you guys get all mushy!

I don't know about the cusp thing..usually take the traits of the first sign..so in this case Taurus..good match me thinks..

miss he is not a cap no cap would say something like that. must be a fish

-riffraff, what exactly does "kid-like" mean?

how do you make cappy happy? Give them a piece of paper with a smiley face on both sides and p.t.o. written at the bottom of each side....

Brilliant!!!

miss he is not a cap no cap would say something like that. must be a fish

Rubish!! Caps are softies sometimes

Think I have a almost maternal thing for mr cappie - its weird - I want to mother him & bring him food & see big smiles xx sulky little bratt

Sb - Is 26 Jan more Cappie or Aqua?

Mr cappie at work is definately a cappie - was wondering about an Aqua friend thou cause Ive noticed allot of cappie traits - is on the 26th - Thanks for that

Ooohhh right! Hey sb I am following u around! u were at Aqua board a sec ago - very quiet down there - think Ill go run a muck in it while no ones around!

said something nasty in one of them .... see if it works!

Didn't work - only prime is back 😢

Lol, don't worry James/SB I won't let that little secret out..I don't go all mushy back..I kind of shrug it off..and move on..don't think he likes dwelling on it too much..I know I wouldn't..only brief moments of mushyness is good..prolonged is sick!..lol..

Ha! Who told me to put a smilie face on each side of a piece of paper with PTO on the bottom of both - That worked - HE went & got me a V drink 🙂

Don't know how appropriate a hug wod be in the middle of the office - but I do tell him he is the hardest worker around