Hurt Cap woman

I’ve known this Cap Woman for a few months now and we’ve often talked at work. We’ve had some serious conversations. She was engaged so I never pursued her out of respect for the engagement, but I knew it was shaky as she had mentioned that to me.

She has trust issues and recently told me she had called off her engagement due to infidelities that he admitted to.

She’s never cheated on him and told me the closest she’s ever gotten was when she and I would sit down and talk about life and their relationship struggles.

She called me about a week or so ago to let me know and event that we were attending for work was canceled last minute. We usually email so I don’t know if that phone call meant she wanted me to have her number or not?

We’ve been texting since then and recently she told me that if I was looking for anything more than friendship that I was wasting my time. She said she’s cutting things off with her ex fiancé completely and moving out of the house and is going to be a rough couple of months and she doesn’t have time for “games”.

The conversations we’ve had since we started talking have been deep and meaningful. She’s very hot and cold and she does do the disappearing act for like a week or two and then pops back up, but she did tell me that she backed off a little bit because it wasn’t a good look since she was engaged. Cap women, how should I continue with this? What do you guys suggest she’s feeling about me?

I’ve known this Cap Woman for a few months now and we’ve often talked at work. We’ve had some serious conversations. She was engaged so I never pursued her out of respect for the engagement, but I knew it was shaky as she had mentioned that to me.

She has trust issues and recently told me she had called off her engagement due to infidelities that he admitted to.

She’s never cheated on him and told me the closest she’s ever gotten was when she and I would sit down and talk about life and their relationship struggles.

She called me about a week or so ago to let me know and event that we were attending for work was canceled last minute. We usually email so I don’t know if that phone call meant she wanted me to have her number or not?

We’ve been texting since then and recently she told me that if I was looking for anything more than friendship that I was wasting my time. She said she’s cutting things off with her ex fiancé completely and moving out of the house and is going to be a rough couple of months and she doesn’t have time for “games”.

The conversations we’ve had since we started talking have been deep and meaningful. She’s very hot and cold and she does do the disappearing act for like a week or two and then pops back up, but she did tell me that she backed off a little bit because it wasn’t a good look since she was engaged. Cap women, how should I continue with this? What do you guys suggest she’s feeling about me?

Give her space, she needs time to heal from that break up, its HUGE to be engaged and cheated on. Shes on an emotional roller coaster right now.

Im not a Cap but as people, we need time to heal after a breakup. You'll just be a rebound at this point.

Im betting she has some sort of feelings but needs to sort out her life.

A female perspective. 🙂