@hellosaggy
8 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius
what is going on with this Cap girl Caps?
Maybe she was gonna treat you, to pay you back for the sick supplies.
she doesn't make money like that.... she's been texting me all week that it sucks she's sick this week because she needs money for gifts for her nieces and nephews....
I'm feeling like a meal ticket.
A bartender? I’ve seen my fella make his rent in a weekend.
Posted by hippiecrite
A bartender? I’ve seen my fella make his rent in a weekend.
Problem is resort area... winter time... dozens of restaurants.
I go in her places it’s empty during week . Her weekend Bar is mostly full but there are like 8 bartenders and 6 waitresses
Posted by hellosaggy
Ok Capricorn that told me she's leaving at end of January hits me up (damn saturn return leaving lol)She's feeling better. This chick asks me if I wanted to go to dinner or something today(Friday the 22nd) because she called out of work to make sure she's good for Saturday.
I replied back, I don't know... I have a couple things I'm juggling, but its not a yes or a no, so go ahead and make your own plans.
You already avoided sex on my birthday, and you told me you have to be "sure" before we do anything, and you told me you are leaving, why would I take you on a dinner date? This is why women get a bad rap.
NO, I can play games too and back burner tf outta you. Now I am feeling really used and disrespected. we can go for coffee, maybe lunch that's like 30 bucks.... I'm not taking you out for dinner and drinks with no end game. maybe a make out session like I'm in f'n high school.
Damn caps.
what did she say to that ? or didn't you go into all that ...
No I didn’t want to call her out. She knows what issue is. She is coming across pretty dense though.
I’m sure she will text me later. Her photo shoot is probably canceled today bc of rain. She won’t have nothing to do today except shop for Christmas.
Cap is just testing you. She will never sleep with you. They can text you all day long about money and bs just to see if care. And since you clearly don't she's gonna waste your time
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well you brought her meds, why wouldn’t you take her to dinner? 😂😂
Basically, and she did say she wanted to hang out before she left.
But Honestly, slow fade. Like start ignoring her calls, I'm serious, because she is wasting time.
Or let her know you met someone else and is taking them out.
You really have to draw a line with this girl, and cut all attachments to her. IF you want to call her out then do that.
Sometimes if/when we realize we have a sort of " pull" or power, we abuse it. She is that type, and that's not what you want.
So she texted me last night she picked up a shift for a girl going on holiday.
I said I thought you were still sick. She said well you didn’t want to spend night with me so she might as well had made a little money.
She was like she thought I wanted her to come over. And the way I responded to her “dinner or something “ text, she didn’t want to keep asking me and embarrass herself.
I don’t have time for this... I like directness
Posted by MiZLeo
Can I PM You? It's about cap women
Yea. No problem
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well you brought her meds, why wouldn’t you take her to dinner? 😂😂Basically, and she did say she wanted to hang out before she left.
But Honestly, slow fade. Like start ignoring her calls, I'm serious, because she is wasting time.
Or let her know you met someone else and is taking them out.
You really have to draw a line with this girl, and cut all attachments to her. IF you want to call her out then do that.
Sometimes if/when we realize we have a sort of " pull" or power, we abuse it. She is that type, and that's not what you want.
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How do you know he's not wasting her time? He rarely sleeps more than twice with a woman. Besides, it's not like he's been holding himself for her. He has been spending time with other girls.
Posted by hellosaggy
So she texted me last night she picked up a shift for a girl going on holiday.I said I thought you were still sick. She said well you didn’t want to spend night with me so she might as well had made a little money.
She was like she thought I wanted her to come over. And the way I responded to her “dinner or something “ text, she didn’t want to keep asking me and embarrass herself.
I don’t have time for this... I like directness
Directness is important to you? Why not be clear with her, regarding your intentions?
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well you brought her meds, why wouldn’t you take her to dinner? 😂😂Basically, and she did say she wanted to hang out before she left.
But Honestly, slow fade. Like start ignoring her calls, I'm serious, because she is wasting time.
Or let her know you met someone else and is taking them out.
You really have to draw a line with this girl, and cut all attachments to her. IF you want to call her out then do that.
Sometimes if/when we realize we have a sort of " pull" or power, we abuse it. She is that type, and that's not what you want.
How do you know he's not wasting her time? He rarely sleeps more than twice with a woman. Besides, it's not like he's been holding himself for her. He has been spending time with other girls.
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As he should, if they are not exclusive.
I get the impression he likes her over every girl he's currently talking to, he's just waiting for some type of greenlight.
I think they are on different pages in what they want the next step to be, but I think she knows by now that he wants to have sex. With her knowing that, and knowing she's not ready to go there, leave the man alone. Imo, stop calling for dates if there are no plans to take it a step further in his direction.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well you brought her meds, why wouldn’t you take her to dinner? 😂😂Basically, and she did say she wanted to hang out before she left.
But Honestly, slow fade. Like start ignoring her calls, I'm serious, because she is wasting time.
Or let her know you met someone else and is taking them out.
You really have to draw a line with this girl, and cut all attachments to her. IF you want to call her out then do that.
Sometimes if/when we realize we have a sort of " pull" or power, we abuse it. She is that type, and that's not what you want.
How do you know he's not wasting her time? He rarely sleeps more than twice with a woman. Besides, it's not like he's been holding himself for her. He has been spending time with other girls.
As he should, if they are not exclusive.
I get the impression he likes her over every girl he's currently talking to, he's just waiting for some type of greenlight.
I think they are on different pages in what they want the next step to be, but I think she knows by now that he wants to have sex. With her knowing that, and knowing she's not ready to go there, leave the man alone. Imo, stop calling for dates if there are no plans to take it a step further in his direction.
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From all his posts so far, what I can gather is that he likes her over other girls because she is not easy.
Not sure why all these girls continue to message him, but it's probably because he treats them as if they were special. OP is not looking for a girlfriend, since he is moving soon. He just "likes company when he wants it". I'm sure the Cap was not informed of this. Guys like him will not divulge any information that goes against their interests, to the girls they are involved with.
He wants a fuck buddy. Why not go for a girl who wants the same? Instead he goes for the one who appears "motherly". He should know how he is coming across.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well you brought her meds, why wouldn’t you take her to dinner? 😂😂Basically, and she did say she wanted to hang out before she left.
But Honestly, slow fade. Like start ignoring her calls, I'm serious, because she is wasting time.
Or let her know you met someone else and is taking them out.
You really have to draw a line with this girl, and cut all attachments to her. IF you want to call her out then do that.
Sometimes if/when we realize we have a sort of " pull" or power, we abuse it. She is that type, and that's not what you want.
How do you know he's not wasting her time? He rarely sleeps more than twice with a woman. Besides, it's not like he's been holding himself for her. He has been spending time with other girls.
As he should, if they are not exclusive.
I get the impression he likes her over every girl he's currently talking to, he's just waiting for some type of greenlight.
I think they are on different pages in what they want the next step to be, but I think she knows by now that he wants to have sex. With her knowing that, and knowing she's not ready to go there, leave the man alone. Imo, stop calling for dates if there are no plans to take it a step further in his direction.
From all his posts so far, what I can gather is that he likes her over other girls because she is not easy.
Not sure why all these girls continue to message him, but it's probably because he treats them as if they were special. OP is not looking for a girlfriend, since he is moving soon. He just "likes company when he wants it". I'm sure the Cap was not informed of this. Guys like him will not divulge any information that goes against their interests, to the girls they are involved with.
He wants a fuck buddy. Why not go for a girl who wants the same? Instead he goes for the one who appears "motherly". He should know how he is coming across.
That Cap girl is moving as well, she just told him recently about it
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Yes, I'm aware of that. At least she was honest enough to inform him of that. I'm wondering whether he has been this honest with her.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well you brought her meds, why wouldn’t you take her to dinner? 😂😂Basically, and she did say she wanted to hang out before she left.
But Honestly, slow fade. Like start ignoring her calls, I'm serious, because she is wasting time.
Or let her know you met someone else and is taking them out.
You really have to draw a line with this girl, and cut all attachments to her. IF you want to call her out then do that.
Sometimes if/when we realize we have a sort of " pull" or power, we abuse it. She is that type, and that's not what you want.
How do you know he's not wasting her time? He rarely sleeps more than twice with a woman. Besides, it's not like he's been holding himself for her. He has been spending time with other girls.
As he should, if they are not exclusive.
I get the impression he likes her over every girl he's currently talking to, he's just waiting for some type of greenlight.
I think they are on different pages in what they want the next step to be, but I think she knows by now that he wants to have sex. With her knowing that, and knowing she's not ready to go there, leave the man alone. Imo, stop calling for dates if there are no plans to take it a step further in his direction.
From all his posts so far, what I can gather is that he likes her over other girls because she is not easy.
Not sure why all these girls continue to message him, but it's probably because he treats them as if they were special. OP is not looking for a girlfriend, since he is moving soon. He just "likes company when he wants it". I'm sure the Cap was not informed of this. Guys like him will not divulge any information that goes against their interests, to the girls they are involved with.
He wants a fuck buddy. Why not go for a girl who wants the same? Instead he goes for the one who appears "motherly". He should know how he is coming across.
That Cap girl is moving as well, she just told him recently about it
Yes, I'm aware of that. At least she was honest enough to inform him of that. I'm wondering whether he has been this honest with her.
Ah ok, didn't know if you saw that part. Anyway, I don't think they're right for each other from the start lol basically waste of time but so be it. He doesn't want to accept fact how Caps are and she probably doesn't know how Sag guys are so yeah, that's the outcome
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In Sag man - Cap woman relationships, the women always dominate. Which should not come as a surprise, considering Sag men can be so irresponsible and the Cap women are the opposite of that.
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Ok Capricorn that told me she's leaving at end of January hits me up (damn saturn return leaving lol)
She's feeling better. This chick asks me if I wanted to go to dinner or something today(Friday the 22nd) because she called out of work to make sure she's good for Saturday.
I replied back, I don't know... I have a couple things I'm juggling, but its not a yes or a no, so go ahead and make your own plans.
You already avoided sex on my birthday, and you told me you have to be "sure" before we do anything, and you told me you are leaving, why would I take you on a dinner date? This is why women get a bad rap.
NO, I can play games too and back burner tf outta you. Now I am feeling really used and disrespected. we can go for coffee, maybe lunch that's like 30 bucks.... I'm not taking you out for dinner and drinks with no end game. maybe a make out session like I'm in f'n high school.
Damn caps.