hw u gonna solve ds cappies?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Kimu on Monday, February 8, 2016 and has 23 replies.

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@Kimu
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Crushes on ppl easily happens in my case n dey also get drawn towards me..bt as soon as my crush starts to get serius abt me,god knws y i starts to get nervous in dere presence n feel lyk hiding frm dm...funny in a way!
Guide me frnds if ds happns to u as well...i m one cappie girl n i need to find a solution to dis so dt i can fall for smone who loves me 🙂

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10 Years

I dont knw why you asked me ds @greentea...bt it gave me buttrflies in my stomach..x/

Actually i m new here n i dont ask my doubts too often so maybe my questn appear little out of d box to u.

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Posted by Kimu
I dont knw why you asked me ds @greentea...bt it gave me buttrflies in my stomach..x/

Actually i m new here n i dont ask my doubts too often so maybe my questn appear little out of d box to u.

Don't worry about it, it's not important, just wanted to know bcuz some parts were hard to understand.

Anyway, you just get stage fright, and shy around crushes. It's ok, next time just make it a point to not run away if they approach you or make eye contact, allow whatever happens to happen. It takes practice.

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@truecap
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I guess I need to take a class on reading and writing...I can't understand HALF of what gets posted on this site.

Damn technology ruined communication skills.

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@truecap
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Posted by Kimu
I dont knw why you asked me ds @greentea...bt it gave me buttrflies in my stomach..x/

Actually i m new here n i dont ask my doubts too often so maybe my questn appear little out of d box to u.

You'll probably get more responses if you type in English and not in the text speak.

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Posted by Greentea

Posted by Kimu
I dont knw why you asked me ds @greentea...bt it gave me buttrflies in my stomach..x/

Actually i m new here n i dont ask my doubts too often so maybe my questn appear little out of d box to u.

Don't worry about it, it's not important, just wanted to know bcuz some parts were hard to understand.

Anyway, you just get stage fright, and shy around crushes. It's ok, next time just make it a point to not run away if they approach you or make eye contact, allow whatever happens to happen. It takes practice.

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Oh, is that what she was trying to say? I used to do that in Jr High and High School. Fear of looking or saying anything stupid, I think. Have to bite the bullet and face your fears. Your friends like you, why wouldn't your crush?

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@Kimu
10 Years

Apologies for my typing...bt wt to do its wintr thats making me lazy ,,plus me too a little laid back myself....so this type of typing comes natural to me...heeehaaa

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@Kimu
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Believe me @Greentea i tried just wat u said once...bt i ended up terribly. My brain got freezed n ol my bubbly chats ,that perhaps is the reason i draw people toward me, faded n i said what i should not have. Now i feel i kinda made my own joke by confronting him
I just dnt like such situations.

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Posted by Kimu
Believe me @Greentea i tried just wat u said once...bt i ended up terribly. My brain got freezed n ol my bubbly chats ,that perhaps is the reason i draw people toward me, faded n i said what i should not have. Now i feel i kinda made my own joke by confronting him
I just dnt like such situations.

Lol. Well, we all stumble at times.

It's not.going to work until you feel comfortable with it, it takes practice.

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@Kimu
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Felt good to hear this @Truecap that u faced it too.So i m not an alien...but how u came out of this blue.? Because this is really tough

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@Kimu
10 Years

I agree with you @greentea....i just need practice in this department. N if things still wont work then i'll create a 'new topic ' at dxpnet for discussion...heeehaaa

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@truecap
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Posted by Kimu
Apologies for my typing...bt wt to do its wintr thats making me lazy ,,plus me too a little laid back myself....so this type of typing comes natural to me...heeehaaa

Heads up - I choose not to read messages written like this. I'm sure a lot of others do too.

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Posted by truecap

Posted by Kimu
Apologies for my typing...bt wt to do its wintr thats making me lazy ,,plus me too a little laid back myself....so this type of typing comes natural to me...heeehaaa

Head up - I choose not to read messages written like this. I'm sure a lot of others do too.

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Because if you're too lazy and laid back to type it out where it's readable, we're too lazy to decipher it. 😉

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Posted by Kimu
Felt good to hear this @Truecap that u faced it too.So i m not an alien...but how u came out of this blue.? Because this is really tough

Maturity, self confidence, facing my fears. You can't get what you want by avoiding your fears. Face your fears and you'll learn the outcome is much better than the alternative because the alternative is nothing.

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@Kimu
10 Years

Now i know what hyperbole is.
I Mean seriously! my text was a morse code.?
I knw that it could be tough but morse code. really!

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Posted by Westsidekodak

Posted by Kimu
Crushes on ppl easily happens in my case n dey also get drawn towards me..bt as soon as my crush starts to get serius abt me,god knws y i starts to get nervous in dere presence n feel lyk hiding frm dm...funny in a way!
Guide me frnds if ds happns to u as well...i m one cappie girl n i need to find a solution to dis so dt i can fall for smone who loves me 🙂

English isn't her first language people. Pointing out she's not doing it correct will not make her skills improve anymore.

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When she took the time to actually spell out her words, what she said was legible.

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Posted by Westsidekodak

Posted by Kimu
Crushes on ppl easily happens in my case n dey also get drawn towards me..bt as soon as my crush starts to get serius abt me,god knws y i starts to get nervous in dere presence n feel lyk hiding frm dm...funny in a way!
Guide me frnds if ds happns to u as well...i m one cappie girl n i need to find a solution to dis so dt i can fall for smone who loves me 🙂

English isn't her first language people. Pointing out she's not doing it correct will not make her skills improve anymore.

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When she took the time to actually spell out her words, what she said was legible.