How will I know....

i have been with a cappy guy for almost 9 months now and till now, it is not yet official.. So I don't know what are we, bff or fwb. I know he likes me coz he do these things for me like cook dinner, change oil my car, call me regularly every night, text me all day long , makes me laugh and to make the story short, he wants to make sure i am okey. My question, how will i know if i am the right girl for him? I like this guy a lot and i have read that cappy guy take it too slow..Does he like/ love me too or he is not decided yet if I am the one. Please help all cappies out there..

I think you guys are official.

You can always tell him that in your mind you two are official, and you want to know if he thinks the same. Be direct about it, who cares at this point.

Thank you so much SagiScorp and Foreverloveme... Your comments made me so happy, i wanna jump!

If in his mind, i am the right one, how come until now, I haven't met his friends personnaly yet ? I knew his friends names and faces already coz he sends me pictures everytime they hang out.. I am a virgo and you know how virgos are..i am very suspicious and jealous , overthinking sometimes? and i do trust him coz he never lied to me...ever! That's why i can't ask for more, only this one.. How i wish i will meet his friends?.

AND BTW, Cappy people are the best.. They are the truest and sincerest and loyal friend you can have ??

9 months??!! My ex hubby asked me to marry him after the first week lol. I was like no, we were 19. but seriously, he cares to some degree but really u should know the best. What does your gut say?

@Moonbutter..my gut says he likes me coz i can feel it the way he hugs and kiss me.I mean , he is busy working and studying and he still find sometime to see me at leadt 3x a week.. If that is not love then what is it? I know he is scared and uncomfortable talking about his emotions coz i tried to ask him once and he ask me " which one do you prefer, man of words or man of actions?"

I am scared too , i don't wanna be heartbroken that's why i asking some help from all cappies here to give me some helpful hints to my question above..

Posted by Virgiene
@Moonbutter..my gut says he likes me coz i can feel it the way he hugs and kiss me.I mean , he is busy working and studying and he still find sometime to see me at leadt 3x a week.. If that is not love then what is it? I know he is scared and uncomfortable talking about his emotions coz i tried to ask him once and he ask me " which one do you prefer, man of words or man of actions?"

I am scared too , i don't wanna be heartbroken that's why i asking some help from all cappies here to give me some helpful hints to my question above..

I see... How long were you guys together before becoming intimate and how old is he?

By 9 months a direction about where you are headed is ideal.

How does he introduce you to friends?

What does his family refer to you as?

@truecap and FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428...

So, you think he is not that into me?

I am sad now??...

Posted by Virgiene
@truecap and FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428...

So, you think he is not that into me?

I am sad now??...

He is into you. If you have doubts just ask him. We like direct, and he will answer your question in some way that leaves no doubt.

Posted by Virgiene
@truecap and FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428...

So, you think he is not that into me?

I am sad now??...

I didn't say that. You said you were confused about the status of your relationship. I asked how he introduces you. Is it "this is my friend", "this is my girlfriend" "this is virgiene" ....it could give you a clue. Also his family..do they refer to you as his friend or girlfriend or as just a girl.. do they give any kind of hint you could reference?

After 9 months, you should have met some friends and family by now.

@truecap.. Oh.. I said in my comments, i haven't met his friends yet but i knew them already by name. But he told me one day i am gonna meet them...is 9 months long enough already for a capricorn ?

He likes you a lot i would say. However, he's still assessing you or something else is up. When Caps want a committment, they aren't shy about it. Are his friends / fam in the same city?

As another poster said, just ASK . That's not really the Virgo style I think, but it's how you can know where he stands.

@SunMoonStars.... I know he likes me alot but is there a chance he can cut me off completely after analyzing and assessing me?

Posted by Virgiene
@truecap.. Oh.. I said in my comments, i haven't met his friends yet but i knew them already by name. But he told me one day i am gonna meet them...is 9 months long enough already for a capricorn ?

I'd have them meet friends at least by the 3rd month

Posted by Virgiene
@SunMoonStars.... I know he likes me alot but is there a chance he can cut me off completely after analyzing and assessing me?

He would have already done that if he were going to. Unless he's betrayed by you or you display something new that's a deal breaker for him.

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Posted by Virgiene
@truecap and FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428...

So, you think he is not that into me?

I am sad now??...

He is into you. If you have doubts just ask him. We like direct, and he will answer your question in some way that leaves no doubt.

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But 9 months of good banter and quality time spent, and knowledge of where one is at without pressure isn't bad. So casually keep talking and respect each other.

Actions speak louder than words- Not just a cliche where Cap men are concerned, time spent with you is time invested = he is into you 😎

That is sooooo sweet. Be grateful! He cares about you so much!

Posted by Virgiene
i have been with a cappy guy for almost 9 months now and till now, it is not yet official.. So I don't know what are we, bff or fwb. I know he likes me coz he do these things for me like cook dinner, change oil my car, call me regularly every night, text me all day long , makes me laugh and to make the story short, he wants to make sure i am okey. My question, how will i know if i am the right girl for him? I like this guy a lot and i have read that cappy guy take it too slow..Does he like/ love me too or he is not decided yet if I am the one. Please help all cappies out there..

Don't take this the wrong way but it depends on age... Alot of girls think they can just party there younger years away and then just find a guy that has his shit together and get married. Every guy wants to have a few years normally to get to know and just have fun with a woman before they have kids or other things. Cap. have put in the time and work... and if he calls you like that I think he is taking it serious... Virgo's some times have trouble letting there feelings show like... speaking them. Take a chance I don't think you will be disappoint with the transits going on... Realize there is a Cap retro grade with Mercury in Dec. So something may rock him... then... Realizes it is how he deals with the situation where he takes out the frustrations... healthy or not healthy... Then you will really have your answer. Allow yourself to be happy... life is to short.

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Posted by CAPLOCK
@OP - im new here but listen. From a mans perspective with all honesty..If you werent the one, he would have already cut you off and not waste anytime. 9 months vs 9 days or 9 hours says that youre in his future plans.

um, why don't u ask him?

i ask him already before and he told me, "someday".. I don't wanna ask him again..