I need some advice

So I know that compatible signs aren't always perfect for each other but I'm ready to try something new. I'm a Virgo and I've always been with air signs ever since I started dating. I'm ready to start pursuing Caps as I've heard we are perfect for one another but I don't know what Cap ladies are like, I don't have any in my immediate family but I have three close male Cap friends.

What do you ladies like? Are they into romance or not very emotional?

I'm just sick of air sign women and their games, I have met some beautiful Cap women but they are always taken or married.

I can't speak for all Cap women but I personally like to laugh and feel comfortable. I don't like awkward or tense situations or guys to try to impress me. If you can be a natural, meaning be yourself AND make me laugh, that's a plus. Virgos are usually very funny IMHO.

Please don't listen to people that say we are gold diggers, I don't know one Cappy female including myself that goes for men because of how much money they have. Frankly I'm sick and tired of hearing that nonsense.

I've been with wealthy men and I've been with men who had a dime to their name, it's not about money or what we can get from you. PERIOD!

I would much rather be with a guy of modest means and blue collar life style who works hard and has a good heart, is loyal and treats me well, then be with a guy who is "rich" and is a Kook who treats me like I'm nothing to him and doesn't have respect for me.

Don't play games with us, and be honest from the get go about your intentions and goals for the relationship as I know for me I don't like to be uncertain of where I stand........ Good sense of humor.... someone who can make me feel comfortable around them..... someone who can spend time with me and enjoy each other's company by just being in the same room but we're doing our own thing..... Someone who wants to build an empire with me and never settles once one Goal is accomplished, but makes a habit of creating new ones together..... Someone who makes me feel wanted, desired, and never makes me question how they feel about me..... Someone who can laugh with me when I eat concrete (fall), or embarrass myself in some way and we can playfully make fun of each other and know that it's just in fun..... Someone who can bring out the romantic side of me that's hidden deep away..... Someone who lights me up inside with a sweet good morning text and good night text..... Someone who motivates me even more to be my very best and pushes me if I ever feel like I'm slipping down the mountain..... A man who can take control and be the dominant but loving and respectful man I need.... A man who knows when he has a good thing, and appreciates it.....

That's some for now, and I will add more later. Please keep in mind this message is based on myself and what I like, as a Capricorn woman.

You being a Virgo, I know that the compatibility behind closed doors between our signs is also very good..

Posted by Capri-sun

Posted by NostalgicCappy
Please don't listen to people that say we are gold diggers, I don't know one Cappy female including myself that goes for men because of how much money they have. Frankly I'm sick and tired of hearing that nonsense.

I've been with wealthy men and I've been with men who had a dime to their name, it's not about money or what we can get from you. PERIOD!

I would much rather be with a guy of modest means and blue collar life style who works hard and has a good heart, is loyal and treats me well, then be with a guy who is "rich" and is a Kook who treats me like I'm nothing to him and doesn't have respect for me.

Don't play games with us, and be honest from the get go about your intentions and goals for the relationship as I know for me I don't like to be uncertain of where I stand........ Good sense of humor.... someone who can make me feel comfortable around them..... someone who can spend time with me and enjoy each other's company by just being in the same room but we're doing our own thing..... Someone who wants to build an empire with me and never settles once one Goal is accomplished, but makes a habit of creating new ones together..... Someone who makes me feel wanted, desired, and never makes me question how they feel about me..... Someone who can laugh with me when I eat concrete (fall), or embarrass myself in some way and we can playfully make fun of each other and know that it's just in fun..... Someone who can bring out the romantic side of me that's hidden deep away..... Someone who lights me up inside with a sweet good morning text and good night text..... Someone who motivates me even more to be my very best and pushes me if I ever feel like I'm slipping down the mountain..... A man who can take control and be the dominant but loving and respectful man I need.... A man who knows when he has a good thing, and appreciates it.....

That's some for now, and I will add more later. Please keep in mind this message is based on myself and what I like, as a Capricorn woman.

You being a Virgo, I know that the compatibility behind closed doors between our signs is also very good..

+1 I couldn't have said it any better

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Great minds think alike Capri, ☺️

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Posted by narleycharley94
So I know that compatible signs aren't always perfect for each other but I'm ready to try something new. I'm a Virgo and I've always been with air signs ever since I started dating. I'm ready to start pursuing Caps as I've heard we are perfect for one another but I don't know what Cap ladies are like, I don't have any in my immediate family but I have three close male Cap friends.

What do you ladies like? Are they into romance or not very emotional?

I'm just sick of air sign women and their games, I have met some beautiful Cap women but they are always taken or married.

"What do you ladies like?"

NostalgicCappy summed it up well from my perspective.

"Are they into romance or not very emotional?"

I love romance. I'm also venus dominant and have libra moon so I could be more into it than others. In general, I would say yes cap ladies like romance.

I'm also very emotional, even though it might not reflect outwardly. I feel everything deeply. I try to keep a level head and remained composed on the outside especially in public. Once a person peels back the layers and taps into my soft spot, that's when I'm more willing to show my emotions. Before then, I just bottle them up.

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I agree with all of this as well, especially about bottling emotions up until someone is able to peel back the "layers".

There is more to astrology than just the sun signs. You need to consider moon signs, venus signs, mars, as well as placements. What works for one Virgo might not work for you. Just date who you like and are attracted too, don't date because of their sun sign.

Posted by narleycharley94
So I know that compatible signs aren't always perfect for each other but I'm ready to try something new. I'm a Virgo and I've always been with air signs ever since I started dating. I'm ready to start pursuing Caps as I've heard we are perfect for one another but I don't know what Cap ladies are like, I don't have any in my immediate family but I have three close male Cap friends.

What do you ladies like? Are they into romance or not very emotional?

I'm just sick of air sign women and their games, I have met some beautiful Cap women but they are always taken or married.

Best relationship of my life was with a Cap lady. Still one of my best friends. If she wanted to, I'd try it again with her in a heartbeat.

I'm not rich. I'm not a businessman. She doesn't care. She's wicked funny and sensible. Not too emotional, but there have been a few times. Works for me because emotional scenes are tough for me to deal with. Love her to pieces.

Most of my relationships have been with Geminis. Geminis seem to like me a lot at first. It doesn't last, though. They start having issues with me and I end up having issues with them for whatever reason, so it falls apart.

Posted by Scruffles
I think you'll be bored to death.

I think so too.

@Scruffles you have Aquaius riising and Aquarius moon,

this OP is mewling he was sick of air signs and games. Seriously? Is he gonna settle for an earthy woman

without any air if he's been only with air—

if you want an earthy woman you best get one with AIR cause you're gonna be snoring.

Posted by lexci
There is more to astrology than just the sun signs. You need to consider moon signs, venus signs, mars, as well as placements. What works for one Virgo might not work for you. Just date who you like and are attracted too, don't date because of their sun sign.

for a virgo, I always think they are super smart....

but dayummmm. lol

I agree with what my fellow cap suns have shared so far, and would emphasize the importance of feeling comfortable and being able to laugh together. If I am not comfortable with someone, they might assume I have no sense of humor at all, or that I am "boring"...

If I am not comfortable with someone or do not find them humorous (or vice versa), the thought of spending significant amounts of time together is not appealing.