Posted by scorpmoonAre you talking about putting hands on someone like your SO type of fighting?
What are your experiences as a capricorn or as their partner ? Do Caps dislike fighting so much that it becomes a deal breaker or do they feel that fighting is a normal part of a relationship ? To what extent fights are allowed when you are in a relationship with a capricorn ?
Posted by ParisianCappyBest way to make up
if there is rough sex at the end of this argu :p
Posted by ParisianCappyMake up sex after a casual misunderstanding but too much can cause turmoil and a habit. Like if they walk out the door instead of talking. Then there's a problem.
if there is rough sex at the end of this argu :p
Posted by VirgieneThey know answers? They know shit! Lol
Speaking through experience, cappy guys don't like fighting especially drama. They can't stand it..once in a while it is okey but make sure you have all the datas and proofs with you ? coz you will not going to win with them. I know it is not about winning or what , but cappies are so straightforward. They know all the answers already even before you open your mouth.
I would say if it is just petty things ... just brush it off and wait for the right time.
Posted by scorpmoonHahaha, I could write a book on this topic.
What are your experiences as a capricorn or as their partner ? Do Caps dislike fighting so much that it becomes a deal breaker or do they feel that fighting is a normal part of a relationship ? To what extent fights are allowed when you are in a relationship with a capricorn ?
Posted by Virgiene
Speaking through experience, cappy guys don't like fighting especially drama. They can't stand it..once in a while it is okey but make sure you have all the datas and proofs with you ? coz you will not going to win with them. I know it is not about winning or what , but cappies are so straightforward. They know all the answers already even before you open your mouth.
I would say if it is just petty things ... just brush it off and wait for the right time.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I am talking about fighting with SO over and over again on different things like him not giving you time or not caring enough about you or not helping you in somethingPosted by scorpmoonAre you talking about putting hands on someone like your SO type of fighting?
What are your experiences as a capricorn or as their partner ? Do Caps dislike fighting so much that it becomes a deal breaker or do they feel that fighting is a normal part of a relationship ? To what extent fights are allowed when you are in a relationship with a capricorn ?
Or normal spats of arguing to disagree and argee fights? It's supposed to happened if you don't argue something is wrong.click to expand
Posted by Seraphlight
My experience ..cappie ex..they are easily irritated ...very quick temper..0 to 90 in 1 second .but that was a family trait in every one in that family his brother and his dad too. He knew it was an issue. Waay to much drama.
I would say he is not the norm though. He could be violent. So it's definitely not the norm
I would say he LEARNT it as a way of living ...that was how he knew how to live ..he didn't know any other way ..and to be honest i don't think he wanted to learn or had the tools do so.
I was not the common factor. He was commonly getting into physical fights with guys. Even with a female guard once. He spend a night in a cell for that.
He was just.....dark...seen too much really...too much too young...grew up with it..it became a part of him...and the bad stuff the guilt ..
But he is not really typical of cappie...he is typical of a guy with anger issues though.
I would say avoid people who like fighting go for those who don't like it...or can diffuse it. Or can remain calm etc...
Posted by CAPRILICIOUSWould you drop a 5 year relationship just because this fighting issue ?
Fighting in a relationship is definitely NOT normal!
I dislike harshness. I will only fight if pushed too far and it doesn't make me feel good about myself or the other person.
If it continues, it won't be long before I walk out.
Posted by Capri-sun
Even when I argue, it's usually not yelling. It is a build up of emotions so I will be patient and overlook things until I can't anymore or until I have processed and calmed down and am ready to talk about it.
Posted by cheekyfaerieLol you are always painfully direct and I like that 😉
Life's hard enough without having a partner that makes it harder. Fuck that noise.
Posted by CaploveBut my cap seems fed of our regular fights 😢
Minor arguments/disagreements aren't that big deal of a deal for me, I sort of expect that it'll happen eventually after being with someone for years and years (living and sharing a life together). At the end, my dedication and loyalty to the relationship/my partner will hold me to them through silly disagreements.
My step dad and mom argue every once in awhile, it's sparring and it works for them, might not work for everyone else. They both have fire Mercuries though, to them it's nothing and they're totally happy after getting it out of their system.
Edit: I have Mercury in Sag. though, so that could have something to do with it.
Posted by CaploveYeah I am more direct than my capPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Posted by ParisianCappyMake up sex after a casual misunderstanding but too much can cause turmoil and a habit. Like if they walk out the door instead of talking. Then there's a problem.
if there is rough sex at the end of this argu :p
This. It's a communication style conflict, imo. I think if one person is more confrontational/direct they need to be w/ someone that can obviously match them and won't feel threatened. Someone else might cower/run away from that conflict while another will stay and talk it out.
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Posted by SunMoonStarsthanks for the help, How about constant fights in a relationship, My cap is almost fed up of our regular fightsPosted by scorpmoonHahaha, I could write a book on this topic.
What are your experiences as a capricorn or as their partner ? Do Caps dislike fighting so much that it becomes a deal breaker or do they feel that fighting is a normal part of a relationship ? To what extent fights are allowed when you are in a relationship with a capricorn ?
At work, so off the top of my head regarding my Cap male (Aqua cusp):
- don't chase, ever!!
- if he loves you or wants you back, he WILL make the effort, no matter how bad the fight is
- he's moody especially when things aren't going well at work
- work, finances, status are very important to him
- he does think that fighting is a normal part of a relationship
- he needs alone time to decompress after work
- processes things internally
- not great at communicating aka. doesn't really feel he owes anyone a detailed explanation
- can be snobby and judgmental
Above are based on my personal experiences.
Feel free to ask me here or PM if you have other questions.
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Posted by mer-eye-uhYes mine is exactly like this too. He sometimes tell white lies but never admits untill I present proofsPosted by Virgiene
Speaking through experience, cappy guys don't like fighting especially drama. They can't stand it..once in a while it is okey but make sure you have all the datas and proofs with you ? coz you will not going to win with them. I know it is not about winning or what , but cappies are so straightforward. They know all the answers already even before you open your mouth.
I would say if it is just petty things ... just brush it off and wait for the right time.
My BF is a capricorn and so em I, he is exactly what this poster said. I am different though, I want to get it over with and get to the bottom of the problem. I want to talk it out and not drag it on. But my BF will do anything to make it go away asap by brushing it off. Both of us like to see "proof" or else u wont win. That is totally true. lol
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Posted by scorpmoonTbh, I'M the one almost fed up, and ready to walk away. I really dislike fighting and consider it dysfunctional when it's repeated. Sadly, it makes him too much trouble than worth 😢Posted by SunMoonStarsthanks for the help, How about constant fights in a relationship, My cap is almost fed up of our regular fightsPosted by scorpmoonHahaha, I could write a book on this topic.
What are your experiences as a capricorn or as their partner ? Do Caps dislike fighting so much that it becomes a deal breaker or do they feel that fighting is a normal part of a relationship ? To what extent fights are allowed when you are in a relationship with a capricorn ?
At work, so off the top of my head regarding my Cap male (Aqua cusp):
- don't chase, ever!!
- if he loves you or wants you back, he WILL make the effort, no matter how bad the fight is
- he's moody especially when things aren't going well at work
- work, finances, status are very important to him
- he does think that fighting is a normal part of a relationship
- he needs alone time to decompress after work
- processes things internally
- not great at communicating aka. doesn't really feel he owes anyone a detailed explanation
- can be snobby and judgmental
Above are based on my personal experiences.
Feel free to ask me here or PM if you have other questions.
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Posted by CAPRILICIOUSi don't think caps who lack of water are anything near vicious. my mom and my bff are good examples.Posted by SsupermanLol. Petty...I could maybe agree with, but viscous?? I don't know. I'd like to believe not. 😄
In my experience, Cap ladies get really petty. The guys go right the hell off.
Caps are very viscous when they get pissed. They will do whatever is necessary to cause you great pain.click to expand
Posted by iCloud9
last time we fought was years go lol
Posted by Gemitati
Mine is least confrontational person I've knows...
Maybe it is because there is no point to fight with me? I am always right...so!
If he knows he is going to lose what's the point of fighting right?
Posted by Ssuperman+1000
Caps are very viscous when they get pissed. They will do whatever is necessary to cause you great pain.
Posted by scorpmoonperfect? who am i to ask for perfection? anyone expecting perfection needs to check their mental health first lolPosted by iCloud9
last time we fought was years go lol
Wow. Lol how do you people manage not to fight ? Is he that perfect ? I mean what do you do if something bothers you ?
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Posted by Caplovewhen i first heard that beautiful libra mercury + venus speech (lol), i wondered whether i was some lucifer incarnate lolPosted by iCloud9Omg, he sounds wonderful. Sounds like you've got a winner there. 🙂Posted by scorpmoonperfect? who am i to ask for perfection? anyone expecting perfection needs to check their mental health first lolPosted by iCloud9
last time we fought was years go lol
Wow. Lol how do you people manage not to fight ? Is he that perfect ? I mean what do you do if something bothers you ?
the emotionalism bw us is high. in the beginning of our relationship, i had a hard time controlling my "passionate" (lol) reactions to careless comments until one day, he sat me down and told me that babe i'm just a man and i know i can say stupid things but please know that i can never think anything bad or harmful when it comes to you it's simply impossible. trust that i never have a bad thought about you and i love u more than anything. after that, i learned to be chill and accepting more and more overtime. and, of course, age is not just a number lol
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