Isolating yourselves?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Bells93 on Monday, April 7, 2014 and has 3 replies.

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@Bells93
12 YearsCapricorn

I wanted to ask my fellow Caps about whether you guys isolate yourselves, or feel isolated, and how you deal with it? I moved away for school 3 years ago, and still only have approximately 4-5 friends in my area. I'm not the best at making new friends. It's not that I can't, it's that I kind of don't want to deal with the hassle?

Thoughts?

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@DeltaCephei
12 YearsLibra

"Attracting people is the easy part. Shaking them is the hard part"

I stay in awe with this sentence in humble adoration. Consider it stolen. 😆

My Cap friend is a leader. He takes life seriously, and that includes communication for sure. But he can also be pretty funny, not in the sarcastic passive-aggresive way, but in a very healthy way. He's not looking for words,but actions. Be attentive and supportive, and you'll have a long live friend.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm an only child, so I have no problem isolating myself. I need alone time, crave it, enjoy it!
Oh, I'm social. I have friends, but, I have no issue doing things alone. I've done it my entire life.

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@noonie1801
16 Years

I do isolate myself but don't really notice it until someone brings it up. I just feel I want to be by myself especially if I feel everyone around me is not saying anything or doing anything important. I definitely retreat when I need to get myself back in order and recharge. Being around people all the time drains me and makes me feel exhausted. I love being by myself and never feel the need to be around people or crave attention from others.