leave it?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by saggie123 on Saturday, February 25, 2012 and has 5 replies.

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@saggie123
14 Years

HI
I need an advice from caps 🙂
The guy I'm seeing, cap, has been "hiding". it takes him forever to respond to my messages and things were different just a few weeks ago, we were talkin a lot and then out of sudden he just seems like withdrawing...

What should I do in these case? shoud I text him every once in awhile something like " I miss you" or just leave him alone and wait for him to start talking ?

What do capricorns value?

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I would just send a text occasionally and just say hi. We like the effort.

However, if he still doesn't respond, just move on. I have a bad habit of becoming too busy or just drifting away when I'm not interested.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by truecap
I would just send a text occasionally and just say hi. We like the effort.

Sometimes we really are busy and just don't get around to calling/texting. We are easily distracted by all of our responsibilities.

Its hard to say....

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@saggie123
14 Years

Do you think it would be a good idea to ask him next time I see him whether he has an interest in seeing me at all? Will he tell the truth? Will he get scared and totally withdraw ??

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@laurathealien
14 Years

Wait a bit. Patience and caps is big I think.

Do the occasional text thing for a while.
Like once a week at most.

If you hang out and things are going well, it may be to soon to bring it up.

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@laurathealien
14 Years

ugh. the texting game is sooo annoying.
it's like, you just want to know if things are cool, and always end up feeling like you've divulged TOO much. SO FRUSTRATING.