Leo Man Capricorn Woman couple needs help

I need advice. I am a capricorn woman with aries moon and libra rising. He is a leo man with pisces moon and scorpio rising. We are a couple for about a month now. But he is driving me nuts. Prob cos I am head over heels, & you know when capricorns fall in love we fall hard. Let me give you a rough idea. ??I am not sure if I am the typical capricorn though many of the basic traits describe me at the dot. I am normally serious, reserved, quiet, analytical & consider every single decision. I was with a gemini for 5 yrs, an aquarius for 4 mths, a virgo for a yr and another virgo for 7 yrs. I was cheated on by all the past 4 exes. ??This leo man is my fifth relationship. It was very hard for me to make the decision of starting another relationship, so yes I am extremely nervous. ?? I am very attracted to him because he was mature, gentlemanly, reserved, and he is the only person I have ever felt comfortable communicating with. We are so similar in so many aspects. And until today, his smile captivates me, even if its from afar. And the sex is out of this world, never in my 29 years have I had someone connected with me sexually that way. ?? I have a problem though. I doubt this is typical capricorn behaviour, even if they do fall hard. I often feel that it is this habit that i have that pushes my men away from me, but because I am so stubborn I have this belief that I should do what I want. Any other way would simply be fake and pretensious. And that if I loved any other way or play hard to get or play mind games just to keep him by my side, I would not be me and would simply regret it and be unhappy in the long run. ?? When I fall in love, I am a hopeless romantic and it always turns into a crazy adulation. But I do it to my boyfriend, so there should not be anything wrong, right? That's when I need your help. When I am in love, you would think he is the only man on earth, the handsomest, the smartest, the funniest, the sexiest, the strongest, the most hardworking, the bestest...you get the drift. Expect daily smses flattering his awesomeness, secret admiration from afar (yes, I can spend 8 hours on my off days just sitting opposite his workplace just observing his awesomeness without letting him know and going home after that, it just makes my day seeing his face & I don't want to disturb him.).

Expect funny loving sticky notes at his motorbike to make him smile or laugh after a tiring day, chocolates sweets milk with love notes, balloons tied to his bike, sunflowers sent to his workplace, or simply asking a little boy or girl to pass him love letters from his admiring girlfriend. I also got him a phone so I could personalise the phone to dedicate in it a music playlist, videos dedicated to him, & pre-sent smses between the phone and mine ??re-enacting our memories & of course to remind him how much I adore him, so it would seem like we had smsed each other even before he used the phone. I stored my number as "My Girl" on his home screen on direct dial, and personalised a photo of me overlooking his name on a tree branch I'm holding on to. When he direct dials me, it will read "The Girl Most Crazy About..." with my picture below it holding his name on the branch in my arms. His number is stored as "The Handsomest & sexiest Man On Earth" ?? Yet, this is the thing about him. From day 1, he is always late for our dates, sometimes he forgets about our dates and I would wait 3 hours, he never calls me except twice to tell me that he can't meet me, and the only sms he has ever sent me is a reply to me saying "Happy Valentine's Day too...". Just to clarify on the communication part, he owns a phone yet is never contactable, his friends complain his bosses complain and says he should just throw his phone away. But it is easy to reach him cos he is at work 365 days a year from 11am till 12midnight except for 1 week during new year when he goes to see his family out of town. His mother especially cos she is very sick and her medicines are expensive. He is a serious workaholic and has been working since he was 8. Yet whenever I ask if he loves me, he says he loves me, he says he misses me, he says he is serious about me, he says he wants to live with me someday. He just said that same thing just two days back before he left for his hometown. Yet he does not answer my calls, my smses, & I think he left his phone here when he went out of town. He will be back in a week or more and I guess I will not be able to reach him at this rate. Now I am starting to wonder if he has someone at his hometown too. I do not know what I should do now.

My sister says I am totally wasting my time & effort like I always do in relationships. I mean, I am actually quite a catch. I have lots of men lining up to be my date with ages ranging from 18 to 39, & I think it is probably a capricorn thing but I look younger as I age. Right now I can pass off as 15yrs at age 29yrs. The oldest people think I am right now is 22yrs. But the capricorn in me is stubbornly faithful and loyal to my lovers despite anything. Seriously, I am so mad at him and I feel like just going out and opening up to other men and really a one night stand is really hot on my mind right now. I am envisioning myself on the podium, wearing my lingerie, dancing my ass off cos I am a dancer by profession before, drinking a whole jug, holding a huge banner saying "looking for leo man right now". ??I know, so not capricorn. Therefore, I seriously need some insights.??Thank you in advance!

Thank you SirB 🙂 Sometimes I don't feel like he's a leo though, which is why I am attracted to him cos he is neither loud nor rude like the leos I know. But yes, I can see the bigger than themselves ego, hich strangely I find admirable the way they believe in themselves so much. Your post has given me some insights to think about, & has again reminded me how very much I love him, and probably how very hard I want it to work.

So, thank you very much for the outsider outlook🙂

You say its been a month? And you love him? Id slow down a bit.

First of all, you're going to be lucky that any of us read through that wall of text. Please learn how to use paragraphs so it is easier on the eyes to read.

Now, you say he never calls or messages you. He doesn't answer his phone. He is late for dates(3 hours? hell, no!) or doesn't show up at all (hell to the no!). Honey, I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but I'm afraid, he is not into you. That, or, he doesn't have to put out any effort because you do it all for him. Either way, not good.

You bought him a personalized phone, which you personalized yourself? You leave him all those notes? You do way, way, way too much. It either reads as controlling, crazy or desperate.

Slow your roll!!!! One month is not enough to know someone well enough to know that you love them. You haven't seen all of his personality or character traits yet.

If you back off, he might come around a little better.

My best male friend is a Leo. He was dating a girl who said she loved him after one month and was talking about moving in after two. At month three, she was stalking him. He dumped her hard and cold and went running for the hills.

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(yes, I can spend 8 hours on my off days just sitting opposite his workplace just observing his awesomeness without letting him know and going home after that, it just makes my day seeing his face & I don't want to disturb him.).

I think it would impress him very much if you let him know just how often you observe his awesomeness 🙂

You could send him sweet little text messages letting him know you are outside his work, adoring him. He would love it.

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(yes, I can spend 8 hours on my off days just sitting opposite his workplace just observing his awesomeness without letting him know and going home after that, it just makes my day seeing his face & I don't want to disturb him.).

I think it would impress him very much if you let him know just how often you observe his awesomeness 🙂

You could send him sweet little text messages letting him know you are outside his work, adoring him. He would love it.

Ummmmm, I don't agree with this. He is going to run for the hills if you do this.

Instead of doing this stuff, go do things for yourself and get really pretty for when he comes around. Leo men like pretty women who take care of themselves. your hair, how you dress, how you present yourself is very important to them.

Leos are very social and love the praise even from friends, so if he has a beautiful woman he will want to show her to the whole world.

sit 8 hours just watching him and not doing anything for yourself and watch him disappear right infront of you eyes.

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I was being sarcastic.

Are Capricorn women really like this tho? 😛

This is some creepy stalker shit, right here

I think it's a put on 🙂

Of course with that Aries moon, it's highly likely 🙂

Likely to be true, that is 😛

Well, maybe mini will post her chart.

I'll wager she has Venus in Scorpio 🙂

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Well, maybe mini will post her chart.

I'll wager she has Venus in Scorpio 🙂

That was my first instint.

I have venous is scorpio, and I'm not like this!

Oh, I agree with 88 pisces too. I think she is absolutely correct!!!!

Haha...omg this does not sound good. 🙂 but thank you everyone for the replies.

Sorry about the paragraph breaks, copied and paste from polaris office but I guess the breaks got missed.

He has two of his own phones. I would not mind him changing the contents of the phone, & I would expect him to sell the phone if he does not use it.

My birth chart:-

Sun Capricorn
Moon Aries
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Asc. Libra
N. Node Taurus
MC Cancer
2nd Cusp Scorpio
3rd Cusp Sagittarius
5th Cusp Aquarius
6th Cusp Pisces

His birth chart:-

Sun Leo
Moon Pisces
Mercury Virgo
Venus Cancer
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Asc. Scorpio
N. Node Aquarius
MC Cancer
2nd Cusp Sagittarius
3rd Cusp Sagittarius
5th Cusp Aquarius
6th Cusp Aries

Thank you once again!

Hey 88NPPISCES

Thanks for the post. 🙂 I don't know if it is the capricorn nature in me, but I do consider every post because I value the effort you guys take to read and reply me. All of you have been very helpful. 🙂 thank you.

Of course I want a really nice and lasting relationship 🙂 though the way I love my men drives my men away. I have a tendency to place my men on a pedestal, he can do no wrong. And most times, I worship them. It is really crazy cos he is not an idol, but my boyfriend, you would think I would try harder devising schemes to keep him interested in me rather than idolise him and push him away.

It would be great to have someone love a "stalkerish" girlfriend who puts them on grandstand, or I would rather live my life without someone.
It is like I need to tell him how truly special he is every single day in different ways, because I fear that the day he is no longer with me, he may not remember what a rare gem he is. He deserves the best and nothing less.

I called him three times two days back.
Yesterday morning at 10.30 I sent him one sms "You appear to me as if behind glass. Even if you are at the other end of the world, in my eyes you are close to me."
This morning at 4.30 I sent him one sms "The lion is king of the forest, and you are the king in my heart."

It is crazy. I will probably send him one sms every morning until the 28th, until he returns or not. Then I will be quiet and back away.
Of course I do hope he will get back in touch with me when he returns, but if he doesn't, it is probably for the best.

I guess love is too much sometimes, & I have myself to blame too. And I am too stubborn to change the way I love, because I cannot see loving someone any other way. Any other way would simply be fake and would fill me with regrets in the end. I would rather lose a love knowing that I gave it all I had, rather than lose a love after holding back what I want to give for the sake of keeping him. My boyfriend would always need to receive the best, at least during the time he is with me. When he lets go, then I will let go. I am horrible at matters of the heart. I am better at career, totally opposite which is calm composed and steady. Sometimes I wonder why I turn into someone else with the object of my affections. Beats me. 🙂

Thank you once again. 🙂

Hi 88NPPISCES

I have known him for slightly more than 7 months now. Yes, I guess I should slow down. He is constantly in my head, and I can't stop myself. Nothing I do keeps him away from my head. That's why I thought of doing the crazy and meeting other guys to keep my mind off him, but then I would feel so guilty and unfaithful. I wish he would just tell me if he wasn't into me, rather than keep telling me that he loves me and misses me and such. Because the dots don't connect and I am left confused and binded.

Thank you for the insight. 🙂

Hi 88NPPISCES 🙂

That is very sound advice and very much appreciated.

Thank you so much. Have one wonderful week ahead and I will have one too. 🙂

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LoL@WL. For some reason this reminded me of your situation. If your Cap came on this strong in the beginning then I finally get it.

@mini, you sound sweet. Although I did tell you to slow down, I really do think staying true to yourself is most important. If there is someone out there just for you, then Id think he would understand and appreciate all you have to offer. Its good knowing that you knew him for 7 months prior to the relationship.

If its too much for him then no hard feelings. It wont be too much for the right guy.

Thank you very much Inana04, WoundedLeo, Gandalf, ellesque.

My batt is 10% right now & I'm out. So i'll make it short & answer questions.

My lilith is in Aries and his is in Scorpio, composite aquarius.

Thanks and sorry can't write as much as I want to right now! Thank u very very much! 🙂

Mini Hi! I am a cap woman married to a leo man. I just have a warning for u that it is not a eazy relationship. There is one thing that is missing between a cap woman n leo man and that is peace. The basic nature and wants are so opposite that even if both have best intention still they cannot completely keep each other happy.

To be very honest i could not read ur entire post but if i understood it correctly then ur concern is that he is not being in regular touch with you. Let me tell u one thing- LEO MEN ARE SUPER BUSY PEOPLE. They have somany things going on. Work , friends, family, relatives etc etc etc. They are wanted by every one and they feel its their duty to be there for every one. And hence no matter what they are never going to be a normal homely man that a cap women needs eventually.

"For him to show up late for dates and being forgetful, that's sorta a Leo thing or it could just a personal thing with him. But 3 hours waiting? nah chill homegirl that's not cool in any Capricorns book."

I agree with SirB that its not cool in any capricorns book. And also that i guess its a leo thing. My leo is known for his never turning on time habbit. He always tell every one that he is coming in "few mins" . His few mins lasts uoto days aswell. Such habbits are very very irritating for a capricorn.

Hi everyone! I am back. Thanks for all the posts.

Thank you WoundedLeo,
I still don't understand the venus influence. And I do not understand what our venus combinations imply.

Got this from Sasstrology.com:-
"Venus in Aquarius: believes love should be dessert with friendship as the main entr?e; likes free-spirited, eccentric people who aren't afraid to go against the status quo; attracts love by being friendly to everyone; flirts by sharing unusual ideas and opinions; wants a best friend, intellectually stimulating company and emotional detachment in relationships; discussing new, inventive ways to have sex is an aphrodisiac."

Agree with the first sentence, though not necessary would be a bonus, cos my boyfriend is my only friend whom I share everything with. That is why I am attracted to communication, because I cannot communicate with most people.

I am attracted and feel most secure with traditional, reserved, quiet people who do not draw attention to themselves. I am turned off by free-spirited, eccentric people, and especially people with no moral values or look down on others.

I am not friendly to everyone. People call me ice queen, until they get to know the real me. I am very but happily anti-social. I am happier doing things alone, if not with my boyfriend. I would rather spend my time with my lonely seniors and my kids at the orphanage.

Agree with the last sentence, though I am very and sometimes too emotionally attached in relationships. I am normally very dependent on my partner.

Is this the true venus in aquarius description? Because somehow I cannot really relate, probably due to other natal chart influences?

"Venus in Cancer: believes love should be nurturing; likes people who need mothering (or who are mothering) and are appreciative of her efforts; attracts love by making people feel cozy and sheltered; expresses love by feeding and/or cooking for someone, remembering preferences, giving thoughtful tokens of affection; wants interdependence in relationships; emotional bonding and cuddling are aphrodisiacs"

Kind of describes him I guess. When I am with him, I feel cozy and sheltered. He cooks for me all the time, and buys me something everytime he chance upon me visiting his workplace. He remembers my preferences and everything I say. He loves cuddling though I think I love cuddling more 🙂

However, the Mars describes me to a T.
Got this from Sasstrology:-
"Mars in Pisces: secretly pursues object of affection using a passive approach; impresses by knowing the right thing to do or say to make someone feel better, sharing psychic insights, and displaying creative talents; dancing, playing music, discussing dreams/innermost feelings, and generally pleasing the other person is foreplay; initiates pleasant vibes, which lead to transcendental, out-of-body-experiences sex."

And omg, when I read the Mars in Pisces from https://www.goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-pisces.html, I completely understand everything now. I can relate to every single word from start to end. I thought I was just individually crazy, now I know why.

"Mars in Taurus: slowly pursues the object of affection using a persistent approach; acts like the typical strong, silent type; talks about his goals/plans or shows off his nice possessions when he's attracted to someone, and may even present his credit report as proof of his financial stability and ability while asking for a date or during a marriage proposal (yes, I'm exaggerating here); gives massages, long embraces, and slow kisses as foreplay; initiates steady, lasts-all-night sex."

This one describes him too. And yes, he did all of the above. I thought it was his Leo.

Thank you Inana04,
Yes, I do not think I can do it any other way. It kind of goes against my principles, even if I am hurt in the process or in the end. Then at least I would not have regrets, afterall I did my best being me. I will stay with him and be me. I do not know why, but I am utterly faithful in relationships to the point of silly.

Even in my four past relationships, I have this illusion that the love is always there never lost and even when I see them cheat with my own eyes over and over again, I only leave when they tell me to and then I get very sad that I have to leave.

I always had this philosophy that, love has its ups and downs. A new love always seems more attractive because a new love is always at the up point, but new love soon turns to old love, and then another new love seems more attractive, it can go on and on, but we choose to know for real if we want a happy ever after or a once upon a time.



Thank you Gandalf,
Haha...I look forward to the punch but not the divorce 🙂 right now, I can't even bring myself to slap him when he is terribly late. The anger disappears completely the moment I see him smile as he meets me.
I am just happy that I finally get to see him (after waiting hrs) or goes to his workplace next day and find that he is good and well (if he forgot our date yesterday).

His maturity was obviously what attracted me to him in the first place. And his driven personality is what makes him so so so hot to me. That is why I never tire of looking at him work, he is hottest there, and of course in the bedroom 🙂

Thank you ellessque,
Bored, maybe not because I treasure stability and security in relationships. In all my previous relationships, the longer I stay with them, the more I fall in love. They complete me.

Aloof, most likely.
Because once I am sure that we are stable, I am more assured to give more to other important aspects of my life like my work, my voluntary work at the senior centre orphanage and animal centre, managing my dance crew, keeping my family in check.
Nights and weekends are reserved for him. I would do anything to be with him though, accompanying him do his work is a romantic date, accompanying him in his car to fill up his petrol at the next town and back is a romantic date, dropping by his place to deliver a love letter after work makes my day.

Got this from Keen.com:-
"Venus/Moon in Cancer- This man seeks a woman who loves the home, who is nurturing and supportive. He seeks a woman who may have many of his mother's traits or could even be a mama's boy. He will have a close tie to his mother and expects you to have a close tie to yours. He may expect you to have a close tie to his mother too."

"Venus/Moon in Pisces- He if full of romance. He seeks a woman who is his soul mate and is very spiritual herself. He wants to feel a strong karmic connection to her. This man may have some codependency issues so be careful. He may attract a woman who is codependent on him or may have an addiction problem. He is artistic or may attract a woman who is artistic herself. This man is devoted may seek the love and affection of another if he feels neglected. Give him plenty of love and he will do the same for you too."

I do not have a close tie to my mom btw. My family says I am the mother and she is the daughter, it is a serious love/hate relationship.

He is a conquest, I agree. I do not like conquests. I get tired, insecure, and then I have this instinct that maybe he is afraid to tell me that he does not like me anymore and that I am tiring him. I am determined and do not give up easily because of inner hope, trust and faith. But I do have a dateline as to when he should respond.

Tell me more about the devastation in relation to his pisces moon and cancer venus, I would sincerely appreciate it.

On Lilith, I got this from Tribe.net:-
"Aries - Lilith in Aries is straight-forward about her sexuality and may use it to feel powerful. Applied in a negative manner, there may be temper tantrums or bratty behavior."

Thank you lal,
it is really nice to receive a post relating a cap woman/leo man experience.

This is my first time knowing a leo man, I am not sure if leo men are generally like this yet truly this man with me is an experience. 🙂

Thank you so much everyone.

I really really really apreciate all the efforts placed in reading my lengthy difficult-to-read question 🙂

And by reading the posts and my replies as well, I have come to realize that he really is a star in my heart.
No sun, moon, venus, mars, lilith can change that.
At least right now, and possibly for a certain time.
Possibly a long time...

🙂
Love always, mini.

I agree 88NPisces. I have messed with a Leo, I always kept myself up..not only for him, but as a Cappi that is how I am. He always complimented me how nice my smile is and how I dress. I was simple with my hair, but he complimented me..and I did the same to him, and we communicated about anything, gave advise, but he would come to me to tell me his dreaming plans... I loved him so deeply.

So Msbetteryet how did it end up with the Leo? They are quite captivating souls aren't they? I am currently friends with one that I am attracted to but I have a hard time understanding him. He lives about 45 minutes away and always makes excuses why he hasn't come to take me out or see me. Like its thaaat faaar. I finally gave up on him & decided he wasn't for me, deleted numbers and washed my hands, and what do you know? He's on to me hotter than a hot potato! But he won't set up a date! Says he's spontaneous and doesn't like to plan for stuff. He calls me just when he thinks he's getting ready to lose me again and finds his way back. I really do believe Leo men will say anything to save their arses lol! My ex was also a Leo/Virgo cuspian and this was his butter. He's so sexy I really do want to jump his bones but he doesn't know that & I don't know if I will ever simply settle for just this. One thing I have come to notice about this guy, too much attention: you lose him! Too much texting/calling: you lose him! Too much persuing him: you will definitely lose him & even anger him! Fall ALL the way back & he will respond better that way! I will sometimes drop random cute texts & those he loves! But he definitely likes his space & won't go usually more that a week without contacting me. I have no real expectations anymore though, because as a Sag/Cappi cusper I feel like I need and crave attention and someone who puts me on a pedestal & this isn't him. Or maybe he's not ready or I'm just not the girl. Either way we're friends and who knows in the future what may happen, but these guys definitely like the chase & I'm kinda like that too. If my guy comes on too strong or too eager, I lose interest as I know I've got him 😉

So Gandalf, do you guys really just idle your engines until your ready for the "responsibility"? What if an amazing woman comes along, but you're "not ready"? Do you just let her pass you by? My Leo for some reason seems to think I will wait forever either that or he doesn't really care if I move on although he's super possesive & jealous telling me I belong to him even though we've never more than just kissed lol!

Saggicappigal. Iloved my Leo, so much it became vulnerable to let go of him. We never did nothing together, and I always wondered why. I put all my heart and affection,honesty, faith and trust in him that he was going to be the man that was going to be for me, because we were two of a kind. And, I found a snake! I never dated or messed with a Leo, he was so guilty to me, to where he couldn't look me eye to eye, just until 2/24/2013..he texted me telling me " I am a real chic " and "he don't deserve me". I am so hurt right now, my heart sad..and I just pray for healing. So, please do not go to for, as a Capp..we hard please do not, I mean do not let your guards down.

Gandolf: Is there a difference in a Leo man, because..as Capps, we prefer committment, for the sake of safety. I must of ended up with a immature leo that couldn't handle a good woman, such as myself. That is why he told me he don't deserve me. He don't call me nor text.

I remember running into a Leo at my aunts house. He had kids with a Cap and said they ended because he just couldnt lie to her anymore. He said she could smell a lie from a mile away and I guess he just got tired of doing it.

My leo cousin makes me scratch the males off my list. Being around certain signs up close is enough for me to say "never" to that sign.

Gandolf: Me and my Leo did really well together, he just made a decision that he wanted..I feel, but it just felt like a bomb dropped on my heart. Do leos care if they hurt a woman or not, and does age really matter..32...Would that be considered a immature age and still looking to play?

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I remember running into a Leo at my aunts house. He had kids with a Cap and said they ended because he just couldnt lie to her anymore. He said she could smell a lie from a mile away and I guess he just got tired of doing it.

My leo cousin makes me scratch the males off my list. Being around certain signs up close is enough for me to say "never" to that sign.

you judge a whole sign because of one guy? Though i do agree with you that this is not the best match up in any sense but still astrology is not that damn serious that you should develop prejudice and stuff.

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Not one but two. My mothers old Leo boss was the most charismatic, charming sociopath ill probably ever come across in this lifetime. I can be cool with a Leo male, Im just not open for a relationship with one. Just like Im never open to anything EVER with a Libra, soon to be scorpio and taurus, virgo, sagittarius. Its basically in that order too, so its not just Leos. They are just number one on the "No" list.

Actually gandalf I think cap women and leo men work too. Im personally not open to dating one lol, but ive noticed myself that cap/leo seem to be more successful then not. Of course we have the 1st Lady and the President who are this pair. They both seem happy too.

I personally think of the fire signs Id be more compatible with aries, but cap women seem to have success with both from what i read around.

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You are right Inana04. cap women i think would do better with aries in general and i can only imagine how powerful a combination would be in a union of two cardinals. I have heard some crazy love stories of cap women about those "wild" aries men. I noticed aries men make cap women do crazy things and feel crazy lust/passion. It's kinda cute lol.

Yeah for my personality type I think I need another Cardinal. Im a fan of compatible signs in relationships, but Im also a fan of cardinal+cardinal, fixed+fixed, mutable+mutable. It seems like a similar wavelength the signs are usually on.

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You are right Inana04. cap women i think would do better with aries in general and i can only imagine how powerful a combination would be in a union of two cardinals. I have heard some crazy love stories of cap women about those "wild" aries men. I noticed aries men make cap women do crazy things and feel crazy lust/passion. It's kinda cute lol.

There is NO WAY I could get along in a relationship with an Aries. ALL of the ones I know (and there are many) are way too bossy and hot-headed for me. The first time they embarrass me in public with thier little outbursts of anger, well, I'd be hitting the door. Then, talk about the battle of the wills! Both signs want to be right and want things done their way only. I've lived with two - my dad and my son. Not an easy co-existence.

I love Aries, don't get me wrong. They are fun, adventurous, charming, and generous, but I can't imagine ever being in a relationship with one.

Gandalf:I don't like hurting anyone and most leos I know don't intend to hurt people in any way. Even bad leos usually feel guilty about hurting someone unless they are the type who were always arrogant.

I was told that from another Leo that he doesn't like hurting anyone. He is being cold hearted with me, I have tried to apologize with him, and it seems as though he doesn't want to communicate with me. He has withdrawn since Saturday. He told me he don't deserve me, and that I was a real woman, so overreacted to it, so I sent him a message over the weekend telling him about hisself, then I told him he don't deserve me and I will find someone who will..I was done! But, now I shouldn't have said that to him, and I normally don't say that to him ever, but I did it out of anger, of what he did to me. I feel weak, and I know I am not weak, but I allow my emotions to interact with him for those 1.5 to 2 years and really love, so I assume I lost him for good, not along his friendship..

Gadalf: Your right..I feel we would make it together,and maybe that is what I was seeing. And he said I would be his soulmate. We got along well..So yes I do agree with that ^5. I don't think you crazy, it is hard work to understand the trait of a Leo.

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Posted by Msbetteryet
Gandolf: Is there a difference in a Leo man, because..as Capps, we prefer committment, for the sake of safety. I must of ended up with a immature leo that couldn't handle a good woman, such as myself. That is why he told me he don't deserve me. He don't call me nor text.

well leos in general take a bit longer to come around for relationships because we love fun and romance. I think air and fire in general take a bit longer but it all depends on the leo in question and his chart.

you say caps love comittment but there are cao women with aqua venus or sag placements who may hate comittment. Like i said you can't make such claims and people are different.

There are leo men who maybe more stable than a cap. Leos with virgo planets will make a cap look irresponsible etc.

It's all in the indvidual charts.

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yeah as i was looking up earlier today, Leo Obama and Michelle Obama Capricorn. And many many more out there. Aspects, definitely. Especially Leo men with earth in them (Obama has some virgo)

To all the Cap women on here: pull up your cojones & stop letting these men get the best of you! This is getting you nowhere! If you want these men to respond to you then make yourself ALLURING to them! Be less available, have fun with your girlfriends, simply FORGET about him (or pretend to) and you'll see how he'll come back around! And when he does make it tantalizing! A lil give n take! Don't just lay yourself on a silver platter for him & he hasn't done anything to deserve that! C'mon ladies you're giving the rest of us strong cappies a bad image lol! I say that with all my love of course! But I myself had to dig my heels & snap out of it with this Leo guy I was becoming infatuated with. It can work but you have to pull your A-game on these fellas! Get some friction going on in the atmosphere & go out with some other fella! You never know you might like him better than the Leo! At the least it will create an aura where you have options and others wanting you. Don't forget you belong to YOURSELF first! Love yourself & don't compromise your standards and that will come across to these men! Don't become a wimp & fold too early for we aren't known for being that! Where is that tough YET SEXY Cap that he was first attracted to? Bring HER back out! 😉

Saggicappi: You are so right girl! I am snapping out of that really quick, let this fella get the best of me. I don't want to give the Cappi's a bad name, really don't cause I was born one, and I know my ambition. I have been myself lately,and it is all about me! I am now ACTING LIKE A LADY & THINKING LIKE A MAN!! I don't know what happened to me, and u know what don't want to look back. Yes, he has been back already, he miss this...I mean this..lmao! But, anyway, life moves on and we as Caps don't need no man to guide us, we can guide them. We are just like them leaders with alot of ambition! Saggi, I know girl, just slap me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know you can do it Msbetteryet! Lol, I don't know what it is about these Leos but mine had me going stir crazy, I was texting him impulsively saying the oddest things and second guessing myself (which I never do!) And he even said something similar: that I was a great girl who deserved a good man & he's a bit too "unchained" for me were his words! So guess what? I am PROVING to him not by words but by actions that YES I deserve better and had to recently change my number to uphold this because they just won't leave you alone!! That's how you know they think we're something special lol. I agree they have some kind of magnetism that draws you near but you really gotta snap out of it with these guys if he's not showing you what you deserve. On the other hand, if he's mature, Cap women & Leo men make an unbeatable pair! I know two couples who are this & their love is strong & everlasting! He's committed to the household & she has his back whenever he needs her! Kudos lady you'll be fine 😉

Saggi: What is eating me up so much, because I had his back to the T. And, he chose his baby mama over me..if anything I compromised to him, sorry I put my life on hold to do things for him, and when I got done, I had no strength,once it became over. So, now he don't text nor call..and have no heart for what he done to me. But, I am good now..I just never been through such ungrateful friendship/relationship with no man. I don't call nor text him, but you think he will come back..that is nerve..like nothing ever happened.

I'm back out Saggi..lol Its just so hard to swallow! How can god create such creatures to be that way. lol

I married one (a leo too) that used me up, but I don't know the answer to your question

Worse than bad, lol! But there were substance abuse issues in the equation, and that variable makes for a negative outcome regardless of signs. But I will pay some life long consequences for it. The only think different, is I think NO other sign could have made me lose ALL self-preservation instinct like a leo. That dazzling sunlight blind this scorp. Plus he had a scorp moon, and he could appeal to my dark side too. It was a hedonistic trainwreck. I would have followed him into hell... and I did. I got burned big time