Mind Game (Page 3)

gemgem~
I think your cappy needs reasurance that ur brother is NOT an obsticle. Why should he be? The big thing would be for ur cappy and ur bro to talk about dating you. Or even easier... talk to your brother. Tell him that ur interested in ur cappy and that he should let the cap know its ok. Ultimitly, it will be all up to how ur cappy feals about the situation. Only he can change. It's nothing you can do... sounds like public affection is going to be a problim with this cappy hehe

aaawwww...pda! that's always a problem with these cappies. I'm so glad that you answered oaf. So how do I lighten it up? I know that he's had a lot of outside issues going on that I can't control, but how do I make it better? Let me know...you're helping my situation. He is extremely turned on by me and I don't know if it's because I have a cancer rising and he has a scorpio rising, but it's working...I think. 🙂

GreeneyedGem, & Gemgem
The dates with the cancer are powerful and his feelings are so deep he takes my breath away, I can't get over it I even said no the first time he asked me out because I thought he wasn't my type at all, but we connect so well he is a real man, cancers men must fall quick he's almost in love. He said I have his head spinning lol well I am a pisces no wonder I keep him guessing. I'm a little freaked out by how much he wants to be with me I wonder if I should be seeing other people too, but I know that would turn the cancer guy away he wouldn't like it at all. It's hard do I risk losing a great man or do I just keep seeing only him and see what happens? I hate this It's hard for me I just ended the 10 year relationship with the abusive Virgo now I already have someone who wants a commitment. I'm lost I need to run to lala land for awhile and find myself and make a choice. 🙂 I hope I make the right one 😄 what do all think—

Greeneyedgemini,
Hate to say or admit you're probably right, I have this great guy who wants me what do I want to do push him aside to see what else is out there, maybe i can find another Cappy to drive me nuts! I know It would crush this wonderful cancer man,,,,maybe it's the 7 years difference he has on me, maybe i see him as too old for me but I don't want to let him go either. The chase and the hold all mixed in I want him but I don't total confusion. He keeps telling me he hopes I don't break his heart ahhhhhhh I might I have no idea what will happen I could walk into a room and see my soulmate or maybe I'll look at him and see that he is the one. I should have refused all dates and stayed away from men for awhile, yeah right who can do that when there r so many beautiful men out there LOL. I'll keep u posted and stay away from that stray dog he belongs in the pound, and you need to just keep on walking you need to hang that poster on his door or car. That would ROCK!! It is really funny
Later on, Waterbaby

Waterbaby...just let him know that you care for him, but that he needs to take things very slowly and if he can't handle that then you two won't work. Cancers have a tendency to rush into things emotionally. It sounds like if he left though you could be distraught. So just be careful with your words. 🙂

gemgem~ if its working then just go with the flow. Thats prolly what the cappie is thinking.
about how u can lighten up... i dunno... thats compleatly imposible to say hehe like i said it's all about the cappie... if i was interested in you as much as you say ur cappie is, i would probably take things further knowing that u had the same attraction to me =)

greeneyedgemini~ this was that brian guy who slept with his room mate right? id say forget him... forget that he's a cappie... he actually doesnt sound like a good guy... i hope you havent had luck like the before with other men... his attitude has nothing to do with his zodiac on this topic... BUT... i dunnnnno... callin him won't hurt but what are u gonna get out of it? another dissapointment? and yes you are definitly right! i know especially as a cappie that we go for what we cannot have... hehe like the situation im im with the taurus girl i know... im such a crazy fool...

Thanks oaf...yeah it's just flowing right now, but he's still a scaredy cat. He's not a phone person at all. He'd rather talk face to face...so I've noticed that people only call him. He never calls anyone. It's hilarious.

Hey by the way oaf...would you say when you like someone do you show through your actions or words. I mean...he does the littlest and most endearing things just by using his eyes sometimes and says the most romantic things to me when we're alone. What am I to think of those little things?

AM ~ your cappy sounds just as sweet. I just wish mine was not living with my brother, but I don't know...AAAAAAAAAAAH. I'm getting that crazy analyzing thing again.

gemgem~ I do care for him and he's more than wonderful...I miss him when I don't see him so I have decided to just see how it goes with the cancer and just be happy. No more dealing with Shane (the cappy). I'll keep u posted on what goes on. I hope you all are making the right choices too I know we all learn from out mistakes I just need a few lessons then I get it. later, Waterbaby

Good girl waterbaby...just flow with it and let him know your limits. Cancer's aren't aware of how much they step into your personal bubble. 🙂

I know that I've trained myself a lot in that sense because I have cancer rising and cancer moon. I'm completely emotional, but lately I've balanced it. They get attached very easy...those cancers, but they are soooo loving.

Atlantic Myst ~
I was born in calgary on January 12, 1985 at 15:12(3:12pm)

The communication i have with the tuarus girl is amazing! We DO talk on the phone all the time and it stays interesting. When we talk, i feel like i wouldnt want to be anywhere else. I love her strength of caracter. She seems like she's unstopable and i think thats hot.
Her deep brown eyes. Her flirty gestures. An amazing body which is made just for her. She's a sugar coated devil.
The vibes i feel are the ones of love. like when you are petting your kitten. that little joy in your heart towards life.
we keep on having amazing nights together and with others. there's just no action and i know she said she doesnt want a relationship, but like, it seems we have a strong one, just no sex. we're just like super friends heheh
i know these types of relationships are no no's when your trying to have a committed parter. but it just feels so right. im kinda in the same situation with your cappys.
i sometimes just want to say "f**k it" but theres those memories which keep me there as a friend to her. having a crush on your friend sucks...

gemgem~
i and (i bet) other cappys do use words and eye contact when they are pasionate. There's something about the little things. And those perfect moments. I look out for those moments especially. They can make the night amazing.

well girls I have not had any contact with the Cappy it's for the best I guess he just isn't able to stop the games. But now I told you about the cancer guy he's great a little pushy at times but seems to really want to be in my life. My bestfriend who is born the same day as me has been seeing this Cappy for a month well he kept calling her wanting her to come over and saying he missed her, then 2 days ago they meet for dinner and he says this is going to fast I don't want to commit to anyone and we need to slow down. The funny thing is he's the one calling all of time, talking about kids, and marriage then says what he did to her....Cappy male= mind games I told her to stay away from him she didn't believe me at first now she does. I know it's hard to walk away from a hot 34 year old Doctor with an indoor pool but if he's into mind games and you have no idea where the relationship will ever go is it worth it?? Nope not for me it wouldn't be.

just full of mind games!
i beg to differ. hehe