My Cap ex reached out to be through mutual friends, But I am going to wait it out...

Ok, we had a nasty drama about 5 months back involving a mutual friend who backstabbed me to create a bad impression in front of my ex, and she fell for it. So I decided to move on with my life, and so did she.

Fast forward 5 months...

Now she's asked a mutual friend to help her get in touch with me, but No way - enough drama for me! However, I still have some soft spot for her, so I decided to just give a courtesy call (and nothing more) on her birthday early next year... just for old times sake and nothing else.

As a Cap, How do you think she will react? Is it alright if I do that?

Hers - Sun: Cap / Moon: Leo / Rising Pisces

Mine - Sun: Tau / Moon: Leo / Rising Aqua

Where did love go, when all is said and done!

Cap women, where ya all?

"This is a courtesy call for old times sake and nothing else" - Is this what you intend to say to her if she initiates talking about anything beyond you wishing her a happy birthday?

Posted by Goatlady2018

"This is a courtesy call for old times sake and nothing else" - Is this what you intend to say to her if she initiates talking about anything beyond you wishing her a happy birthday?

It would of course be very lame to tell that out openly. But I just wanted to let her know things are alright between us and we can move on in life peacefully... like a full stop. Not sure if you are able to relate....

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

I don’t get the point of the call unless you want to be back in contact with her.

It's more like making peace with the past

Posted by c0mrade

Posted by Goatlady2018

"This is a courtesy call for old times sake and nothing else" - Is this what you intend to say to her if she initiates talking about anything beyond you wishing her a happy birthday?

It would of course be very lame to tell that out openly. But I just wanted to let her know things are alright between us and we can move on in life peacefully... like a full stop. Not sure if you are able to relate....

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"But I just wanted to let her know things are alright between us and we can move on in life peacefully"

I think the wording you used here is great and might be worth saying if the conversation feels awkward or she seems confused. I definitely relate to wanting peace for both parties moving forward.

I thin it's sweet and will be appreciated.

I like knowing that all is well.

Posted by Goatlady2018

Posted by c0mrade

Posted by Goatlady2018

"This is a courtesy call for old times sake and nothing else" - Is this what you intend to say to her if she initiates talking about anything beyond you wishing her a happy birthday?

It would of course be very lame to tell that out openly. But I just wanted to let her know things are alright between us and we can move on in life peacefully... like a full stop. Not sure if you are able to relate....

"But I just wanted to let her know things are alright between us and we can move on in life peacefully"

I think the wording you used here is great and might be worth saying if the conversation feels awkward or she seems confused. I definitely relate to wanting peace for both parties moving forward.

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Thank you... it won't be awkard for sure, we have known each other for almost 5 years, so I know her in and out...

Posted by stillstillwater

I thin it's sweet and will be appreciated.

I like knowing that all is well.

I hope so, cuz she is quick to anger and has a bad temper... don't want my peacemaking call to end up as another drama.