my weird cappy

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sagishere
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i met a really nice guy on the NOT dating website.he is cap sun,cap venus,aqua moon,libra mars. i am sag sun,cap venus scorpio moon,libra mars

we quickly found out that we turned out to be soulmates.we talked 24/7 for 2 weeks.once he said"i talk only to you and my gf.who are the same person!"he asked me alot about my views on marriage,family,kids..

i was nice to him.paid compliments back,showed that i am interested in him as a bf too..it seemed like we already were in the relationship(but we never met yet).and YET i seemed kinda independent and busy(i know cappies like such girls lol),i showed that I am affectionate but still independent..so I think I was not needy.

of course he did his famous disappearing acts for 2-5 days.i was patient and never bomrbarded him with messages.he always explained MIA by family/school problems

BUT once I asked him if he knows any more websites like that one(NOT dating,but this website is about our common hobby,where people can find friends).and he said that I should stop wasting my time on such stupid websites(hm.. he was online there too),they are full of retards and idiots, I should go read a book or workout instead of talking to idiots.I said "you spend your free time there too,i like this website because I met so many friends there and thanks for reminding, I will workout tonight"and then i added as a joke "or maybe you are just jealous hahahah"then he said"pls don`t get offended,it was a joke"i said that i don`t and sent some cool stuff to him(articles,pictures)like nothing happened.but it is been 11 days since he ignores me.he is not online on that website,does not accounts on facebook etc..and randomly appears on whatsapp(for a few minutes a day)

what happened?did i hurt him?was it jealosy?my last message to him was 10 day ago where I asked him if anything bad happened to him...
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i met a really nice guy on the NOT dating website.he is cap sun,cap venus,aqua moon,libra mars. i am sag sun,cap venus scorpio moon,libra mars

we quickly found out that we turned out to be soulmates.we talked 24/7 for 2 weeks.once he said"i talk only to you and my gf.who are the same person!"he asked me alot about my views on marriage,family,kids..

i was nice to him.paid compliments back,showed that i am interested in him as a bf too..it seemed like we already were in the relationship(but we never met yet).and YET i seemed kinda independent and busy(i know cappies like such girls lol),i showed that I am affectionate but still independent..so I think I was not needy.

of course he did his famous disappearing acts for 2-5 days.i was patient and never bomrbarded him with messages.he always explained MIA by family/school problems

BUT once I asked him if he knows any more websites like that one(NOT dating,but this website is about our common hobby,where people can find friends).and he said that I should stop wasting my time on such stupid websites(hm.. he was online there too),they are full of retards and idiots, I should go read a book or workout instead of talking to idiots.I said "you spend your free time there too,i like this website because I met so many friends there and thanks for reminding, I will workout tonight"and then i added as a joke "or maybe you are just jealous hahahah"then he said"pls don`t get offended,it was a joke"i said that i don`t and sent some cool stuff to him(articles,pictures)like nothing happened.but it is been 11 days since he ignores me.he is not online on that website,does not accounts on facebook etc..and randomly appears on whatsapp(for a few minutes a day)

what happened?did i hurt him?was it jealosy?my last message to him was 10 day ago where I asked him if anything bad happened to him...
I'm going through something similar with a cap man. Question for you..when he disappears for 2-5 days does he make any contact at all? Or total silence?

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And in regards to your post it sounds like he was jealous. The cap guy I was seeing would say weird things like that all the time. Like he asks me if anyone hit on me today etc like why does that matter? Lol sounds like jealousy about your cap guy too. Has he replied back to you yet? At all?
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sagishere
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cappygirl101

when he disappears for 2-5 days he does not contact me AT ALL.Though when he comes back he always apologizes and says he misses me.

actually I noticed a lot of similar comments from him before.But I honestly hought he was joking.Like it was very light jealousy

no he did not reply yet.I hope he has some troubles because he is almost offline everywhere..

good luck to you with your cappy!!
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cappygirl101
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Posted by sagishere
cappygirl101

when he disappears for 2-5 days he does not contact me AT ALL.Though when he comes back he always apologizes and says he misses me.

actually I noticed a lot of similar comments from him before.But I honestly hought he was joking.Like it was very light jealousy

no he did not reply yet.I hope he has some troubles because he is almost offline everywhere..

good luck to you with your cappy!!


Hmm..interesting...haha ok thank you...yea I'm going on i think today would be the full 5th day since I've heard from him. Are you going to contact your cap? or just wait it out?
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sagishere
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cappygirl101

well I have read TONS of forums about cap guys and I guess the best strategy is to wait them out.Or..just to move on.I am a proud independent Saggy after all! Though..he completely occupied my mind

What will you do with yours?

and I believe yours will come back soon,believe me 5 days is like a second for them lol

just be active on social media and show that you live your own independent life with lots of cool events!
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Posted by sagishere
cappygirl101

well I have read TONS of forums about cap guys and I guess the best strategy is to wait them out.Or..just to move on.I am a proud independent Saggy after all! Though..he completely occupied my mind

What will you do with yours?

and I believe yours will come back soon,believe me 5 days is like a second for them lol

just be active on social media and show that you live your own independent life with lots of cool events!
Hmm yes I am the same way I have read many forums about capricorn guys too trying to figure out what i should do. On one hand i feel like i spent enough time with him for him to know me and my personality and if I'm not worth it to him than he won't contact me. And i'll have to accept that even though i really liked him.

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On the other hand I have kind of always been the one to reach out and i think his ego is too big to be the chaser now and he's playing games wanting me to initiate contact again.

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I honestly don't feel like he will until he comes into town which isn't for another week, so that would have been 2 weeks no contact which is strange to me and very very weird I've never experienced this with any other guy..thats IF he even contacts me. I'm not sure if he will. Ok yes I've been doing that active on social media and stuff he doesn't follow me but maybe he looking at my page still?

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So are you going to wait on your cap?