Edmon Adoniz
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Question for You Love Capricorn Women....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Posted by Eddie_VanjoviInteresting....
I believe they express their love in different ways over time. What exactly is that way is different for each, I think.
Some would be very direct at first, while others won't and show it in other ways (sometimes in means of being very stern and bitter towards you). If they're not in your life or welcoming, then they obviously don't have feelings for you.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Posted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........click to expand
Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Personally, I think your Libra moon exacerbates these situations...
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Damn my Libra moon.
Posted by Gob_ShiteMy moon is a bitch , it really doesn't know when to leave well enough alone.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Personally, I think your Libra moon exacerbates these situations...
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Posted by Gob_ShiteIt's a real headache you have no idea. All the time I'm like why am I doing this. I know it's making it worse and the more I try to fix it once I've realized what I've done the worse it gets. All the while the whole time I cared a lot about them. I don't entertain people I don't see something with. Luckily you have that Pisces. I wish I had some kind of water placement to ground me and even me out.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by Gob_ShitePosted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Personally, I think your Libra moon exacerbates these situations...
Damn my Libra moon.
I'm a Cap with an Aqua Venus too and, unless I'm not really feeling it, I'm not one to act that way with someone I care about. I truly believe that my Pisces moon brings some much needed balance, in order not to come across as that detached.
Personally, I think any Cap with an Aqua Venus and an air moon is going to have such issues.
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Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by Gob_ShiteMy moon is a bitch , it really doesn't know when to leave well enough alone.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Personally, I think your Libra moon exacerbates these situations...
Maybe you need to find someone with an Aqua moon...
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I was just dating someone with an aqua moon but she was also a sun Scorpio. Yeah that did not go well.
Posted by Gob_ShiteIt does not. I do have a weird Neptune, Uranus, Saturn, sun conjunction though. All in capricorn(of course)Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by Gob_ShiteIt's a real headache you have no idea. All the time I'm like why am I doing this. I know it's making it worse and the more I try to fix it once I've realized what I've done the worse it gets. All the while the whole time I cared a lot about them. I don't entertain people I don't see something with. Luckily you have that Pisces. I wish I had some kind of water placement to ground me and even me out.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by Gob_ShitePosted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Personally, I think your Libra moon exacerbates these situations...
Damn my Libra moon.
I'm a Cap with an Aqua Venus too and, unless I'm not really feeling it, I'm not one to act that way with someone I care about. I truly believe that my Pisces moon brings some much needed balance, in order not to come across as that detached.
Personally, I think any Cap with an Aqua Venus and an air moon is going to have such issues.
Out of curiosity, do you have a Venus-Uranus aspect in your natal chart?
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Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by Gob_ShitePosted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by Gob_ShiteMy moon is a bitch , it really doesn't know when to leave well enough alone.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Personally, I think your Libra moon exacerbates these situations...
Maybe you need to find someone with an Aqua moon...
I was just dating someone with an aqua moon but she was also a sun Scorpio. Yeah that did not go well.
LOL! Well, sometimes, you've got to just keep trying... 🙂
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True maybe another aqua moon with a different sun.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenFor some people, this sort of behavior stems from the subconscious....Posted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........click to expand
Posted by ewashington7000Posted by MissLadyIceQueenFor some people, this sort of behavior stems from the subconscious....Posted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
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Yeah like I said it comes from some kind of insecurity that I've had about the relationship.
I do not hide my feelings or emotions but I cant express them verbally....have to write it down.
But I do have the mask on a lot so as not to appear vulnerable in some situations, not love ones though.
But I do have the mask on a lot so as not to appear vulnerable in some situations, not love ones though.
Posted by CapladylikeYou seem to be an exception to a general rule of thumb [to many people] regarding not hiding your feelings and being a Capricorn.
I do not hide my feelings or emotions but I cant express them verbally....have to write it down.
But I do have the mask on a lot so as not to appear vulnerable in some situations, not love ones though.
Does that which you refer to as your inability to 'express your feelings' stem from you 'having a mask on' as to not appear vulnerable in some situations?
How is masking not hiding [within any situation lwhatsoever]?
I'm highly curious about those Lovely Capricorrn Women that do hide [or try to hide] their emotions.
Every emotion is accompanied by an unique behavior [body language].
This, there is no hiding feelings/emotions....
Our Bodies are literally Energy Containers/Vehicle@ that give off their own unique Space-Time Energy Location every moment we Live...
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........click to expand
The way you described it; it sounds like you're talking about me. It's crazy. Hahaha you're not alone.
Posted by ewashington7000No, im very shy when it comes to expressing love feelings and kind of awkward LOL It comes out weird.Posted by CapladylikeYou seem to be an exception to a general rule of thumb [to many people] regarding not hiding your feelings and being a Capricorn.
I do not hide my feelings or emotions but I cant express them verbally....have to write it down.
But I do have the mask on a lot so as not to appear vulnerable in some situations, not love ones though.
Does that which you refer to as your inability to 'express your feelings' stem from you 'having a mask on' as to not appear vulnerable in some situations?
How is masking not hiding [within any situation lwhatsoever]?
I'm highly curious about those Lovely Capricorrn Women that do hide [or try to hide] their emotions.
Every emotion is accompanied by an unique behavior [body language].
This, there is no hiding feelings/emotions....
Our Bodies are literally Energy Containers/Vehicle@ that give off their own unique Space-Time Energy Location every moment we Live...click to expand
Other situations I try to keep a detached demeanor out of necessity(I work in law enforcement)
Sometimes I dont want people to know theyve gotten a rise out of me in some type of way so I fake it til I make it type scenerio.
Posted by CapladylikePosted by ewashington7000007Posted by CapladylikeYou seem to be an exception to a general rule of thumb [to many people] regarding not hiding your feelings and being a Capricorn.
I do not hide my feelings or emotions but I cant express them verbally....have to write it down.
But I do have the mask on a lot so as not to appear vulnerable in some situations, not love ones though.
Does that which you refer to as your inability to 'express your feelings' stem from you 'having a mask on' as to not appear vulnerable in some situations?
How is masking not hiding [within any situation lwhatsoever]?
I'm highly curious about those Lovely Capricorrn Women that do hide [or try to hide] their emotions.
Every emotion is accompanied by an unique behavior [body language].
This, there is no hiding feelings/emotions....
Our Bodies are literally Energy Containers/Vehicle@ that give off their own unique Space-Time Energy Location every moment we Live...click to expand
The Capricorn seems to be favorable/amenable to being gently coached out of coyness then.
My Sun and Moon are in Venus, even as a Libra. I seem to be super senstive to detecing imbalance [fear, coyness etc.]
My Sun and Moon are in Venus, even as a Libra. I seem to be super senstive to detecing imbalance [fear, coyness etc.]
Posted by caplady28Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
The way you described it; it sounds like you're talking about me. It's crazy. Hahaha you're not alone.
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I know it sounds childish but if you really care about someone you got to fight for them. Because when I'm acting like that I want you to fight for me . Because I'll fight for you too.
Posted by RindarooBeing a Capricorn 101: forever getting in the way of your own relationship.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenI get you! I do the same thing. I'm Sag sun/aqua moon lol. Also my Cap Venus doesn't help. Idk I guess I understand when my bf does this, but I do it too so it can be a problem. It did raise its nasty head & we did get over the obstacle because then we both had to communicate & stop withdrawing. But give each other space to be freaked out & still be there. Guess thing is you both have to be really wanting it to work with all that withdrawing instead of being butt hurt.Posted by ewashington7000Posted by MissLadyIceQueenFor some people, this sort of behavior stems from the subconscious....Posted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Yeah like I said it comes from some kind of insecurity that I've had about the relationship.
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As a Cap female, I am completely open to those I trust. They get the best of me and bring out the best in me...and I do the same for them.
You have to be on my level to get to know me tho. I don't waste much time dealing with shallow-minded people.
Another poster said it best, if you'll fight for me; I'll fight for you. If you will, then I'll keep in my life forever.
...and I must admit that it's hard to get in, you most definitely have to come correct and stay real if you want to know me. And there is nothing I won't do for the people I truly respect and care for.
You have to be on my level to get to know me tho. I don't waste much time dealing with shallow-minded people.
Another poster said it best, if you'll fight for me; I'll fight for you. If you will, then I'll keep in my life forever.
...and I must admit that it's hard to get in, you most definitely have to come correct and stay real if you want to know me. And there is nothing I won't do for the people I truly respect and care for.
Posted by rochelleaThat's what us Honorable Infantrymen call Honor.
As a Cap female, I am completely open to those I trust. They get the best of me and bring out the best in me...and I do the same for them.
You have to be on my level to get to know me tho. I don't waste much time dealing with shallow-minded people.
Another poster said it best, if you'll fight for me; I'll fight for you. If you will, then I'll keep in my life forever.
...and I must admit that it's hard to get in, you most definitely have to come correct and stay real if you want to know me. And there is nothing I won't do for the people I truly respect and care for.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenI observe how this can be self-frustating: it's because it is self-refuting.Posted by RindarooBeing a Capricorn 101: forever getting in the way of your own relationship.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenI get you! I do the same thing. I'm Sag sun/aqua moon lol. Also my Cap Venus doesn't help. Idk I guess I understand when my bf does this, but I do it too so it can be a problem. It did raise its nasty head & we did get over the obstacle because then we both had to communicate & stop withdrawing. But give each other space to be freaked out & still be there. Guess thing is you both have to be really wanting it to work with all that withdrawing instead of being butt hurt.Posted by ewashington7000Posted by MissLadyIceQueenFor some people, this sort of behavior stems from the subconscious....Posted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Yeah like I said it comes from some kind of insecurity that I've had about the relationship.
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Perhaps this is why one ought not to take upon or identify with his/her own Body/Person/Energy-Vehicle.
It's inherently unstable yet Identity is Eternal Consistent [Stable].
It's inherently unstable yet Identity is Eternal Consistent [Stable].
Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
Posted by rochelleaCouldn't agree more with everything said, I'm exactly the same way..
As a Cap female, I am completely open to those I trust. They get the best of me and bring out the best in me...and I do the same for them.
You have to be on my level to get to know me tho. I don't waste much time dealing with shallow-minded people.
Another poster said it best, if you'll fight for me; I'll fight for you. If you will, then I'll keep in my life forever.
...and I must admit that it's hard to get in, you most definitely have to come correct and stay real if you want to know me. And there is nothing I won't do for the people I truly respect and care for.
Posted by ewashington7000The self hate runs so deep sometimes.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenI observe how this can be self-frustating: it's because it is self-refuting.Posted by RindarooBeing a Capricorn 101: forever getting in the way of your own relationship.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenI get you! I do the same thing. I'm Sag sun/aqua moon lol. Also my Cap Venus doesn't help. Idk I guess I understand when my bf does this, but I do it too so it can be a problem. It did raise its nasty head & we did get over the obstacle because then we both had to communicate & stop withdrawing. But give each other space to be freaked out & still be there. Guess thing is you both have to be really wanting it to work with all that withdrawing instead of being butt hurt.Posted by ewashington7000Posted by MissLadyIceQueenFor some people, this sort of behavior stems from the subconscious....Posted by ewashington7000Of course I'm aware of it. That's how I was able to explain it lol. In the moment I don't realize I'm exactly pushing them away though . It's like a reflex to gather myself so I can feel in control of myself "creating space".Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting....
I get very withdrawn when I realize I'm starting to fall in love with someone.. most people can't hang around during this time because I become so detached. I don't mean to, it just happens. I'll probably start an argument over something I've been feeling insecure about in the relationship to see how the other person reacts(usually this blows up in my face and we break up) it's like a test though to see if they have "staying power" they can "can make it over obstacle's with me". Most the time it's a no, even though when they bring this kind of stuff to my table I try to work it out, see how it can be fixed, what to do about it blah blah.
Are you aware of this behavior, even as you fall in love?
Because to The Observant, this behavior can seem quite noticeable....
But to those who don't see/understand.........
Lord have Mercy........
Yeah like I said it comes from some kind of insecurity that I've had about the relationship.
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Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂click to expand
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....
The self hate runs so deep sometimes.
Any Self-Hatred/Self-Odium must be Negated immediately....
It kills The Vitality of The Life Force [Ra, Kundalini, Qi] within Man/Woman...
Posted by ewashington7000Any Self-Hatred/Self-Odium must be Negated immediately....
The self hate runs so deep sometimes.
It kills The Vitality of The Life Force [Ra, Kundalini, Qi] within Man/Woman...
It's inconsistent. It comes and goes. It's only when I fuck up that I hate myself. A lot of people blame others, or this or that for their woes. I realize mine are my own doing. Therefore when I mess up , I get upset with myself about it. I either fix it or move on, then I'm good again.
Posted by ewashington7000It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....click to expand
1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.
None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.
Posted by RindarooObviously if it's 3 or 4 then just space. 2 would be just being there for me through this weird time, because I'm going to act weird. 1.fight for me. Anytime it's a dispute that involves the relationship fight. I recommend a little space initially so everyone has time to get their heads together. Fight for me though. especially if it's know you hurt their feelings. Fight. It's easy to tell because generally when people get their feelings hurt they cry, get angry, or get really quiet. If they are like I want to break up and they are super calm about it, then more than likely that's a wrap and can't no mountain move that mind. Generally with a capricorn female(at least myself) it takes a lot and I mean a lot before I get to the calm I'm done part. Zero emotion equals zero chance. Some clue on emotion =fix this shit.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenThis makes so much sense. I guess it's a test, but the confusing part for OP or anyone I suppose is when are you suppose to fight for you & when are you supposed to give space. It's like a tightrope at times.Posted by ewashington7000It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....
1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.
None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.click to expand
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenThanks for the advise.Posted by ewashington7000It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....
1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.
None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.click to expand
I just do what I have been doing: that is, keeping my Peace.
This is like learning a new Language [i.e., a new modality/expression of Woman Capricornian Energies].
I can feel her Internal Conflicts within her [Beautiful] Mind. They often manifest in her ['mysterious'] behaviors.
Me just want to Harmonize The Cacophony, introducing Hetep [Perfect Peace/Stability].
But Sea-Goat is Beautiful Sane Nutness.
So, I take notes and observe.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting...Posted by RindarooObviously if it's 3 or 4 then just space. 2 would be just being there for me through this weird time, because I'm going to act weird. 1.fight for me. Anytime it's a dispute that involves the relationship fight. I recommend a little space initially so everyone has time to get their heads together. Fight for me though. especially if it's know you hurt their feelings. Fight. It's easy to tell because generally when people get their feelings hurt they cry, get angry, or get really quiet. If they are like I want to break up and they are super calm about it, then more than likely that's a wrap and can't no mountain move that mind. Generally with a capricorn female(at least myself) it takes a lot and I mean a lot before I get to the calm I'm done part. Zero emotion equals zero chance. Some clue on emotion =fix this shit.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenThis makes so much sense. I guess it's a test, but the confusing part for OP or anyone I suppose is when are you suppose to fight for you & when are you supposed to give space. It's like a tightrope at times.Posted by ewashington7000It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....
1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.
None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.click to expand
All The Fights that we've had are very much Non-existent.
Her fights are within her own mind...
Me just project Rationality to help her, even to negate The Negative Self-Talk/Criticality within her being.
But I love how this experience expands my Awareness/Consciousness...
Posted by ewashington7000Posted by MissLadyIceQueenThanks for the advise.Posted by ewashington7000It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....
1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.
None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.click to expand
I just do what I have been doing: that is, keeping my Peace.
This is like learning a new Language [i.e., a new modality/expression of Woman Capricornian Energies].
I can feel her Internal Conflicts within her [Beautiful] Mind. They often manifest in her ['mysterious'] behaviors.
Me just want to Harmonize The Cacophony, introducing Hetep [Perfect Peace/Stability].
But Sea-Goat is Beautiful Sane Nutness.
So, I take notes and observe.
Yes just do that and try not to think to much into it.
Posted by ewashington7000Sounds like you're doing good then. When insecurities pop up just reassure her. We are very self critical and tough on ourselves" pressure makes diamonds" kind of things. We will wear ourselves out doing it though. It sounds like you're doing great.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting...Posted by RindarooObviously if it's 3 or 4 then just space. 2 would be just being there for me through this weird time, because I'm going to act weird. 1.fight for me. Anytime it's a dispute that involves the relationship fight. I recommend a little space initially so everyone has time to get their heads together. Fight for me though. especially if it's know you hurt their feelings. Fight. It's easy to tell because generally when people get their feelings hurt they cry, get angry, or get really quiet. If they are like I want to break up and they are super calm about it, then more than likely that's a wrap and can't no mountain move that mind. Generally with a capricorn female(at least myself) it takes a lot and I mean a lot before I get to the calm I'm done part. Zero emotion equals zero chance. Some clue on emotion =fix this shit.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenThis makes so much sense. I guess it's a test, but the confusing part for OP or anyone I suppose is when are you suppose to fight for you & when are you supposed to give space. It's like a tightrope at times.Posted by ewashington7000It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....
1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.
None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.
All The Fights that we've had are very much Non-existent.
Her fights are within her own mind...
Me just project Rationality to help her, even to negate The Negative Self-Talk/Criticality within her being.
But I love how this experience expands my Awareness/Consciousness...
click to expand
In my case, with my very limited experience...it wasn't me hiding my vulnerability, but moreso the uncertainty of exactly how I felt that made me stay mum on my feelings. I think, in general, some of us don't do well with feelings. We are not how water signs appear(knowing what they feel and why). My feelings run hot/cold...Im off/on, so before I open my mouth and express my love...I need to make sure its love 1st.
And in all honesty, I think even if I was sure about how I felt, I wouldn't find the need to express it verbally. Personally, that's not my "love language."
Body language is what a person should pay attention to when trying to read me, and I WILL hold back in that area until I feel comfortable relaxing and invading your space.
And in all honesty, I think even if I was sure about how I felt, I wouldn't find the need to express it verbally. Personally, that's not my "love language."
Body language is what a person should pay attention to when trying to read me, and I WILL hold back in that area until I feel comfortable relaxing and invading your space.
Posted by lnana04
In my case, with my very limited experience...it wasn't me hiding my vulnerability, but moreso the uncertainty of exactly how I felt that made me stay mum on my feelings. I think, in general, some of us don't do well with feelings. We are not how water signs appear(knowing what they feel and why). My feelings run hot/cold...Im off/on, so before I open my mouth and express my love...I need to make sure its love 1st.
And in all honesty, I think even if I was sure about how I felt, I wouldn't find the need to express it verbally. Personally, that's not my "love language."
Body language is what a person should pay attention to when trying to read me, and I WILL hold back in that area until I feel comfortable relaxing and invading your space.
I used to be like that and somewhat still am. I've worked a lot on. This is because 2 of my ex's pointed out that I needed to be more verbal with my feelings. So I mental noted it and worked on it.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenMe just seek to understand and empathize, even that I may better weigh the evidence.Posted by ewashington7000Sounds like you're doing good then. When insecurities pop up just reassure her. We are very self critical and tough on ourselves" pressure makes diamonds" kind of things. We will wear ourselves out doing it though. It sounds like you're doing great.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenInteresting...Posted by RindarooObviously if it's 3 or 4 then just space. 2 would be just being there for me through this weird time, because I'm going to act weird. 1.fight for me. Anytime it's a dispute that involves the relationship fight. I recommend a little space initially so everyone has time to get their heads together. Fight for me though. especially if it's know you hurt their feelings. Fight. It's easy to tell because generally when people get their feelings hurt they cry, get angry, or get really quiet. If they are like I want to break up and they are super calm about it, then more than likely that's a wrap and can't no mountain move that mind. Generally with a capricorn female(at least myself) it takes a lot and I mean a lot before I get to the calm I'm done part. Zero emotion equals zero chance. Some clue on emotion =fix this shit.Posted by MissLadyIceQueenThis makes so much sense. I guess it's a test, but the confusing part for OP or anyone I suppose is when are you suppose to fight for you & when are you supposed to give space. It's like a tightrope at times.Posted by ewashington7000It's not on purpose. Usually when I detach it's could be for the following reasons.Posted by RindarooIndeed, these forums are, even as Capricorn's behavior fascinates my Libran Mind [Sun & Moon are in Venus].Posted by ewashington7000It seems the more I do, the more he does this. I guess cause he needs to see it. Well he initiates contact all the time to be fair except when we almost broke up. Like we both do this? I am so used to fire signs who will come regardless of what you do, lol. Actually a Virgo a long time ago too. But I suppose none of them had a Cap Venus & weren't jaded from life experiences ( like he & I are). I must say these Cap threads explaining what you do, male or female, are tremendously helpful in understanding behavior.Posted by RindarooHe is reflecting Your own Behaviors, creating an Opportunity to bring Harmony between The Two
Well as a Cap dominant female, this I need to see you'll fight for me is how I feel. So many times in my life I've been disappointed when it didn't happen. ? Oh my I will give you so many chances to show me too! Yeah 17 yr marriage... It appears I've met my match in a Cap male. We both do the same thing, ugh on both of our Cap Venus, but I suppose since I'm Sag sun & I am far more optimistic than he is, it is up to me. So I'm the one who fought for him, and then he fights for me. So weird. Ok I'm learning.. it is far better than having someone not fight at all I must say 🙂
So, this is like unto a Mathematical-Logical puzzle that needs to be Resolved - with Peace [Patience].
Intellectually, stimulating.
I suspect that she is doing some of this on pupose - as a test....
1. You're constantly nagging me about who I am as a person, which makes me feel as if you are unhappy so I need to reflect on what to do.
2. I realized I have some serious feelings for you.
3. When there is something important that needs my attention that I need to focus on. It's like I detach to come up with solutions on how to get over an obstacle in my life. Could be friends, family, work, something financial.
4. See 3 not being on my A game messes me up and puts me in an off mood.
None the less it is a test and she's hoping you see her through it. Just give her the space she needs for now to get that ball back rolling with you. Be supportive when she communicates with you.
All The Fights that we've had are very much Non-existent.
Her fights are within her own mind...
Me just project Rationality to help her, even to negate The Negative Self-Talk/Criticality within her being.
But I love how this experience expands my Awareness/Consciousness...
click to expand
Indeed, she is very Self-Critical - which probably accounts for her ostensible periods of silence.
I can feel/see her in hyperscrupolous, self-critical states of being. These states of being significantly affects our communication; these are negatively emotive trance states.
But her Honor/Self-Responsibility is Sterling:
"Will share when my mind is settled sorry it affected our communication which is very unfair to you."
So, all I do is Be Still
Posted by lnana04Yet you [Beautiful] Sea-Goats do have the capacity to articulate your Emotional States - verbally.
In my case, with my very limited experience...it wasn't me hiding my vulnerability, but moreso the uncertainty of exactly how I felt that made me stay mum on my feelings. I think, in general, some of us don't do well with feelings. We are not how water signs appear(knowing what they feel and why). My feelings run hot/cold...Im off/on, so before I open my mouth and express my love...I need to make sure its love 1st.
And in all honesty, I think even if I was sure about how I felt, I wouldn't find the need to express it verbally. Personally, that's not my "love language."
Body language is what a person should pay attention to when trying to read me, and I WILL hold back in that area until I feel comfortable relaxing and invading your space.
You do so with your confidantes. Your behaviors, also, already articulate your Emotional States.
Moreover, the 'Hotness/Coldness' [to which you refer] does to attest to the existence of Instability.
Interestingly, one's Body Language [R-Complex] is intextricably tied to one's Emotional State.
This is why we never find, e.g., a person that is Standing erect, chest out, and smiling that is Depressed.
Personally, In recent years, I don't think I've told a confidant anything more than "I like him." When I was younger I would obsess about my crushes by talking about them all the time...but that was obsession, and on a superficial level of the guy being attractive.
As I've gotten older, I still obsess, but as feelings get deeper I'm trying to analyze what they are(like, love, lust, infatuation, obsession, indifference) before I can even think about putting it into words, and sometimes its a combinations of it all, which is even more confusing. How do I verbalize the different emotions running through me? LoL
As I've gotten older, I still obsess, but as feelings get deeper I'm trying to analyze what they are(like, love, lust, infatuation, obsession, indifference) before I can even think about putting it into words, and sometimes its a combinations of it all, which is even more confusing. How do I verbalize the different emotions running through me? LoL
Posted by lnana04You already do so with members of your own gender that you hold dear: namely, verbalize the different emotions running through your energy-vehcile.
Personally, In recent years, I don't think I've told a confidant anything more than "I like him." When I was younger I would obsess about my crushes by talking about them all the time...but that was obsession, and on a superficial level of the guy being attractive.
As I've gotten older, I still obsess, but as feelings get deeper I'm trying to analyze what they are(like, love, lust, infatuation, obsession, indifference) before I can even think about putting it into words, and sometimes its a combinations of it all, which is even more confusing. How do I verbalize the different emotions running through me? LoL
You are actually verbalize your words right now within exchange.
You [Consciousness/Will] will into existence Events via your own Will/Intention via Words that Empower - which are Energy/Matter clothing of The Impercibility in relation to Your Will/Awareness - and Images that cause The Life Force to manifest this or that Event into Objective Reality.
I think we need time to observe the person and asses their values and if their words match their actions and till then we hold our feelings in check, if the person passes the initial "security check" then the dance begins, I am quite guarded with my feelings and try to maybe hint that I like that person but I am not sure its always comes across as many times it never goes anywhere, but it depends on the other signs.
Recently I met cap guy who I really like and it seems he also likes me, but once again it is the same scenario of watching each other, being somewhat shy and awkward when in group socializing, personal jokes yet nobody is making any moves its more analyzing the situation. So again it might or not might go anywhere depending if anyone will break make the move.
However once we let someone in it's is 100% expression of our emotions not necessarily verbally but they way cap women takes care of her man.
Recently I met cap guy who I really like and it seems he also likes me, but once again it is the same scenario of watching each other, being somewhat shy and awkward when in group socializing, personal jokes yet nobody is making any moves its more analyzing the situation. So again it might or not might go anywhere depending if anyone will break make the move.
However once we let someone in it's is 100% expression of our emotions not necessarily verbally but they way cap women takes care of her man.
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I think we need time to observe the person and asses their values and if their words match their actions and till then we hold our feelings in check, if the person passes the initial "security check" then the dance begins, I am quite guarded with my feelings and try to maybe hint that I like that person but I am not sure its always comes across as many times it never goes anywhere, but it depends on the other signs.
Recently I met cap guy who I really like and it seems he also likes me, but once again it is the same scenario of watching each other, being somewhat shy and awkward when in group socializing, personal jokes yet nobody is making any moves its more analyzing the situation. So again it might or not might go anywhere depending if anyone will break make the move.
However once we let someone in it's is 100% expression of our emotions not necessarily verbally but they way cap women takes care of her man.
In those moments that seem unclear, how will you two communicate each other's viewpoints, even for the sake of clarity, if you both are intimidated by one another?
Posted by ShadowcatI see.Posted by ewashington7000Affection? I do. Love? I don't.
Do some of you Hide your True Feelings/Emotions the more Vulnerable you become, especially as it relates to your Love Relationships, respectively?
It appears as though that this so-called 'Steely Disposition' that seems to accompany your sterling reputation is but a front or mask for some of you] of some very intense, inner Passion, Uncertainty, Self-Criticality etc....
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I understand Love to be expressed by the dictum "Giving Without Asking In Return." The Emotional counterpart to this immaterial principle is Oneness.
So, in light of my understanding of Love, Affection can be an expression of Love.
Puzzling
Posted by ShadowcatPosted by ewashington7000Posted by ShadowcatI see.Posted by ewashington7000Affection? I do. Love? I don't.
Do some of you Hide your True Feelings/Emotions the more Vulnerable you become, especially as it relates to your Love Relationships, respectively?
It appears as though that this so-called 'Steely Disposition' that seems to accompany your sterling reputation is but a front or mask for some of you] of some very intense, inner Passion, Uncertainty, Self-Criticality etc....
I understand Love to be expressed by the dictum "Giving Without Asking In Return." The Emotional counterpart to this immaterial principle is Oneness.
So, in light of my understanding of Love, Affection can be an expression of Love.
Puzzling
I'm more likely to do that with people I love. Most forms of romantic interest that I have would be classified as brief or temporary affectionclick to expand
What happens when you eventually [unconditionally] love someone, even within the confines of a union?
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It appears as though that this so-called 'Steely Disposition' that seems to accompany your sterling reputation is but a front or mask for some of you] of some very intense, inner Passion, Uncertainty, Self-Criticality etc....