quick question: will he stay faithful or cheat

I am dating this guy and we plan to marry in near future. I just wanted your opinions whether he will stay faithful to me throughout his live or will cheat on me someday.

Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Scorpio
mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
ascendant: Sagittarius

thanks

One thing that is concerning me most is that he is very secretive and mysterious I sometimes fear what he is like, from inside. he's very deep but I fear about his real intentions, any tips ?

His chart is attached don't know if it helps

He'll cheat.

Astrology does not dictate whether someone will cheat or not.

Posted by Arielle83
seriously, dont get married. You already claim to be suspicious and untrusting, so why commit? Think about it.

+1

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Astrology does not dictate whether someone will cheat or not.

Who are you to disagree with my crystal ball? Stay your lane.

He will cheat. For sure.

Nothing says "I'm so happy to marry this guy" like "I sometime fear what he is like, from inside"

Posted by anna1
I am dating this guy and we plan to marry in near future. I just wanted your opinions whether he will stay faithful to me throughout his live or will cheat on me someday.

Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Scorpio
mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
ascendant: Sagittarius

thanks

One thing that is concerning me most is that he is very secretive and mysterious I sometimes fear what he is like, from inside. he's very deep but I fear about his real intentions, any tips ?

His chart is attached don't know if it helps

I have his moon, venus and mars. Astrology aside if you are feeling doubt about him being loyal that is not a good sign. Some people are just naturally secretive, but if it's making you doubt him I would be worried :/

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Posted by anna1
I am dating this guy and we plan to marry in near future. I just wanted your opinions whether he will stay faithful to me throughout his live or will cheat on me someday.

Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Scorpio
mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
ascendant: Sagittarius

thanks

One thing that is concerning me most is that he is very secretive and mysterious I sometimes fear what he is like, from inside. he's very deep but I fear about his real intentions, any tips ?

His chart is attached don't know if it helps

I have his moon, venus and mars. Astrology aside if you are feeling doubt about him being loyal that is not a good sign. Some people are just naturally secretive, but if it's making you doubt him I would be worried :/

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So are you a type of person who will stay faithful to one or you are in constant search of someone better —

Posted by SunraySag87
Sometimes what you fear is your mirror image 😢

I am faithfull to my last breath

Date him for 2-4 years before you get married. Really get to know him. Someone can't fool you for that long.

Venus is capricorn is pretty faithful, for what it's worth. They take love and relationships seriously.

But I agree with cheeky. If you are accusing me, I might as well do it. If you think that little of me, I won't take you seriously and will start looking for someone else.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
I have his sun, moon and Merc.

The quickest way he'll cheat is if you don't trust him. At my worst? Wrongfully accuse me of something enough times and I'll do it just to spite you.

Posted by Damnata
Nothing says "I'm so happy to marry this guy" like "I sometime fear what he is like, from inside"

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the OP has alot of "FEARS", that's for sure.

if you fear, your nightmares will come true for you. It's like a self fulfilling prophecy or something.

Posted by noname
and looking at his chart i'd say there maybe a reason you feel that he is secretive.

Please go into detail

All his planets are in capricorn or scorpio. Secretive and guarded. 'Nuff said.

Posted by truecap
All his planets are in capricorn or scorpio. Secretive and guarded. 'Nuff said.

yeah.

also, some guys don't need to chatter away. Women are more communicative on that front, but men don't need to talk a whole lot about nonsense. Plus, if you want a more effeminate man, there's plenty out there; there's a lot of guys out there who chatter away and will tell you what you want.

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Posted by truecap
All his planets are in capricorn or scorpio. Secretive and guarded. 'Nuff said.

yeah.

also, some guys don't need to chatter away. Women are more communicative on that front, but men don't need to talk a whole lot about nonsense. Plus, if you want a more effeminate man, there's plenty out there; there's a lot of guys out there who chatter away and will tell you what you want.

Maybe it's my placements that make them feel safe, but when Scorpio men warm up, they can be very candid conversationalists. Like most things, time is probably the answer.

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no, no i know what you mean. my husband has heavy fire placements and that's alot of warm-up already. but he's still very very closed. he won't warm up to people he isn't interested in, or care about. It's close family. And even that, it's also tricky, because some family members have different values/ways of thinking that coincide so you don't want to offend in some way. For example, money issues, politics, that kind of thing (the big stuff)

you can also have a look at our synastry and composite charts from the links above..
any potentials any tips ?? really worried about our relationship

though it was initially an arranged marriage situation but now we are in contact with each other for almost a year and a half but still i am unable to break those large walls surrounding him. I know i have a bad temper due to my Aries sun/mercury which further pushes him inside those secretive walls. before sharing or saying anything to me he thinks at least thousands of times if not more. he never confronts me that what is bothering him he just withdraws. He has everything(including our relation and marriage) pre-planned. he even wants me to earn money after marriage but i want to stay at home and taken care of financially. I try to keep myself patient but sudden outbursts of my anger are almost a routine 😢

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Posted by noname
you have no water in your chart right? if that's the case, it's gonna be hard for you to read and appreciate him.

my scorp (with mars in scorp), even with some heavy air (libra), he wouldn't even revealed what he disliked and liked in a normal conversation initially. i found that odd and just told him directly that it was very difficult to get to know him better because he wouldn't even say what color or move he liked until i said my opinion first. i'd love to know what he likes/dislikes so please feel free to express himself and i appreciate his uniquness and different POVs. i guess no one had told him that directly and he wanted me to get to know him better so he made real effort to open up literately right there right then.

your guy has no air no fire. it's gonna be harder to have him lower his guard if you do not know how to work with him.

one thing i find disturbing is that you only care whether he will be faithful to you once you are married. do you actually care whether he will be happy with you? do you care to understand him, learn to love him and how to make him happy the way he needs it?

his chart : http://s1285.photobucket.com/user/annawilliams4/media/astro_w2gw_02_david_hp3399625408_zpsb0f63fed.gif.html?o=2
and mine: http://s1285.photobucket.com/user/annawilliams4/media/astro_w2gw_01_anna_hp3435464933_zps2feaa90c.gif.html?o=3<BR> it may help ?
looking and his chart and mine can you give any tip on how to lower his guards ??

If a guy was asking how to lower your guard, what would your answer be?

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My guads are there only when i interact with strangers. Once i commit to a relationship i take it very seriously i open my self like a book to the ones who are very close to me 🙂

Posted by noname
in case it helps - my scorp's emotional stability links to mine greatly. i noticed that sometimes even before i started complaining about my asshole (lol) coworkers my scorp started to get uneasy and emotional. i wanted to see him happy and emotionally stable so i have learned to keep the unhappy stuff outside of our front door. i always come home with a smile and an exciting "i am home!!!" so does he. love makes one a better person 🙂

Thank you noname your help is greatly appreciated i am trying and i will continue to try keeping my anger and my mood in check 🙂