@SunMoonStars
12 Years1,000+ Posts
How spontaneous are Capricorn men?
It's normal. You're gonna have to be the one to shake things up and take him out of his routine.
Sometimes it feels like my Cap does EVERYTHING in his life last minute, but it's probably a goaty illusion 😛 *shrugs*
Then again - things that matter, he seems to have planned out before Birth even!
I can only speak for my capi woman but I believe that they can be the same. Mine absolutely hates surprises, if we have planned to hang out and I say I have a surprise for where we are going she continuously asks me until I tell her lol it's extremely frustrating. And forget hanging out last minute.. Even if she's not actually busy she's already planned a night in and will not budge.
Once I slip into those lounge around clothes for a night in ..... that's a wrap.
I won't budge.
I like to have things planned out. I like to know by Wednesday what I'm doing for the weekend. Otherwise, I'll come up with a list of projects around the house to get done.
Posted by wagtail
Sometimes it feels like my Cap does EVERYTHING in his life last minute, but it's probably a goaty illusion 😛 *shrugs*Then again - things that matter, he seems to have planned out before Birth even!
Don't let him fool you. Those things might have seemed last minute to you, but he probably had them planned in his head. Or at least an inkling of it thought about ahead of time.
Posted by Jamjam
I can only speak for my capi woman but I believe that they can be the same. Mine absolutely hates surprises, if we have planned to hang out and I say I have a surprise for where we are going she continuously asks me until I tell her lol it's extremely frustrating. And forget hanging out last minute.. Even if she's not actually busy she's already planned a night in and will not budge.
Because she's mentally prepared for the night in. Most likely looking forward to it.
It depends we usually do a lot of last min plans either on the day or the night before. The other day we were talking about plans for Xmas break n Capi's birthday. He gave me the heads up Xmas break away with family n returning for his bday with me 🙂
Oh n forget surprises he hates them..!
Posted by CapTenn
Once I slip into those lounge around clothes for a night in ..... that's a wrap.I won't budge.
lol that's me.
but Caps are as spontaneous as a brick on a 300-year-old home. Only something as severe as gusts of wind or a snowstorm might nudge it into a different position.
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You absolutely correct......
I'm not the most flexible person (or spontaneous).
Though, occasionally I can surprise myself.
Posted by SunMoonStars
Just wondering because it seems like my Cap needs to have things planned out most of the time. Not a lot of spontaneity in terms of hanging out last minute. Am I overthinking it or is this normal?LOL! Don't sweat it - this combination never works out in the long-term.
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It's an uphill battle and I have no illusions. Hopefully things work out best for everyone.
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Just wondering because it seems like my Cap needs to have things planned out most of the time. Not a lot of spontaneity in terms of hanging out last minute. Am I overthinking it or is this normal?