@Yeli04
11 YearsCapricorn
Never fails.
I'm stuck in the same situation with most woman I meet.
I kind of get the impression they play me just because I'm and aries... Wich sucks, 'cause I'll play that game and eventually get tired of it. Then I'll naturally put them in the friendzone and just watch their confusion rise.
Oh the eternal search for the alpha girl.
Posted by losemybreath
I'm stuck in the same situation with most woman I meet.I kind of get the impression they play me just because I'm and aries... Wich sucks, 'cause I'll play that game and eventually get tired of it. Then I'll naturally put them in the friendzone and just watch their confusion rise.
Oh the eternal search for the alpha girl.
Alpha girl ?
There are things that can and should be taken into account which is the Grey area which is the Grey area however
The Grey area is what's more important to me but only if it's expressed until then I'm forced to stick with what is black and white.
Posted by Yeli04
When u really want someone u dedicate all ur time to them they don't appreciate it. Then u move on.. They want u back! Im the time of person that see and feels things black or white. I don't know what grey is. I never cared about grey till I figured out there's always a game u have to play to keep a guy smh! Have to keep them chasing but at the same time u don't have to give attention but then u don't. So frustrated why does it have to be so hard.
Well... you were:
1. Dealing with a Leo and possibly a player
2. Getn a bit needy with him after only a month of "dating" if I recall?
If you are getn involved with a Leo guy there will only be push pull and "I'm busy" sh*t if he's after an ego stroke. Been there... Don't indulge it, unless you want a very unequal arrangement (and I call it an arrangement, coz in a RELATIONSHIP, there shouldn't be push pull)
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Posted by losemybreath
I'm stuck in the same situation with most woman I meet.I kind of get the impression they play me just because I'm and aries... Wich sucks, 'cause I'll play that game and eventually get tired of it. Then I'll naturally put them in the friendzone and just watch their confusion rise.
Oh the eternal search for the alpha girl.
Lol... You're choosing the wrong women. Get yourself another fire sign; then you'll meet your match 😉
Posted by Yeli04
When u really want someone u dedicate all ur time to them they don't appreciate it. Then u move on.. They want u back! Im the time of person that see and feels things black or white. I don't know what grey is. I never cared about grey till I figured out there's always a game u have to play to keep a guy smh! Have to keep them chasing but at the same time u don't have to give attention but then u don't. So frustrated why does it have to be so hard.Well... you were:
1. Dealing with a Leo and possibly a player
2. Getn a bit needy with him after only a month of "dating" if I recall?If you are getn involved with a Leo guy there will only be push pull and "I'm busy" sh*t if he's after an ego stroke. Been there... Don't indulge it, unless you want a very unequal arrangement (and I call it an arrangement, coz in a RELATIONSHIP, there shouldn't be push pull)
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God forbid anyone actually shows the need someome or shows feeling. Lets all just play games oh ya! GOD FORBID!
Posted by Yeli04
Then u move on.. They want u back! ... Have to keep them chasing but at the same time u don't have to give attention but then u don't. So frustrated why does it have to be so hard.
Life is not simple. Pairing is not simple. People don't have just one button to push. Living a post modern life is not simple. That's all. It will never ever be easy.
Just scream and vent loudly whenever it's greying outside again:
Posted by Yeli04
When u really want someone u dedicate all ur time to them they don't appreciate it. Then u move on.. They want u back! Im the time of person that see and feels things black or white. I don't know what grey is. I never cared about grey till I figured out there's always a game u have to play to keep a guy smh! Have to keep them chasing but at the same time u don't have to give attention but then u don't. So frustrated why does it have to be so hard.
Yep.
Posted by DarkFire
Dont worry. Most Leo's have a well deserved guilty conscious from playing then breaking hearts. Most of us end up alone, which is fine. I personally broke the hearts of the only females that mattered to me, and one still tries to fix things to this day. She is a successful Capricorn, way better looking then me. I watched her cry and beg me not to go, and I truly didn't want to, yet I turned and walked away. Once I was fixed with a decision I made it without hesitation.I couldn't deal with the amount of guy friends she had, or the fact she was better then me yet treated me like I mattered. She should be holding someone who matters to society, not wasting time on shit. She always told me I loved differently then other guys, and she specifically needed me and only me. I refuse to believe that.
Wow your a real insecure asshole
*you're
I appreciate Darkfire's honesty.
I think you need to apologize to her though, and be honest about why you walked away. Just so your conscious can be more clear as you move forward as well as your karma, and she can understand that she did nothing wrong and nothing was wrong with her.
^^^whatever...you guys can coddle him and pinch his cheeks because he was so hinest but hes the type of dude that damages perfectly good females and then pulls the "im messed up" card. Whatever. Im not impressed.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
^^^whatever...you guys can coddle him and pinch his cheeks because he was so hinest but hes the type of dude that damages perfectly good females and then pulls the "im messed up" card. Whatever. Im not impressed.yep, lots of these guys running around. mostly caps and virgos
Hi
Half of us are sick of it. In my physical life I have to walk abound hiding my emotions and fear, while giving my shoulder to women so I can can absorb their problems and gently wipe the tears from their face. Who the ever lends a shoulder to me? No one wants to see a guy with emotion and problems or they are classified as weak sad excesses for a man. So who the fucks shoulder do we get? We get our own shoulder to cry on, and personally mine says all the answers will be found at the bottom of a JD bottle.click to expand
Horseshit. Women love to see emotion in a man. I.love to see a man who can cry. These alpha macho men are boring and huge turn offs. Show me a man with passion and emotion. Cap women are very sensitive to emotion under our cold exterior in fact we are probably more emotional than anyone but we hide it out of fear of being hurt. I can see this woman loved u without judging you and its sad you rejected her based on your deep seated insecurities of not feeling worthy of love.
These alpha macho men beating their chest like king of the jungle? Ya fuck you.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
^^^whatever...you guys can coddle him and pinch his cheeks because he was so hinest but hes the type of dude that damages perfectly good females and then pulls the "im messed up" card. Whatever. Im not impressed.yep, lots of these guys running around. mostly caps and virgos
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Yep pisces too. Pathetic.
Posted by DarkFire
But what happens when your all of it? Every shade of emotion, and every color of feeling? Your everyone's star, perfect fix, and obsession. People find hope and light within you, but what happens when your all out? What happens when it turns hollow inside? I know, I know. Boo fucking hoo right? Cry me a fucking river pussy.
Whatever. Maybe they just want to love you. It takes courage to love a woman and you couldnt handle it so u took the weak way out even tho she made it clear she wanted only you. And then you have the nerve to say "oh I broke all the womens hearts who.loved me" like its some sort of medal of honor. You should stay out of the dating pool until you sort yourself out.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
^^^whatever...you guys can coddle him and pinch his cheeks because he was so hinest but hes the type of dude that damages perfectly good females and then pulls the "im messed up" card. Whatever. Im not impressed.yep, lots of these guys running around. mostly caps and virgos
Hi
Half of us are sick of it. In my physical life I have to walk abound hiding my emotions and fear, while giving my shoulder to women so I can can absorb their problems and gently wipe the tears from their face. Who the ever lends a shoulder to me? No one wants to see a guy with emotion and problems or they are classified as weak sad excesses for a man. So who the fucks shoulder do we get? We get our own shoulder to cry on, and personally mine says all the answers will be found at the bottom of a JD bottle.Horseshit. Women love to see emotion in a man. I.love to see a man who can cry. These alpha macho men are boring and huge turn offs. Show me a man with passion and emotion. Cap women are very sensitive to emotion under our cold exterior in fact we are probably more emotional than anyone but we hide it out of fear of being hurt. I can see this woman loved u without judging you and its sad you rejected her based on your deep seated insecurities of not feeling worthy of love.
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No.
They don't, actually.
And I can't blame them. Emotion is one thing -- crying.....NO.
Posted by DarkFire
But what happens when your all of it? Every shade of emotion, and every color of feeling? Your everyone's star, perfect fix, and obsession. People find hope and light within you, but what happens when your all out? What happens when it turns hollow inside? I know, I know. Boo fucking hoo right? Cry me a fucking river pussy.Whatever. Maybe they just want to love you. It takes courage to love a woman and you couldnt handle it so u took the weak way out even tho she made it clear she wanted only you. And then you have the nerve to say "oh I broke all the womens hearts who.loved me" like its some sort of medal of honor. You should stay out of the dating pool until you sort yourself out.
Down here within the pits speaking to you from the cloud you appear to be sitting upon I do consider it a metal. I've learned to embrace this dark area of life, and people like you know much about people like me. Your opinions are pathetic, and negative as all Hell. Fuck I do a better job of tearing myself apart, but I give you a C for the attempt. All you did was kick my dead body around after I slit my own throat. I've been single for 2 years because I know my issues are to bad for anything healthy. You wouldn't know that though would you? Trying to do something positive when things are negative is to much for you.
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I like how you can see all of it, the good and the bad about yourself... That's better than most ppl.
No @darkfire. Im not judging. I feel sorry for the women you have hurt.
@capten...a man who is CAPABLE of crying
And @darkfire as far as darks moods and all that ha! Try on a capricorns shoes, you have no.idea what dark moods are leo. You're an amateur. Try walking around with saturn on your back
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When u really want someone u dedicate all ur time to them they don't appreciate it. Then u move on.. They want u back! Im the time of person that see and feels things black or white. I don't know what grey is. I never cared about grey till I figured out there's always a game u have to play to keep a guy smh! Have to keep them chasing but at the same time u don't have to give attention but then u don't. So frustrated why does it have to be so hard.