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How To Tell if a Capricorn Man is Committed
Maybe we'll stop getting so many questions on you guys on here! lol!
Okay, okay. I'll stop - just because you asked so sweetly.
*smooches*
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Posted by BalmyTigress
"How to tell if he's committed"
"He proposes to you or takes you ring shopping"What an insight! :-)
Lol! Its a duh! moment. Copied straight out of the book!
So if a cap man buys you a ring, waiting the right time
To propose it's not because he doesn't want to be lonely it's because he really does want to spend the rest of
His life with you?
I'm sorry a lot of people have put things in my head recently.
I know one thing you can never tell if a Cap has other lovers, they are master manipulators and can even get the side chicks to assist in keeping it on the low down...but yes, they do take it very serious when they are in love and will propose.
Wish I had seen this 'in the beginning'. Could have saved us all a few threads and a few PMs Trucap! LOL
HE STARTS MAKING MONEY OR ADVANCING IN HIS CAREER:
Rather than distract him from his goals, you've motivated him to achieve. Capricorn loves a woman who makes him a better man. Keep him from stagnating and he'll keep you around like a lucky charm.
- Working on being this for him and vice versa. I see him indulging in a potential career right now. Hopefully it works out for him as it's important to his self esteem.
HE TAKES CARE OF YOU FINANCIALLY:
If he's providing for you, that means he feels like "the man" around you. Nothing's more seductive to Mr. Cap than feeling duty-bound to a woman he also finds incredibly hot.
- Not there yet. We do it even steven but I have more physical resources. He has more networking resources. I would like for him to be a bit more of 'the man' in this area...mostly just bc I think it would make him feel better about his self. He's not there yet. And I've always been 100 percent financially independent.
You'd tell if I'm committed if I'm safe enough to leave my cell phone alone with my girlfriend.
Posted by underwaterthing
W If he's providing for you, that means he feels like "the man" around you. Nothing's more seductive to Mr. Cap than feeling duty-bound to a woman he also finds incredibly hot.- Not there yet. We do it even steven but I have more physical resources. He has more networking resources. I would like for him to be a bit more of 'the man' in this area...mostly just bc I think it would make him feel better about his self. He's not there yet. And I've always been 100 percent financially independent.
Theory is that men bond to you better if you let them do manly things for you. It's all about how you make them feel.
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Posted by underwaterthing
W If he's providing for you, that means he feels like "the man" around you. Nothing's more seductive to Mr. Cap than feeling duty-bound to a woman he also finds incredibly hot.- Not there yet. We do it even steven but I have more physical resources. He has more networking resources. I would like for him to be a bit more of 'the man' in this area...mostly just bc I think it would make him feel better about his self. He's not there yet. And I've always been 100 percent financially independent.
Theory is that men bond to you better if you let them do manly things for you. It's all about how you make them feel.
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Im actually learning how to do this. Grew up in a very fend for yourself environment as a child and do not even know how to let anyone do anything for me. I occasionally ask him for help and have been letting him help me set up my studio. I definitely feel it brings us closer. I noticed him wanting to step up and grab water if I say I'm thirsty etc. I need to be taught how to be feminine. I even have to remind myself to walk slower and let him open the door. It doesn't come naturally to me and he's too polite to push it on me. He will go with my vibe...
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
Posted by Shaniajam
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
still the two of you are not clear about your situations you'll wait
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Posted by Shaniajam
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
still the two of you are not clear about your situations you'll waitclick to expand
Lmao you're right. He does find things for us to do together but he makes it seem like it's business (we are both in entertainment industry)... However we end up spending that time together. He told me I'm the only one he trusts right now recently. Don't know if it's a game or true. He also feels when something is wrong even if I'm smiling... No one ever got that. Well.... I've always sabotaged things that's going good. Let's see if I can keep this one going ok shall we? Smh.
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Posted by Shaniajam
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
still the two of you are not clear about your situations you'll wait
Lmao you're right. He does find things for us to do together but he makes it seem like it's business (we are both in entertainment industry)... However we end up spending that time together. He told me I'm the only one he trusts right now recently. Don't know if it's a game or true. He also feels when something is wrong even if I'm smiling... No one ever got that. Well.... I've always sabotaged things that's going good. Let's see if I can keep this one going ok shall we? Smh.
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simple. stop dating others and ask him what the two of you are
Posted by Shaniajam
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
It's only a month. You're still in the getting to know you stage. Give him some time to figure out if you're what he wants. That takes a little time to develop. Give him some time to develop feelings. If you're still together in 2-3 months, then I'd just tell him he's the only one I'm dating and see what he says. That opens the conversation without sounding insecure or putting him on the spot. It tells him where you stand without pressure and allows him to confirm that he's in the same place. If he doesn't confirm, then you know you're not in the same place.
The "what are we?" question makes me cringe. As a cap, if I'm into them, I'd like to know what they think we are before I answer that. If I'm not as into them as they are me, it makes me uncomfortable and it's the beginning of the end. Truthfully, though if that question has to be asked, then it means we aren't and it's not going any further. Otherwise, you wouldn't have to ask - that information would be volunteered (as in my example of me telling him where I stand).
And yeah, yeah, I know not everyone's as direct as I am. 🙂
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Posted by Shaniajam
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
still the two of you are not clear about your situations you'll wait
Lmao you're right. He does find things for us to do together but he makes it seem like it's business (we are both in entertainment industry)... However we end up spending that time together. He told me I'm the only one he trusts right now recently. Don't know if it's a game or true. He also feels when something is wrong even if I'm smiling... No one ever got that. Well.... I've always sabotaged things that's going good. Let's see if I can keep this one going ok shall we? Smh.
simple. stop dating others and ask him what the two of you areclick to expand
He has said he has not been having sex with anyone since us. Says he likes me a lot. Go with the flow. I hate having sex with no commitment as an earth sign it makes me feel like I'm wasting my time. However... I can drop them all for him... It's something to do to pass the time. I'm not interested in anyone else but him so you are probably right there.
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Posted by Shaniajam
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
still the two of you are not clear about your situations you'll wait
Lmao you're right. He does find things for us to do together but he makes it seem like it's business (we are both in entertainment industry)... However we end up spending that time together. He told me I'm the only one he trusts right now recently. Don't know if it's a game or true. He also feels when something is wrong even if I'm smiling... No one ever got that. Well.... I've always sabotaged things that's going good. Let's see if I can keep this one going ok shall we? Smh.
simple. stop dating others and ask him what the two of you are
Truth. If you treat me like an option, you get the same in return.
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Point taken.
Posted by truecap
Posted by Shaniajam
One month dating. He's hot and cold. Doesn't go two days without talking ❤ Yet still sometimes I want to give up. I'm a Taurus but I think caps beats us regarding patience smh. It's early I know but I'm not a clinger so good luck with that and I'm dating others as sometimes I feel he's only into me and sometimes I feel there's others.
It's only a month. You're still in the getting to know you stage. Give him some time to figure out if you're what he wants. That takes a little time to develop. Give him some time to develop feelings. If you're still together in 2-3 months, then I'd just tell him he's the only one I'm dating and see what he says. That opens the conversation without sounding insecure or putting him on the spot. It tells him where you stand without pressure and allows him to confirm that he's in the same place. If he doesn't confirm, then you know you're not in the same place.
The "what are we?" question makes me cringe. As a cap, if I'm into them, I'd like to know what they think we are before I answer that. If I'm not as into them as they are me, it makes me uncomfortable and it's the beginning of the end. Truthfully, though if that question has to be asked, then it means we aren't and it's not going any further. Otherwise, you wouldn't have to ask - that information would be volunteered (as in my example of me telling him where I stand).
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You know what? You are so right one month is nothing and I should give it time. Plus I'm sure he wants me not to be engulfed in what he's doing all the time and may be the reason for the space. He has told me he is talking to others but I'm the only one he's has sex with since we started talking. Maybe that's s good thing. Plus he said no one gets the privelage to hang with him as much as I do (I have a high following on social network and we work together musically and personally so it draws us together a lot). But I shall wait. You are right. I don't want to ask I want it to just be eventually.
Posted by Greentea
Lmfao. Not sure if this was for me but it's true lol
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Do as you wish, but if bangin other dudes is your idea of passing the time, you're not gonna get very far.
He's the only one I'm banging... I could never f. Uuu dge more than one at a time. Thanks. Passing the time is going on dates, texting to fill the slot of I'm not working. No intamacy but him.
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Do as you wish, but if bangin other dudes is your idea of passing the time, you're not gonna get very far.
He's the only one I'm banging... I could never f. Uuu dge more than one at a time. Thanks. Passing the time is going on dates, texting to fill the slot of I'm not working. No intamacy but him.
Understood and I wasn't trying to be crass, but that's how dating around comes off. It sends out the message you need the attention of other men to make you whole. I'm not saying you hafta be stuck up the Cap's ass all the time, quite the contrary. I'm saying if you know he's the guy you want and you think he feels the same, show off your fun side with friends and hobbies. Show him your strength, not that you need a man to complete you.
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Point taken.... Thank you
Posted by Greentea
Posted by Greentea
Lol.
This is when Cap man, (any man rather) is ready to committ.
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Lmfao i got your point.
I am dating a cap man (cap sun and venus, aq moon, leo mars, sag mercury) for the past 7wks, have told him on several occasions if he doesnt want a serious r/s i need to walk away now. Last I mentioned this 2wks ago.....he says he doesnt know and wants to go with the flow. Makes me feel like he is more of an air sign than anything. Am I right to a cap man would know, if he says he is unsure, usually its a no and he just wants to maintain this till he gets bored/ finds someone he wants fo be serious with.
True that on time spent with me, he makes an effort despite his busy schedule. I do feel that he is taking it slow, learn more abt him everytime, but theres still this sense of secrecy/ mystery about him. Is it norm? Maybe he feels the same about me too....
Anyway verbal commitments means nothing, or i should say it can change anytime. Actions speak louder than words.....
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Posted by underwaterthing
W If he's providing for you, that means he feels like "the man" around you. Nothing's more seductive to Mr. Cap than feeling duty-bound to a woman he also finds incredibly hot.- Not there yet. We do it even steven but I have more physical resources. He has more networking resources. I would like for him to be a bit more of 'the man' in this area...mostly just bc I think it would make him feel better about his self. He's not there yet. And I've always been 100 percent financially independent.
Theory is that men bond to you better if you let them do manly things for you. It's all about how you make them feel.
Im actually learning how to do this. Grew up in a very fend for yourself environment as a child and do not even know how to let anyone do anything for me. I occasionally ask him for help and have been letting him help me set up my studio. I definitely feel it brings us closer. I noticed him wanting to step up and grab water if I say I'm thirsty etc. I need to be taught how to be feminine. I even have to remind myself to walk slower and let him open the door. It doesn't come naturally to me and he's too polite to push it on me. He will go with my vibe...
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Do you have a Moon-Saturn aspect in your chart?
What if a Cap man was engaged to a woman for four years without setting a wedding date....
This woman leaves him, tired of waiting for him to set a date, and he doesn't even chase her, go after her, and beg her to come back?
None for cap chicks?
Another question for ya tho, OP-
Like say- Someone shared something with you, related to intimacy. Discussed- ya know emotions on like ..when you first developed a relationship with someone
and not even a week later- It's like they try to recreate that. Like what had happened to you- Similar to the story in which you shared with them.
Like- Would they do that, in a way to imply that they care for you?
Wouldn't they try to be original, or different if those actions actually meant something?
Edit- Person is like balls deep Cap. Sun/moon/mars/mercury- in the 10th.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@TrueCapWhat if a Cap man was engaged to a woman for four years without setting a wedding date....
This woman leaves him, tired of waiting for him to set a date, and he doesn't even chase her, go after her, and beg her to come back?
I guess he figured she wanted something he didn't want, so he let her make her decision and go.
You do know I copied that original post out of a book, right?
Posted by Skitty
None for cap chicks?Another question for ya tho, OP-
Like say- Someone shared something with you, related to intimacy. Discussed- ya know emotions on like ..when you first developed a relationship with someone
and not even a week later- It's like they try to recreate that. Like what had happened to you- Similar to the story in which you shared with them.
Like- Would they do that, in a way to imply that they care for you?
Wouldn't they try to be original, or different if those actions actually meant something?
Edit- Person is like balls deep Cap. Sun/moon/mars/mercury- in the 10th.
I'm having a hard time understanding what you're asking.
Posted by Foreverloveme
@TaurusBull1977 did the woman want a large wedding? Was he financially able to afford the wedding and support having a wife?
No.
She just wanted to get married and have children.
No big wedding.
She just needed him to set a date.
The both of them make very good money.
So money definitely isn't a factor.
Posted by truecap
Posted by Skitty
None for cap chicks?Another question for ya tho, OP-
Like say- Someone shared something with you, related to intimacy. Discussed- ya know emotions on like ..when you first developed a relationship with someone
and not even a week later- It's like they try to recreate that. Like what had happened to you- Similar to the story in which you shared with them.
Like- Would they do that, in a way to imply that they care for you?
Wouldn't they try to be original, or different if those actions actually meant something?
Edit- Person is like balls deep Cap. Sun/moon/mars/mercury- in the 10th.
I'm having a hard time understanding what you're asking.
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It's all good.
I don't want to share the specifics, and i'm not sure of any other way to word it.
It will work itself out eventually.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@TrueCapWhat if a Cap man was engaged to a woman for four years without setting a wedding date....
This woman leaves him, tired of waiting for him to set a date, and he doesn't even chase her, go after her, and beg her to come back?
Why do people expect and/or want this?
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Who knows!
Once I make a decision to leave, who cares if you want me or not.
It's not happening.
Blame the Bulls' stubborn tendencies.
She was curious as to why he hasn't set a date yet.
As far as I 'm concerned, a 4-year engagement ring is a BS promise ring.
Why get engaged if you're not so sure about marriage?
You will never find out if he's not committed! So if you're the type of female that accepts "all men cheat" or willing to turn a blind eye to some things and aren't all up in his grill, Cap men are great providers, and life long partners (not the type to leave their wife for a side piece) Not for me but this is a reality of life nowadays its prob best to face! It happens and it is happening.
On that note-If he's "commited" he'll be providing for you, making sure you're comfortable and he'll protect you fiercely.
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Again, from Astrotwins' Love Zodiac
The Capricorn man may have many sex partners (or not), but his serious relationships are few and far between. This is not a man of many words. He prefers to show how he feels, rather than tell you straight out. You may have to be a bit of a mind reader to realize you're dating exclusively, so pay attention to cues like these:
HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE:
Don't you get it? He's spending his free time with you (well, after he fulfills his duties to his family, best friends, pets and career). that makes you his girlfriend. Do you need him to spell it out for you? Well, of course you do. Alas, it ain't gonna happen. His actions speak louder than his words, so he'd rather you just put the clues together. Time is important and they share it with the people they care about.
HE GETS NOSTALGIC ABOUT YOU:
Is he reminiscing over your early years together, or gazing at photos with an unusually soft look in his eyes? You've now become a cherished part of his sacred personal history.
HE FORMALLY PROPOSES, OR TAKES YOU RING SHOPPING:
It may take another decade before the actual wedding, since he'll want to have his money and life in perfect order first. But if you've known each other a while and it feels solid, it is. (Sidenote: Like Elvis, caps can also initiate impulsive shotgun weddings. If you've known each other a week and he drops to one knee, just say no - or make sure you get half in the inevitable divorce).
HE STARTS MAKING MONEY OR ADVANCING IN HIS CAREER:
Rather than distract him from his goals, you've motivated him to achieve. Capricorn loves a woman who makes him a better man. Keep him from stagnating and he'll keep you around like a lucky charm.
HE TAKES CARE OF YOU FINANCIALLY:
If he's providing for you, that means he feels like "the man" around you. Nothing's more seductive to Mr. Cap than feeling duty-bound to a woman he also finds incredibly hot.