signs you are NOT in a relationship

or, signs he's not really interested in dating you... ever...

feel free to add/change to this

1. you only see him after 10pm

2. you only communicate through email and text message

3. it's been over a week since you've seen him

4. he doesn't claim you and in fact refers to you as just his friend

5. he has a gf and she's not you

6. he screens his calls from you and no, he's not THAT busy

7. when you do actually see him, you never actually spend more than a few hours awake together/not in bed together

wow... so true!

thanks, cancergem, for bringing these points, because as women, I think we do not always see this to be facts, but try to break those as barriers. And in my experience, trying to breake those has never changed the fact that....

*He is just not that into you* and NEVER will be.

1. He wants to have sex with you, but doesn't want to even go for coffee 😉

2. He breaks up with you after every meeting.

3. He tells you, he likes you, but doesn't love you.

4. He doesn't pick up your calls majority of times.

haha yeah! i just figured a few ladies on here might need this lol

Posted by cancergem
or, signs he's not really interested in dating you... ever...

feel free to add/change to this

1. you only see him after 10pm

2. you only communicate through email and text message

3. it's been over a week since you've seen him

4. he doesn't claim you and in fact refers to you as just his friend

5. he has a gf and she's not you

6. he screens his calls from you and no, he's not THAT busy

7. when you do actually see him, you never actually spend more than a few hours awake together/not in bed together

"fuck"

hahaha

So where is Tiki? Damn that woman knows men. See I did too until I caught feelings.

So how do you play that game Tiki? Not like a man going to tell you. Send it to my email or share with all females on here. I was so strong, kinda a player but never slept around. In fact, a prude. Out for love but hey, you want to buy me dinner and drinks and think my innocent and big booty going to get played? Oh hell no. I'm white girl with a booty all guys chase haha. But unfortunately, fell for a Cap and damn.............took a LONG time for that to happen...meaning falling in real love. I do know they are more sensitive than they put on but I do know they are very carnal and when they are over 40, so hard to figure out. So Tiki, games are stupid and games are for children. But life is really a game. You win or lose. So help a girl out haha. Girl gotta do, what a girl gotta do.

ha

I love this fucker like no other.....and he has ripped my heart out after two years. I am a Virgo who kept pushing this "flirty" notoriously flirty guy away but damn........Cupid got me well before we really knew each other. True story. One night he was in my head FOR NO REASON....and then bam....seriously gave this guy a hard time and fell...we both did cause I pushed him away in a mean way...verbally told him off....like mean stuff. So I don't want to play to HURT him, but play to let him know.....you got a smart one here. Love made me lose my edge. And I'm a smart mother....

Tiki you are too mature but love ya for your real sincere help. But lets play....he would appreciate a match I'm sure.

Oh and btw, while he tried........he never got it........ha

But now, no response or anything...after a week. I did feel him pulling away for the past five months. I pushed and pushed cause I don't trust anybody. Especially when I lose control......

I found on here....that being a Virgo, with an Aquarius Moon, Leo Venus....is part of it. Unlike what I've read on here....I FEEL so much but keep it to myself and shut down.....Trust me. I feel more like a Leo and Cancer due to my bipolar feelings and I'm not bipolar. I am in control, got in going on and then I feel with my heart..........and I become stupidly emotional. Want to save and help people I love.

Ok I'll stop ranting...........I need to date other guys ha

Posted by scorpio_chic
you haven't met his kids/family

he doesn't allow you to stay at his home when he's not there

his friends don't know about you

he doesn't talk in "us" or "we" terms

he doesn't spend holidays with you

I think I'm gonna go make one about how to know when he IS into you.. LOL I know that list a little better.

Please do..........