
NotYourAverageAquarius
@NotYourAverageAquarius
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Posted by CreepyPants
:p. oh you Lis. Bf's grandma has one of those chairs too. She's in a similar situation. Recently in n out of hospitals with surgery. Doesn't eat well. Maybe make her favorite foods a couple times a week? Even if she doesn't scarf it down, she'll prob eat more than usual.
Gemini bf is great. Thanks for asking. The bizness is going well. I'm helping them get organized and get a budget going so that they have a clear idea of an end date and so that goals are a tad easier to attain. They'll have a better visual of how they are tracking.
I cant say this to the bf, but side note... I have a lil crush on Peyton Manning. Lol
I just looked him up but I had a hunch he was a cap moon. I knew he was an aries but he's just so serious about his craft, he takes everything so hard. I KNEW he had to be a cap moon.
😛 that's sad about your bf's grandma but it sounds like you both are looking after her. and it sounds as if you're happier with this guy. loyalty is big, which he sounds like...but hopefully he is also emotionally available to you. I was just talking to one of my close relatives on the phone tonight after making dinner and cleaning up, and he was complaining to me how his boyfriend is so emotionally unavailable, just doesn't want to express or show emotional support. His boyfriend is saying to him that as long as he's there, and doing all the work financially, he doesn't need emotional support - plus it's not his nature. I told my close relative that (i did their charts together) and looking at the moon/sun/venus/mars and house placements....that his boyfriend would never be emotionally available for him. It's just how it is. he's just gonna have to deal and my relative said no...he can't deal. (my relative is very emotional and emotional support is huge with him) well just looking at chart alone i can tell... even if i'm amateur at it. plus he's been with this person for a couple years and he's exhibiting the lack of support.
Posted by lisabethur8
it's the first time i've ever told my relatives about astrology and doing their charts with their partner, and he's not into astrology at all, but i hoped i helped somehow. I dont want him to change his mind due to me....but i listened carefully first and let him do the decisions on his own after being with this guy for over a year or longer, to see what he's like, and it's been a couple years and he knows he'll never change. So told him, that's just how he is, and you know it...if you can deal with that.....and he said he really can't (he just has abandonment issues, and gets panic attacks if someone he loves is going to leave him) and i said no, none of your loved ones will ever leave you ever. but this is someone you're gonna be considering for long term don't you think? you better be careful who you choose.
Posted by lisabethur8
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that's sad about your bf's grandma but it sounds like you both are looking after her. and it sounds as if you're happier with this guy. loyalty is big, which he sounds like...but hopefully he is also emotionally available to you. I was just talking to one of my close relatives on the phone tonight after making dinner and cleaning up, and he was complaining to me how his boyfriend is so emotionally unavailable, just doesn't want to express or show emotional support. His boyfriend is saying to him that as long as he's there, and doing all the work financially, he doesn't need emotional support - plus it's not his nature. I told my close relative that (i did their charts together) and looking at the moon/sun/venus/mars and house placements....that his boyfriend would never be emotionally available for him. It's just how it is. he's just gonna have to deal and my relative said no...he can't deal. (my relative is very emotional and emotional support is huge with him) well just looking at chart alone i can tell... even if i'm amateur at it. plus he's been with this person for a couple years and he's exhibiting the lack of support.
anyway, our grandma is the same ....she won't eat much and she hates to be "helped"....a nurse tried to help her the other day and she got very very angry at her for helping....it's really getting bad. sigh. it's because she is feeling that she's losing control, and she no longer is able to live on her own like before, living in a cottage, her own house with her own things, she cleans and cooks on her own, shops, ect and now she cant do that.
Posted by CreepyPantsPosted by lisabethur8
it's the first time i've ever told my relatives about astrology and doing their charts with their partner, and he's not into astrology at all, but i hoped i helped somehow. I dont want him to change his mind due to me....but i listened carefully first and let him do the decisions on his own after being with this guy for over a year or longer, to see what he's like, and it's been a couple years and he knows he'll never change. So told him, that's just how he is, and you know it...if you can deal with that.....and he said he really can't (he just has abandonment issues, and gets panic attacks if someone he loves is going to leave him) and i said no, none of your loved ones will ever leave you ever. but this is someone you're gonna be considering for long term don't you think? you better be careful who you choose.
it's pretty hard telling someone to seek complete happiness elsewhere when you know you're essentially telling them to ditch someone, be really unhappy in the short term, for only a chance at something better. i getcha. i think you told him exactly what he needs to hear to make a more confident decision for himself. very wise. if he stays, and it goes wrong (hopefully not after too long) then he knows he gave it his best. if he moves on, he's making a tough call that will empower him in the long run.
ahhh the pursuit of love.click to expand
Posted by CreepyPantsPosted by lisabethur8
got cut off.. i'll copy and paste again.
that's sad about your bf's grandma but it sounds like you both are looking after her. and it sounds as if you're happier with this guy. loyalty is big, which he sounds like...but hopefully he is also emotionally available to you. I was just talking to one of my close relatives on the phone tonight after making dinner and cleaning up, and he was complaining to me how his boyfriend is so emotionally unavailable, just doesn't want to express or show emotional support. His boyfriend is saying to him that as long as he's there, and doing all the work financially, he doesn't need emotional support - plus it's not his nature. I told my close relative that (i did their charts together) and looking at the moon/sun/venus/mars and house placements....that his boyfriend would never be emotionally available for him. It's just how it is. he's just gonna have to deal and my relative said no...he can't deal. (my relative is very emotional and emotional support is huge with him) well just looking at chart alone i can tell... even if i'm amateur at it. plus he's been with this person for a couple years and he's exhibiting the lack of support.
anyway, our grandma is the same ....she won't eat much and she hates to be "helped"....a nurse tried to help her the other day and she got very very angry at her for helping....it's really getting bad. sigh. it's because she is feeling that she's losing control, and she no longer is able to live on her own like before, living in a cottage, her own house with her own things, she cleans and cooks on her own, shops, ect and now she cant do that.
his grandma tells us to leave when we're visiting. not mad really, but i think it's a pride thing. or just, like you said, being accustomed to self-sufficiency??_ or really missing it, not wanting loved one's to fuss or be burdened. i bet i'd be the same way. it's no wonder there's such a stigma with aging.click to expand
Posted by CreepyPantsPosted by lisabethur8
got cut off.. i'll copy and paste again.
that's sad about your bf's grandma but it sounds like you both are looking after her. and it sounds as if you're happier with this guy. loyalty is big, which he sounds like...but hopefully he is also emotionally available to you. I was just talking to one of my close relatives on the phone tonight after making dinner and cleaning up, and he was complaining to me how his boyfriend is so emotionally unavailable, just doesn't want to express or show emotional support. His boyfriend is saying to him that as long as he's there, and doing all the work financially, he doesn't need emotional support - plus it's not his nature. I told my close relative that (i did their charts together) and looking at the moon/sun/venus/mars and house placements....that his boyfriend would never be emotionally available for him. It's just how it is. he's just gonna have to deal and my relative said no...he can't deal. (my relative is very emotional and emotional support is huge with him) well just looking at chart alone i can tell... even if i'm amateur at it. plus he's been with this person for a couple years and he's exhibiting the lack of support.
anyway, our grandma is the same ....she won't eat much and she hates to be "helped"....a nurse tried to help her the other day and she got very very angry at her for helping....it's really getting bad. sigh. it's because she is feeling that she's losing control, and she no longer is able to live on her own like before, living in a cottage, her own house with her own things, she cleans and cooks on her own, shops, ect and now she cant do that.
his grandma tells us to leave when we're visiting. not mad really, but i think it's a pride thing. or just, like you said, being accustomed to self-sufficiency??_ or really missing it, not wanting loved one's to fuss or be burdened. i bet i'd be the same way. it's no wonder there's such a stigma with aging.click to expand




Posted by Levitating
Creepy! You beauty, you. How are you? Well, I hope. xoxo


Posted by CreepyPants
why is it that maaany times when a member posts anything about their personal life, there is a loud amount of irrelevant scrutiny?
power to freedom of expression, but it's almost always thick assumptions based on a few words and likely very personal exp projected onto others.
one of the biggest buzz kills of the internet in general.






Posted by lisabethur8Posted by CreepyPants
why is it that maaany times when a member posts anything about their personal life, there is a loud amount of irrelevant scrutiny?
power to freedom of expression, but it's almost always thick assumptions based on a few words and likely very personal exp projected onto others.
one of the biggest buzz kills of the internet in general.
well that is how it is.
I'm glad to hear about your life in the mountains.
we're getting ready to go to the beach house this weekend. we're also invited to go to the movies too, so we'll see about that and when. Probably friday. There's a new film which has Matthew McConnaughy in it. It sounds great!!click to expand
Posted by CreepyPantsPosted by lisabethur8Posted by CreepyPants
why is it that maaany times when a member posts anything about their personal life, there is a loud amount of irrelevant scrutiny?
power to freedom of expression, but it's almost always thick assumptions based on a few words and likely very personal exp projected onto others.
one of the biggest buzz kills of the internet in general.
well that is how it is.
I'm glad to hear about your life in the mountains.
we're getting ready to go to the beach house this weekend. we're also invited to go to the movies too, so we'll see about that and when. Probably friday. There's a new film which has Matthew McConnaughy in it. It sounds great!!
regarding the scrutiny thing??_ it really is. people are passionate about whatever ideas they are passionate about. i'm no exception i guess.
beach house sounds awesome. i miss a good beach vacay. And that McConnaughy movie looks pretty good??_ the one in space right? I'm amped to go see Mockingjay this weekend. That last release got me hooked. I thought the first movie was kinda weird and depressing. But revolution stories are really interesting right now. Plus, seems the whole world has a crush on Jennifer Lawrence.click to expand
Posted by Chance15
hai creepy 😉
a little something for lisabeth lol:
Pisces Chris and Leo Jennifer are an odd couple, but they both do have one thing on their side: they both have a fantastical view of life, and they live for romance. Luckily Chris has a Leo Moon, which is just what he'll need to keep up with his Fire sign lady. Besides her Sun, Jennifer also has Venus in Leo. Age will definitely play a role in this relationship, as Jennifer's Aquarius Rising and Gemini Moon will make her boundless curiosity something Chris will be challenged to keep up with. Although his Mars is in Aquarius and Venus in Aries, his Virgo Rising will potentially raise issues, as he's more traditional and serious in matters of the heart. But all in all, this relationship will have its own natural cycle, with Jennifer and Chris both feeling like they're getting something positive and nourishing out of it.
She has an aquarius rising..no wonder she's so cool 🙂
ening people of cap forum.
Hubby got a birthday cake at work and gift certificate. Unfortunately, the economy sucks so the amount is much lower than usual. Well, better than nothing. 🙂
we had a very lovely relaxing birthday evening.
Posted by Chance15Posted by caliber
unrelated thought.. i've never been the type to learn through lecture. always needed to experience and feel to actually understand. it's only recently, i'm finally understanding that you truly do receive what you put out in the universe tenfold. funny, the way that works. ahh, the lessons karma can teach. i had to explain that to my brother last night, who is currently on the verge of making a very poor decision.
on to more positive things. life is too short to be anything less than humble, forthcoming and true to myself.
I notice this all the time. The people that are generous are much happier than those that are miserly. It fosters an atmosphere that's beneficial to everyone. If I have something of value, I generally give it away to someone that needs it rather than selling it. You're right, it does come back to you exponentially. I can't solely attribute it to the Cap propensity for being in the right place at the right time (although that is a skill as well).
Also agree that life is short. The #1 regret that people have when they're old is not what they did, but what they didn't do.click to expand
i do this all the time. When my husband wanted to throw away the old appliances (still working), and bed frames (still good) that were given to him by his grandparents, i balked and fretted that someone could use it. So we gave it to some immigrants who were in need of them. My husband just wants it the fuck out. He is a generous man, but has no time or patience for it. So i make time for him.
Posted by caprigoral
For the past two days I've been so excited about a new toilet seat. We're going out with the boys, during the day, tomorrow. It'll be good for me. It's past midnight here. The rest/most rest of you; have a nice evening!🙂
Posted by Chance15
"He actually taught me how to be fair and to stand up for myself," she reveals. "It's my biggest weakness: negotiating. I'm a wimp about standing up for myself and Liam is always fair. He's always on time, he's always doing his job, and he's good about making sure that things stay fair. He's teaching me to toughen up a little bit. That was important, I need that."
^This is right in my wheelhouse* : )


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It's been going pretty well so far.