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more cosmic hugs and strength to your fam comin' your way, lisa.
from my deck this morning...
??_adorable little freeloading hams.
??_adorable little freeloading hams.
thanks, Creepy.
those photos look beautiful. My mother in law who is a cap with aqua venus LOVES birds very much. She is part of a bird watcher club in the past.
those photos look beautiful. My mother in law who is a cap with aqua venus LOVES birds very much. She is part of a bird watcher club in the past.
is that your deck really? What a beautiful view.
is that where you live now with your gemini/cap moon boyfriend?
it sure looks better than Las Vegas (in city)
is that where you live now with your gemini/cap moon boyfriend?
it sure looks better than Las Vegas (in city)
lisa, yea that's our deck. the place is a rental, and oh so magical. hopefully the owner decides to sell one day. and yea??_ waaaay better than vegas. almost all of vegas, outside of the strip is pretty run down.
that's awesome that your m-i-l is/was into birds. ornithology seems like a fun hobby. one of my favorite things about it is that it gets you outside and tuned in to mother nature. i may just stick with chickadee-ology though. 😛 little buggers weigh half an ounce yet are legends in their own minds.
caprigoral, rain photos could make for some nice black and whites perhaps! photography is a lot of fun. i'm a complete amateur myself.
and xy, shameful as it is to say??_ they are just humble cell phone photos. definitely some filters on them! but muddled down a lot. you lose too much detail with filters at full power, imo.
that's awesome that your m-i-l is/was into birds. ornithology seems like a fun hobby. one of my favorite things about it is that it gets you outside and tuned in to mother nature. i may just stick with chickadee-ology though. 😛 little buggers weigh half an ounce yet are legends in their own minds.
caprigoral, rain photos could make for some nice black and whites perhaps! photography is a lot of fun. i'm a complete amateur myself.
and xy, shameful as it is to say??_ they are just humble cell phone photos. definitely some filters on them! but muddled down a lot. you lose too much detail with filters at full power, imo.
I love those pics!!
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lisa, yea that's our deck. the place is a rental, and oh so magical. hopefully the owner decides to sell one day. and yea??_ waaaay better than vegas. almost all of vegas, outside of the strip is pretty run down.
that's awesome that your m-i-l is/was into birds. ornithology seems like a fun hobby. one of my favorite things about it is that it gets you outside and tuned in to mother nature. i may just stick with chickadee-ology though. 😛 little buggers weigh half an ounce yet are legends in their own minds.
caprigoral, rain photos could make for some nice black and whites perhaps! photography is a lot of fun. i'm a complete amateur myself.
and xy, shameful as it is to say??_ they are just humble cell phone photos. definitely some filters on them! but muddled down a lot. you lose too much detail with filters at full power, imo.
yup, my mother in law is a connisseur on birds. She's amazing with knowledge on the bird variety!!
We watched that film together, "The big Year." And we joked that this year is her BIG YEAR! because she went to Canada (where she saw alot of unusual birds) and also when she went to Burma, but Canada is big with birds. Some countries don't have as many birds due to the environment.
what's with the naming of some birds??_
Hairy Woodpeckers
Great Tits
and??_
yup
??_Boobies
no joke. these are real names.
??_of birds
the ones that fly
Hairy Woodpeckers
Great Tits
and??_
yup
??_Boobies
no joke. these are real names.
??_of birds
the ones that fly
i was just cuddling with hubby and thinking, (since i was writing and reading on the topic of abusive men on the Ray Rice thread, discussing Mel Gibson, Alec Baldwin ect) and i thought, gosh, those types of men, if you say anything WRONG, just once, even if you just said anything out of the blue. It's BAM, backhand!!! or punch.
I remember how it was with my abusive ex. Maybe it was me saying something. I never rush at him the way some women seem to do so, like when i read Rihanna grabbed the phone from Chris Brown and kept bugging him. Did she know deeply he as an abusive man? You just KNOW deeply what type of man he is, it is instinctual and it is just, you know not only intuitively but psychically you just know. What type he is. And sometimes, you IGNORE the signs before, or that you are DELUSIONED. like how Oskana Griegorina is deluded at times. You believe it will work. But it doesn't.
And how earlier i was discussing how my interaction with my husband, I can switch the songs and he will turn it down and we would go back and forth back and forth and we will both LAUGH it off, calling eachother names at times, but for fun but deeply we love eachother. We would NEVER hurt eachother.
And there's those types of men, you feel FEEL the FEAR!! the fear that he will backhand you. So you don't do anything at all, you shrink away. Because you'll get a bloody lip, or a bruised face.
but it's so liberating when you find love and find someone who you will just have fun and make fun of eachother and know deeply you care about eachother and love eachother.
that is truly a GIFT.
i hope that people will find love and that they won't hurt eachother.
I remember how it was with my abusive ex. Maybe it was me saying something. I never rush at him the way some women seem to do so, like when i read Rihanna grabbed the phone from Chris Brown and kept bugging him. Did she know deeply he as an abusive man? You just KNOW deeply what type of man he is, it is instinctual and it is just, you know not only intuitively but psychically you just know. What type he is. And sometimes, you IGNORE the signs before, or that you are DELUSIONED. like how Oskana Griegorina is deluded at times. You believe it will work. But it doesn't.
And how earlier i was discussing how my interaction with my husband, I can switch the songs and he will turn it down and we would go back and forth back and forth and we will both LAUGH it off, calling eachother names at times, but for fun but deeply we love eachother. We would NEVER hurt eachother.
And there's those types of men, you feel FEEL the FEAR!! the fear that he will backhand you. So you don't do anything at all, you shrink away. Because you'll get a bloody lip, or a bruised face.
but it's so liberating when you find love and find someone who you will just have fun and make fun of eachother and know deeply you care about eachother and love eachother.
that is truly a GIFT.
i hope that people will find love and that they won't hurt eachother.
cap season coming up. end of 31 and start of 32. seems old and young at the same time.
related thought??_ the us desperately needs a new perspective on aging. or those who are aging need a new perspective on it.
related thought??_ the us desperately needs a new perspective on aging. or those who are aging need a new perspective on it.
My Fish had not really seen the animal rescue/advocate side of me. I was fighting on FB practically all day defending people who look out for the animals (w/ idiots who say they are for the animals yet do nothing but talk trash on people who REALLY do do for the animals). He kept telling me to "go get 'em" as I was all serious and a bit flustered by the idiocy and ranting to him about it. Then a dog went missing in my area, a dog I took in about a month ago whom I successfully reunited with her owners, so out I go about 10pm to try and find her and alert them (they weren't home). My Fish was real supportive, told me to go do what I do best 🙂 Went as far as telling me if he ever wins the lotto he'll give me money to start my own shelter, not that I'll hold him to it, but I appreciate the sentiment. (the support is a nice change, he probably still thinks I'm a little - or maybe even a lot - crazy though LOL)
Hook, line and sinker!
I'm the most amazing woman with a big heart and am irreplaceable...
Today marks 2 months since our first (and only) date
So much for his Cap Moon dragging its feet
I'm happy 🙂
I'm the most amazing woman with a big heart and am irreplaceable...
Today marks 2 months since our first (and only) date
So much for his Cap Moon dragging its feet
I'm happy 🙂
the regular neighborhood feathery friends:
Brown Creeper
White-Breasted Nuthatch
Pygmy Nuthatch
Mountain Chickadee
Downy Woodpecker
the newbies i've attracted to the yard:
Canyon Wren
Black-Capped Chickadee
Dark-Eyed Junco
American Robin
Cassin's Finch
Black-Billed Magpie
used to be that you could only hear the highway that's a couple blocks away. keeping the windows open sounds nice now. real nice.
Brown Creeper
White-Breasted Nuthatch
Pygmy Nuthatch
Mountain Chickadee
Downy Woodpecker
the newbies i've attracted to the yard:
Canyon Wren
Black-Capped Chickadee
Dark-Eyed Junco
American Robin
Cassin's Finch
Black-Billed Magpie
used to be that you could only hear the highway that's a couple blocks away. keeping the windows open sounds nice now. real nice.
Just a little vent here. Boss (Taurus) is pushing all of us to work overtime. It's optional. I am my first week back from surgery, so I opt not to because I can't physically do it. My vent is, how is it okay to push your employees for overtime when you as a boss leave at 3 one day during the week and at noon on Friday? WTH!! It's like she wants us to be committed to the boost the production goals when she is not. As a capricorn, this type of boss behavior is unacceptable to me. She should be in the trenches with us helping toward the goal. How can she expect us to have a happy morale and be dedicated when she pulls crap like this?
Just for the record, when I was a boss in the past at another company, I worked longer hours than my employees and I was in the trenches doing whatever I could to keep production on time and to help ease their workload whenever it got heavy. Perhaps I'm a little judgemental because I've been in her shoes. — But, I can't help that it bugs me.
Okay, vent over. It's Friday afternoon. Yay!!!
Just for the record, when I was a boss in the past at another company, I worked longer hours than my employees and I was in the trenches doing whatever I could to keep production on time and to help ease their workload whenever it got heavy. Perhaps I'm a little judgemental because I've been in her shoes. — But, I can't help that it bugs me.
Okay, vent over. It's Friday afternoon. Yay!!!
i hate that too true cap. i've managed and been managed??_ it was the bosses who worked hard for me that i worked well for in return. plus??_ hard to wanna do something for someone who doesn't do it themselves. it's an archaic way of establishing hierarchy. not that i need someone to show me how to do my job, not that i wouldn't do a good job for my own sake, and not that they haven't earned their position's perks through their own skill and effort, but a real leader can't think themselves above getting their hands dirty in the tasks they're assigning. my mars aqua would say, "sweet, now i have a great excuse to rebel"
seems like day 1 stuff to me but not everyone knows how to wield power like a cap.
tgiff 😛
seems like day 1 stuff to me but not everyone knows how to wield power like a cap.
tgiff 😛
Exactly creepypants!!! Thanks for the validation. By the way, I have mars in aquarius too and I'm rebelling. My cap side says no, but that strong aqua mars yes!
Posted by CreepyPants
the regular neighborhood feathery friends:
Brown Creeper
White-Breasted Nuthatch
Pygmy Nuthatch
Mountain Chickadee
Downy Woodpecker
the newbies i've attracted to the yard:
Canyon Wren
Black-Capped Chickadee
Dark-Eyed Junco
American Robin
Cassin's Finch
Black-Billed Magpie
used to be that you could only hear the highway that's a couple blocks away. keeping the windows open sounds nice now. real nice.
you're sounding like my mother in law!! 😄
she knows every bird type out there. She has had her BIG YEAR (bird speak for the bird watchers) this year after going to Canada.
I bet living in the mountains is awesome!!! all those birds. You can take a picture of all of them too. That's what mother in law does, she has bought a very very expensive camera for her bird watching hobbies.
Fishy a little possessive... some guy kept looking at me at the bar last night, my yummy little Fishy noticed and made sure the guy noticed I was taken as well.
Long ass thread. Longest thread I've ever seen. 4500 replies. (whistle)
a little pissed i wasn't nominated for best avi, goddamnit??_ chickadees are 100 amazeballs on a scale of 1-10.
i mean come on now...
i mean come on now...
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by CreepyPants
the regular neighborhood feathery friends:
Brown Creeper
White-Breasted Nuthatch
Pygmy Nuthatch
Mountain Chickadee
Downy Woodpecker
the newbies i've attracted to the yard:
Canyon Wren
Black-Capped Chickadee
Dark-Eyed Junco
American Robin
Cassin's Finch
Black-Billed Magpie
used to be that you could only hear the highway that's a couple blocks away. keeping the windows open sounds nice now. real nice.
you're sounding like my mother in law!! 😄
she knows every bird type out there. She has had her BIG YEAR (bird speak for the bird watchers) this year after going to Canada.
I bet living in the mountains is awesome!!! all those birds. You can take a picture of all of them too. That's what mother in law does, she has bought a very very expensive camera for her bird watching hobbies.click to expand
😛 i fully accept and admit my new nerdy hobby now. i resisted at first but who am i kidding??_ our house is slowly turning into a certifiable bird sanctuary. hope our landlord doesn't mind. lol. i actually do want to get a nicer camera for pics. *shakes head at self*
and congrats to your m-i-l. i've gathered that bird watching is a hobby the "birders" take seriously and passionately. it's making sense to me??_ there are so many different kinds. many of them really colorful, vibrant and rare, or with beautiful songs. some people like watching fish in a tank??_ others like watching birds flit about.
neither of these are my pics, but i saw this Northern Flicker yesterday, foraging in our yard??_
and i didn't really appreciate it's plumage until it took off??_
just amazing. it's a different kind of wild than the urban jungle that i'm used to.
you should go watch the film, just one night sit with your boyfriend and enjoy the Big Year:
My sweetheart of a daughter bought me a phone and put me on her plan to save me money 🙂
life seems to be really peaceful for you as of late, lildol??_ makes me smile 🙂
caprigoral, i get sentimental about gifts and cried over a lost gift too. it's not the material thing??_ it's the connection to your loved one. it can be replaced and you can't break your hubby. least i hope not 😄
caprigoral, i get sentimental about gifts and cried over a lost gift too. it's not the material thing??_ it's the connection to your loved one. it can be replaced and you can't break your hubby. least i hope not 😄
Thanks Creepy! Life is going smoothly. My kids have stepped it up a bit and my Fish stays pretty much in line LOL Now, if only I had a job :/ (then again, that would take time away from my granddaughter - there is an upside to everything!)
Keep posting pics of the birds... love them! My last place backed up to a park and I was an avid bird watcher - had identified over 25 species that regularly visited the yard. My fav is the Nuthatch!
Keep posting pics of the birds... love them! My last place backed up to a park and I was an avid bird watcher - had identified over 25 species that regularly visited the yard. My fav is the Nuthatch!
Why do things have to be so difficult? Confusing? Weird?
Tuesday made a month since I've seen or heard from the Taurus. I never bothered getting another phone after my last broke, so not hearing from him was no biggie, but I would still see him once a week. That stopped. I contacted him last week asking if he found a girlfriend, and he said no...he's just been busy working 7days per week(peak season), plus he was having issues with his car. "Somewhat" understandable, I guess, but I was still growing tired.
When Tuesday rolled around, although it had been a month, I still had hope that he'd stop by. After a little time passed, I said a prayer to GOD asking for a sign to just.move.on. My thing was, if he didn't show THAT day, then that was my sign to end our "situation"....he is simply not the one for me. He never showed. Tuesday, and yesterday, I tried my best to erase him from my memory, and I actually felt okay with the thought of moving forward with my life. Today...a different story. I woke up a little tense, for some strange reason, but I started working on something and the feelings started to fade. Then, all of a sudden I heard a low knock on the door...it was him.
I was excited to see him of course, but I tried to give him a little hug and keep a little distance, BUT by the end of the visit I felt I was putty in his hands, as usual. Then, he said he'll probably stop by tomorrow.*sigh*
My thing is...WHY?? It's like a cruel joke from the universe, or maybe it's a test of my strength?...or a continuous exposure of my many weaknesses. I do feel I need to stick with my plans of moving on, since I was so adamant about him showing THAT day, but then it's like, why am I being thrown this curveball? As I was praying for a sign, I did feel a little unreasonable, but I still felt that I would get what I asked for. Now I don't know what to think or feel. It would have at-least been easier on me if he showed next week, but two days later smh. I'm going to try my best to stick with moving on. We'll see..
Tuesday made a month since I've seen or heard from the Taurus. I never bothered getting another phone after my last broke, so not hearing from him was no biggie, but I would still see him once a week. That stopped. I contacted him last week asking if he found a girlfriend, and he said no...he's just been busy working 7days per week(peak season), plus he was having issues with his car. "Somewhat" understandable, I guess, but I was still growing tired.
When Tuesday rolled around, although it had been a month, I still had hope that he'd stop by. After a little time passed, I said a prayer to GOD asking for a sign to just.move.on. My thing was, if he didn't show THAT day, then that was my sign to end our "situation"....he is simply not the one for me. He never showed. Tuesday, and yesterday, I tried my best to erase him from my memory, and I actually felt okay with the thought of moving forward with my life. Today...a different story. I woke up a little tense, for some strange reason, but I started working on something and the feelings started to fade. Then, all of a sudden I heard a low knock on the door...it was him.
I was excited to see him of course, but I tried to give him a little hug and keep a little distance, BUT by the end of the visit I felt I was putty in his hands, as usual. Then, he said he'll probably stop by tomorrow.*sigh*
My thing is...WHY?? It's like a cruel joke from the universe, or maybe it's a test of my strength?...or a continuous exposure of my many weaknesses. I do feel I need to stick with my plans of moving on, since I was so adamant about him showing THAT day, but then it's like, why am I being thrown this curveball? As I was praying for a sign, I did feel a little unreasonable, but I still felt that I would get what I asked for. Now I don't know what to think or feel. It would have at-least been easier on me if he showed next week, but two days later smh. I'm going to try my best to stick with moving on. We'll see..
that's good stuff. may the positive 'tude bring employment right to you.
brace yourself for the deluge of pics. lol whenever i take these pics, i think to myself 'this must be what it feels like to be a new parent' *snap snap snap snap snap??_*
here's a white-breasted nuthatch for ya...
and a lil pygmy nuthatch at my makeshift birdbath??_
still using my cell phone cam. the nuthatches are a little shy so i can't get that close for good pics without a better camera. the chickadees are brazen and curious. they'll come right up to me. you could prob FaceTime with them. lol
brace yourself for the deluge of pics. lol whenever i take these pics, i think to myself 'this must be what it feels like to be a new parent' *snap snap snap snap snap??_*
here's a white-breasted nuthatch for ya...
and a lil pygmy nuthatch at my makeshift birdbath??_
still using my cell phone cam. the nuthatches are a little shy so i can't get that close for good pics without a better camera. the chickadees are brazen and curious. they'll come right up to me. you could prob FaceTime with them. lol
those are nice photos, creepy.
it's very inspiring.
me and mother in law are sick with cold, so we're just keeping on the downlow (energy wise)
it's winter and everything is so damned DARK.
I remember walking through some city streets years ago, it was in a neighborhood city where it's not really heavy populated, kind of like a small town in Austria or something. And everything was so dark, no lights, no lamps nothing. Ugh. I hated it.
no wonder inspiration to write and make movies of vampires take place in dark european cities, like Romania or something.
it's very inspiring.
me and mother in law are sick with cold, so we're just keeping on the downlow (energy wise)
it's winter and everything is so damned DARK.
I remember walking through some city streets years ago, it was in a neighborhood city where it's not really heavy populated, kind of like a small town in Austria or something. And everything was so dark, no lights, no lamps nothing. Ugh. I hated it.
no wonder inspiration to write and make movies of vampires take place in dark european cities, like Romania or something.
and i was walking in those streets because i had to BUY a new laptop. and it was a cheap one so i went there to that neighborhood. I'll never go to creepy places just to buy a cheap laptop. I told my husband and he said, im crazy. *smh* He is always calling me crazy for all the crazy things i do.
Just like when I keep things for him in HIDING, and so that it's kept in a safe place, and when we need it i can't find it anymore. I hide it soooo well it's gone!! i hate that. and when i tell him i'm gonna keep this in a safe hiding, he says, UH OH. Noooooo. we'll NEVER see it again. double ugh.
Just like when I keep things for him in HIDING, and so that it's kept in a safe place, and when we need it i can't find it anymore. I hide it soooo well it's gone!! i hate that. and when i tell him i'm gonna keep this in a safe hiding, he says, UH OH. Noooooo. we'll NEVER see it again. double ugh.
Soooo, this bar I go to on occasion, not only are both bar tenders Caps but so is the manager and owner - no wonder I get along with them all 🙂
Ugh... we need to talk.
My grandmother sent me the most beautiful birthday card...WITH money in it lol.
I sent her something for Christmas, nothing big because I'm broke, but a little something. I've been wanting to hand-make her something for years now, but I never get around to it. I think I might try to knit an afghan for her, and have it ready by March or so. She gets theeee most gifts in the world around Christmas and her bday(Jan 1st)....so I don't think there's no impressing her with gifts, so I think she'll appreciate something made and unexpected. I'm such a perfectionist though...I think that's why I never start her a project BUT I'm going to do it. I'll just keep referencing back to this post as a reminder to get started lol.
I sent her something for Christmas, nothing big because I'm broke, but a little something. I've been wanting to hand-make her something for years now, but I never get around to it. I think I might try to knit an afghan for her, and have it ready by March or so. She gets theeee most gifts in the world around Christmas and her bday(Jan 1st)....so I don't think there's no impressing her with gifts, so I think she'll appreciate something made and unexpected. I'm such a perfectionist though...I think that's why I never start her a project BUT I'm going to do it. I'll just keep referencing back to this post as a reminder to get started lol.
aw, that's so sweet, inana.
I miss my cappy grandma. She used to send me private /personal stuff. miss her alot.
i just wanna huggle my grandma and kiss her on the cheek and tell her i miss her lots and love her!! she is just so awesome. tears swell up.
we all have colds around here. to some varying degree. my husband is better off than i am.
my mother in law is better, but she was sick for a long time, just a nagging cold that won't let go.
our son has a cold too, but it's not that bad, jsut sniffles, so lots of sleep and liquids is needed.
mother in law's brothers and sister's are also a bit sick too; it's all the COLD. and also going to grandma's everyday, and most of them stay all day and all night/sleep over, buy groceries there, and just overall stressful for them too. they all take turns so it helps, but it is very stressful. all the children have colds, even my husband's best friend came over yesterday and his boy is also sick.
i noticed that in the sky, it's 5 or 6 stellium capricorn!!! wow. that's amazing. with aquarius mars, and depending on the moon day, that's a powerful stellium.
I miss my cappy grandma. She used to send me private /personal stuff. miss her alot.
i just wanna huggle my grandma and kiss her on the cheek and tell her i miss her lots and love her!! she is just so awesome. tears swell up.
we all have colds around here. to some varying degree. my husband is better off than i am.
my mother in law is better, but she was sick for a long time, just a nagging cold that won't let go.
our son has a cold too, but it's not that bad, jsut sniffles, so lots of sleep and liquids is needed.
mother in law's brothers and sister's are also a bit sick too; it's all the COLD. and also going to grandma's everyday, and most of them stay all day and all night/sleep over, buy groceries there, and just overall stressful for them too. they all take turns so it helps, but it is very stressful. all the children have colds, even my husband's best friend came over yesterday and his boy is also sick.
i noticed that in the sky, it's 5 or 6 stellium capricorn!!! wow. that's amazing. with aquarius mars, and depending on the moon day, that's a powerful stellium.
i'd also like to commemorate (R.I.P) Peter Steele (A Capricorn Sun/Scorpio Rising/Sagittarius moon) PlayGirl once, and he freaked out that only less than 25% were female readers. He said he's fine with it, he just THOUGHT that playgirl magazine was for WOMEN. 😛 Well It IS. but well, it isn't. hehehehehe so funny. loved reading that.
R.I.P
he's a 6'6 guy too.
R.I.P
he's a 6'6 guy too.
oh weird. the messages broke off since i used some dashes and arrows.
but Steele was in Playgirl magazine and thought that women read it, but didn't know only 23% were on the average.
my hubbykins reccs Bloody kisses, it's a sad one:
but Steele was in Playgirl magazine and thought that women read it, but didn't know only 23% were on the average.
my hubbykins reccs Bloody kisses, it's a sad one:
sooooo different from Offsprings Capricorn lead singer, Dexter Holland. 😛
I'm not sure if I'm doing this right, butttttt...
I guess my thought of late, that I can't share out loud to anyone because it's just too soon in general, is I think I've realized I want to marry him.
And I've never wanted to marry anyone. I didn't even think I really believed in marriage for myself.
He's away and out of reach (overseas for the next couple weeks), so the space to evaluate has made me realize a lot. And yeah. I think he's definitely the one.
Hope this isn't weird to throw into this thread.... 😉
Happy birthday cappies. It's our season...
I guess my thought of late, that I can't share out loud to anyone because it's just too soon in general, is I think I've realized I want to marry him.
And I've never wanted to marry anyone. I didn't even think I really believed in marriage for myself.
He's away and out of reach (overseas for the next couple weeks), so the space to evaluate has made me realize a lot. And yeah. I think he's definitely the one.
Hope this isn't weird to throw into this thread.... 😉
Happy birthday cappies. It's our season...
today has been an extraordinarily odd day for communication.
number one??_ unknown phone number belonging to a woman calling me asking how i know her husband and wanted to know why he's calling me. LOL. Firstly, I've had no other unrecognized number call me, nor have I been talking to her husband, whom I later found out is a good friend and neighbor of my sister's. I have in fact met him twice, but never said more than a few sentences to him and definitely didn't give him my number. My boyfriend and I had a good laugh over it. This strange lady and I had an entire text conversation. I wouldn't have given her the time of day if her husband wasn't a good friend of my sister's and brother-in-law's. Poor guy. Still a little miffed about the interrogation i just endured. my sis and bil are out of the country right now??_ i'm dying to get the scoop, or at least have a good laugh??_ again??_ over it.
number two??_ somehow was coerced into texting my ex to invite him to our groups annual snowboarding trip. i did in fact want to contact him so we could bury the past. at least that was my hopes. my bf said i should probably do it in person. an in person opportunity could be several months away, maybe. not that i'm really sweating it. i just still feel guilty over our last interaction when i totally snubbed him. accidental douche move, if that makes any sense. lol
number one??_ unknown phone number belonging to a woman calling me asking how i know her husband and wanted to know why he's calling me. LOL. Firstly, I've had no other unrecognized number call me, nor have I been talking to her husband, whom I later found out is a good friend and neighbor of my sister's. I have in fact met him twice, but never said more than a few sentences to him and definitely didn't give him my number. My boyfriend and I had a good laugh over it. This strange lady and I had an entire text conversation. I wouldn't have given her the time of day if her husband wasn't a good friend of my sister's and brother-in-law's. Poor guy. Still a little miffed about the interrogation i just endured. my sis and bil are out of the country right now??_ i'm dying to get the scoop, or at least have a good laugh??_ again??_ over it.
number two??_ somehow was coerced into texting my ex to invite him to our groups annual snowboarding trip. i did in fact want to contact him so we could bury the past. at least that was my hopes. my bf said i should probably do it in person. an in person opportunity could be several months away, maybe. not that i'm really sweating it. i just still feel guilty over our last interaction when i totally snubbed him. accidental douche move, if that makes any sense. lol
Posted by CreepyPants
today has been an extraordinarily odd day for communication.
number one??_ unknown phone number belonging to a woman calling me asking how i know her husband and wanted to know why he's calling me. LOL. Firstly, I've had no other unrecognized number call me, nor have I been talking to her husband, whom I later found out is a good friend and neighbor of my sister's. I have in fact met him twice, but never said more than a few sentences to him and definitely didn't give him my number. My boyfriend and I had a good laugh over it. This strange lady and I had an entire text conversation. I wouldn't have given her the time of day if her husband wasn't a good friend of my sister's and brother-in-law's. Poor guy. Still a little miffed about the interrogation i just endured. my sis and bil are out of the country right now??_ i'm dying to get the scoop, or at least have a good laugh??_ again??_ over it.
number two??_ somehow was coerced into texting my ex to invite him to our groups annual snowboarding trip. i did in fact want to contact him so we could bury the past. at least that was my hopes. my bf said i should probably do it in person. an in person opportunity could be several months away, maybe. not that i'm really sweating it. i just still feel guilty over our last interaction when i totally snubbed him. accidental douche move, if that makes any sense. lol
your current boyfriend that you've been with awhile is so very open and kind. I hope his heart doesn't get stepped on. I feel you still have unresolved feelings for your ex while being with your current love.
just something i notice. Can't help it. You put it out there, so i couldn't help.
would it hurt your feelings if you saw your ex with a new woman??
anyway, it's interesting about the news. I saw that Justin bieber got a new jet plane. Talk about the rich and famous. however i saw too that it was a hoax. but who knows.
Posted by capshoot
I'm not sure if I'm doing this right, butttttt...
I guess my thought of late, that I can't share out loud to anyone because it's just too soon in general, is I think I've realized I want to marry him.
And I've never wanted to marry anyone. I didn't even think I really believed in marriage for myself.
He's away and out of reach (overseas for the next couple weeks), so the space to evaluate has made me realize a lot. And yeah. I think he's definitely the one.
Hope this isn't weird to throw into this thread.... 😉
Happy birthday cappies. It's our season...
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. 🙂
Posted by lisabethur8
your current boyfriend that you've been with awhile is so very open and kind. I hope his heart doesn't get stepped on. I feel you still have unresolved feelings for your ex while being with your current love.
just something i notice. Can't help it. You put it out there, so i couldn't help.
would it hurt your feelings if you saw your ex with a new woman??
understandable. i posted a lot about my ex when he and i were together and on our way out. i know i don't post as much about me and my bf now. that's completely intentional and perhaps it seems backasswards, but at this point in my life??_ happiness doesn't need to praise itself the way it used to. i'll give what i hope is a thorough disclosure??_ maybe it seems like my ex is on my mind more often than my posting about him implicates, but not at all. i realize, in fact??_ and i shared this with Mr. Gem, that i can't remember any loving feelings towards/from my ex. any other prior bf??_ i can look back fondly on, but it's more difficult with my recent ex. i can't barely remember love, let alone harbor remnants of love. honestly??_ it's sad. not to say there wasn't at one point and that i can't if i tried, but too many bad memories have pushed it all out and sit in the forefront when i look back on that time of my life. the end of our relationship was ugly. if you ever read what astrology says about scorp and cap splitting up??_ well it was the damn truth in our case. if there are any feelings remaining, it's more regret for having dealt with the relationship, or handling it wrong, or tolerating so much, but surprisingly no resentment. and i can't completely regret my ex. if it weren't for the relationship with my ex, i would have never??_ NEVER??_ met my bf now.
and i hear my ex does have a new lady, but unless he's changed somehow??_ then i feel for her. hopefully they're just better suited for each other. could i stand seeing them together? i've seen him with other women before. it doesn't phase me. not in a denial way??_. but in a i-had-that-guy-pegged-all-wrong-when-i-was-with-him-thank-god-i've-moved-on way. even if i were single, maaaaybe there'd be a competitive part of me that would feel a little defeated, but that's not a mature emotion??_ definitely temporary.
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i love my bf more than i thought possible. he makes me happier than i thought was ever meant for me. i hope to marry him and have a family with him. all that said??_ there's just no room for anyone else.
as for my bf's feelings??_ sharing any of this with him is done out of respect. he's done the same for me. he has an ex that was at one point his best friend. they were still somewhat working with each other up until she moved a few months ago. everyone in his life knows her well. she definitely still had feelings for him. everyone knew it. some of the things she's done to stay close to him since he and i have been together, in my opinion, were invasive and subtly meddlesome, but i didn't really worry about it. i know my bf and i know his feelings towards her. if i don't know his feelings for me by now, then i'm a damn idiot. likewise, he knows every thought i've had about my ex since he and i started dating over a year ago. my bf and i are really open with each other and at the same time??_ very protective of one another's feelings. you've gotta have nothing to hide, lots of trust, loyalty and love to accomplish that. so unless i've got something really wrong between he and i??_ there aren't any trampled feelings.
as for my bf's feelings??_ sharing any of this with him is done out of respect. he's done the same for me. he has an ex that was at one point his best friend. they were still somewhat working with each other up until she moved a few months ago. everyone in his life knows her well. she definitely still had feelings for him. everyone knew it. some of the things she's done to stay close to him since he and i have been together, in my opinion, were invasive and subtly meddlesome, but i didn't really worry about it. i know my bf and i know his feelings towards her. if i don't know his feelings for me by now, then i'm a damn idiot. likewise, he knows every thought i've had about my ex since he and i started dating over a year ago. my bf and i are really open with each other and at the same time??_ very protective of one another's feelings. you've gotta have nothing to hide, lots of trust, loyalty and love to accomplish that. so unless i've got something really wrong between he and i??_ there aren't any trampled feelings.
Took this one yesterday. One of my lil mountain chickadees perched on our deck on a late frosty morning. We had thick fog a couple nights ago and when the temp dropped over night, it gave all the trees a glittery frost. Very cool. Phone pic... Hope you can make it out once I post!
??_my gem calls them triangle heads.
Posted by CreepyPants
i love my bf more than i thought possible. he makes me happier than i thought was ever meant for me. i hope to marry him and have a family with him. all that said??_ there's just no room for anyone else.
as for my bf's feelings??_ sharing any of this with him is done out of respect. he's done the same for me. he has an ex that was at one point his best friend. they were still somewhat working with each other up until she moved a few months ago. everyone in his life knows her well. she definitely still had feelings for him. everyone knew it. some of the things she's done to stay close to him since he and i have been together, in my opinion, were invasive and subtly meddlesome, but i didn't really worry about it. i know my bf and i know his feelings towards her. if i don't know his feelings for me by now, then i'm a damn idiot. likewise, he knows every thought i've had about my ex since he and i started dating over a year ago. my bf and i are really open with each other and at the same time??_ very protective of one another's feelings. you've gotta have nothing to hide, lots of trust, loyalty and love to accomplish that. so unless i've got something really wrong between he and i??_ there aren't any trampled feelings.
thanks, creepy. i wasn't really expecting a response but thanks anyway.
it's good you are doing very well and happy with your man. And i agree that perhaps, your ex has found someone more to his "niche", just as you are/have.
as for your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, wow. that must have been awful for you. I can only imagine. An ex who is "intrusive" because she had strong feelings for your boyfriend and can't let go.
Well if your bf is as good/great as he is, it's probably a big reason WHY she can't let go and be intrusive and nosey in your lives.
you know how it is. If the gal/guy who was an ex was awesome and even if he wasn't awesome, there's something about them that you don't want to "let go". So thank your Lucky stars he's a good one.
you presented a valid question that i'd always wondered if others were thinking and gave me a chance to clarify. so thank you. 🙂
and yea his ex was alright. there were a few times when i really wanted to make threads about what was going on in the 'love triangle.' just to vent, but it all knolled itself out. most of it was funny. some Facebook posts, and the reactions to them. 😛 and yes, you're right??_i can absolutely see why she couldn't let go for a while. i think if for some reason, he and i broke up??_ i'd give up on love. i'd be broken beyond repair. she's in a new relationship now, so kudos to her.
ahhhhh??_ exes. i have a gf who's bf has an ex that's about 20x worse. the things some men do is pretty funny, but god??_ some women! how can you NOT know you're making an ass of yourself?
and yea his ex was alright. there were a few times when i really wanted to make threads about what was going on in the 'love triangle.' just to vent, but it all knolled itself out. most of it was funny. some Facebook posts, and the reactions to them. 😛 and yes, you're right??_i can absolutely see why she couldn't let go for a while. i think if for some reason, he and i broke up??_ i'd give up on love. i'd be broken beyond repair. she's in a new relationship now, so kudos to her.
ahhhhh??_ exes. i have a gf who's bf has an ex that's about 20x worse. the things some men do is pretty funny, but god??_ some women! how can you NOT know you're making an ass of yourself?
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