@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts
I can't see the videos you posted because I'm not at home right now, but when he says "that's embarrasing" that's when I can see him fighting back his emotions about the situation. If he would have talked about it a little longer a tear probably would have fallen. I thought it was obvious, but I guess not. I just know how I get when I'm talking about something a bit painful and emotions that I don't want to show start to surface. That's when the fight inside began and I recognized it here in him.
I rexcognize this in my taurus friend too. He was a bit emotional this morning but it wasn't the right setting to give him a hug and try to force it out of him. I don't like to see people fighting back tears.
i dont belie in emotions, unless you have lost someone special. someone that really mean the world to you
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I'm going to use this guy for example..
I love me some Chad Ochocinco. Many may not know of him, but he's a professional football player who plays for the Cincinnati Bengals. He's been in the NFL for about 8-9yrs now and still he has no ring, despite being one of the most successful wide receivers the NFL have seen in a long time. Through his frustration, I'm assuming, he's acted out to get attention in other ways. Lately, it's been through the entertainment industry. He's had his own show, plus he's been on dancing with the stars. None of this has been extremely successful for him, but his name is pretty known for the most part, which I'm assuming is what he wants.
He loves challenges, as he's a comedian lol, and his latest challenge was to ride a bull and stay on it for 8 seconds. If he did, he would win money and a pick-up truck to donate to his charity. Well unfortunately, he barely lasted a second on the bull. Now, this was a few weeks ago. Everybody laughed about it and so did he, and I thought this was just one of his silly antics, but I was searching on youtube and ran across this video a few minutes ago of him speaking right after he fell off the bull..
Now why was he a bit emotional and nearly fighting back tears about this?!? Does anyone else see what I'm talking about? I know that a lot of what he does is for attention in some way because he had a rough childhood(his mother basically abandoned him), but I didn't realize that the success he's trying to achieve is for some type of validation. As successful as he's been in his career, despite not winning a ring, he still feels like a failure, which is apparent here, and I believe that's why he was on the verge of tears. This is all my opinion btw..
I want to meet him so I can give him a hug. I've always wanted to hug him. I think he's extremely funny, sweet, but extremely sensitive and emotional. In one interview he was furious that someone used the word emotional to describe him, but my question is why don't Caps want to accept this side of themselves? And do we, well they, use success as a way to validate themselves and their worth? Is it possible for a Capricorn to be happy and not successful? Is success worth sacrificing your emotional needs? It's going to be a sad day when he finally gets what he wants and realizes that it didn't change how he feels.