This Capricorn guy ?

(Not all just the one I'm dealing).

The cap. I'm "dealing" with is so corny to me, like 85% of the things he says seem disingenuous. I've known him for a while but we have just start talking (maybe a couple months ago).

I feel I know nothing about him although I have asked several questions to try and get to know him on a deeper level. I have expressed my feelings to him & vice versa and feel he is just uninterested in having a DEEP connection. And I know for sure he likes me A LOT (more than I like him) But he's giving me detached vibes. Anybody else experience this?

Yeah its the Cap way. But Taurus and Cap are a perfect match 🙂

Posted by Capz
Because if you open too soon he's suspicious

Agreed

Yea..

Caps give you bits and pieces of them..

You have to peel each layer of them away to get to their core.

It takes time.

Patience.

Posted by T4taurus


(Not all just the one I'm dealing).

The cap. I'm "dealing" with is so corny to me, like 85% of the things he says seem disingenuous. I've known him for a while but we have just start talking (maybe a couple months ago).

I feel I know nothing about him although I have asked several questions to try and get to know him on a deeper level. I have expressed my feelings to him & vice versa and feel he is just uninterested in having a DEEP connection. And I know for sure he likes me A LOT (more than I like him) But he's giving me detached vibes. Anybody else experience this?

Heh.. I know this all too well. Funny story, this cap guy that I was very much into Fall 2016 decided to make his moves again on me this past weekend. He only shared 2 very deep stories in the 3 months that we were getting to know each other before he ghosted me for a long time till recently as mentioned before. Too long of a story to get into but it is in my old thread. We met up as just friends who haven't seen each other in a long time like "catching up". I honestly wasn't expecting anything to happen at all especially since I haven't seen him since end of November. And last time we spoke on skype was back in February where we were catching up and he was explaining why he ghosted and was honest about his single life when confronted by me which I appreciate 100% . Moving on, same cap logic while conversating; I've been busy with work, blah blah blah (clearly not busy to live your "single" life which granted he doesn't owe me any explanations on since we were never exclusive). We had dinner at a nice restaurant. I know he was flirting with me hence the compliments he was throwing at me on my hair, my eyes & the many times I caught him staring at my chest LOL. Yes purposely made sure I looked GOOD AF and dressed classy but sexy that day haha. We started having casual convos, eventually leading to being single convos. As a Taurus female for me personally, once I stop giving a full F about you on a emotional liking level, I start to talk to you as just a friend like "one of the guys". I tend to be very blunt like an a-hole type of person. So I started to say, you should definitely be enjoying your single life, who cares what anyone says, etc. Then he starts throwing the convo towards me being single. Had to remind him, that I'm old school, I choose the route where I like to be courted. He clearly remembered.

One thing led to another, we headed off for some drinks at some bar. I told him, drinks are on me so let's drink and enjoy. After a few drinks and shots he started to put his arms around me. I said; "what do you think you're doing? You're trying to slither your way back in? It doesn;t work that way". He laughs. Later on he kisses my cheek twice during different moments, I said "you got some balls trying to kiss me". He says, "a kiss is harmless". I said "that's how it starts, life isn't easy and getting the chance to really kiss me shouldn't be either". He says" yeah yeah I know, because I disappeared for a long time". I laughed because that let me know that he really knew him ghosting wasn't cool in my eyes, even though he explained himself back in Feb and did my best to understand and told myself to move on emotionally and to only see him as just a friend. He then says to me; "Can't you just give me one kiss for good luck on my business trip coming up?" I said "wow, pulling the good luck kiss bs card on me?" By this point I was intoxicated and after a minute of so-called "thinking" I said, you're lucky you're a great kisser and bam. There was A LOT more that happened after we left the bar. Intensity isn't even the word. But let's just say he was able to see that behind the "good girl image" I portray, I have an "aggressive" side and based on his words via text and in person, he was blown away. He started calling me sexy which he never has before, quite humourous that he calls me that after he left my place (I'll get to that). No I didn't sleep with him. He respected me enough to try to not initiate sex with me. But I expressed a small taste of passion that I normally would only show to someone who I fully trust and has much interest in courting me. I don't know what it is about him Capricorn ppl of DXP, but out of the few guys that I've recently been on casual dates with or talking to (libras, leos, etc), none have stimulated me on a mental and physical level like this cap guy has except for one Aries man. If I wasn't so stuck on my morals... you know the rest lol

I know I said in my old thread that I have zero expectations after what happened and I still do, until proven otherwise which I'm not holding my breath on. At one point after we left the restaurant. He had made a joke by saying "go out with me!" I told him, he's not ready to date someone like me.. As my best friend (leo guy) told me; "just continue to enjoy life and not give a F what anyone says. If one day something happens then it happens. The dude will continue to be in your life on & off because guys like the challenge of something they can't have, so good for you." So since then, cap man hasn't reached out to me and that's ok. If it was just a one time thing, then cool. Harmless fun never hurt anybody lol. At the end of the day, he was a gentleman in respecting me in not wanting to be intimate and he was sweet enough in making sure I made it safely back to my apartment since it was after midnight. He may "want me badly" as he stated more than once to me that night, but I don't want him in just that way. I want him in every way. Sigh, you cap men are something else. Charming, funny AF, sweet, PERSISTENT AF, but sorry not enough. 😢

Be patient, if he's consistent he's most likely serious. When he does give bits and pieces receive them well and he'll give more and more as time passes. They come off as jokers so they aren't taken too seriously, but they're VERY serious people. Laugh at his jokes but mind every other word between them. They don't waste words as they've thought about which ones to use for longer and harder than you can imagine.

Lol they aren't really into answering questions because they don't get that time to think about their answers and the right words/response. If they answer what they feel is wrongly, they'll hold on to it for way too long. Ask the question but add "just get back to me on it if you can't think of anything right now". I've found my Cap always comes back to a question I've asked or a story he's suddenly cut short.

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Posted by SugarandSpunk

Posted by T4taurus


(Not all just the one I'm dealing).

The cap. I'm "dealing" with is so corny to me, like 85% of the things he says seem disingenuous. I've known him for a while but we have just start talking (maybe a couple months ago).

I feel I know nothing about him although I have asked several questions to try and get to know him on a deeper level. I have expressed my feelings to him & vice versa and feel he is just uninterested in having a DEEP connection. And I know for sure he likes me A LOT (more than I like him) But he's giving me detached vibes. Anybody else experience this?

Heh.. I know this all too well. Funny story, this cap guy that I was very much into Fall 2016 decided to make his moves again on me this past weekend. He only shared 2 very deep stories in the 3 months that we were getting to know each other before he ghosted me for a long time till recently as mentioned before. Too long of a story to get into but it is in my old thread. We met up as just friends who haven't seen each other in a long time like "catching up". I honestly wasn't expecting anything to happen at all especially since I haven't seen him since end of November. And last time we spoke on skype was back in February where we were catching up and he was explaining why he ghosted and was honest about his single life when confronted by me which I appreciate 100% . Moving on, same cap logic while conversating; I've been busy with work, blah blah blah (clearly not busy to live your "single" life which granted he doesn't owe me any explanations on since we were never exclusive). We had dinner at a nice restaurant. I know he was flirting with me hence the compliments he was throwing at me on my hair, my eyes & the many times I caught him staring at my chest LOL. Yes purposely made sure I looked GOOD AF and dressed classy but sexy that day haha. We started having casual convos, eventually leading to being single convos. As a Taurus female for me personally, once I stop giving a full F about you on a emotional liking level, I start to talk to you as just a friend like "one of the guys". I tend to be very blunt like an a-hole type of person. So I started to say, you should definitely be enjoying your single life, who cares what anyone says, etc. Then he starts throwing the convo towards me being single. Had to remind him, that I'm old school, I choose the route where I like to be courted. He clearly remembered.

One thing led to another, we headed off for some drinks at some bar. I told him, drinks are on me so let's drink and enjoy. After a few drinks and shots he started to put his arms around me. I said; "what do you think you're doing? You're trying to slither your way back in? It doesn;t work that way". He laughs. Later on he kisses my cheek twice during different moments, I said "you got some balls trying to kiss me". He says, "a kiss is harmless". I said "that's how it starts, life isn't easy and getting the chance to really kiss me shouldn't be either". He says" yeah yeah I know, because I disappeared for a long time". I laughed because that let me know that he really knew him ghosting wasn't cool in my eyes, even though he explained himself back in Feb and did my best to understand and told myself to move on emotionally and to only see him as just a friend. He then says to me; "Can't you just give me one kiss for good luck on my business trip coming up?" I said "wow, pulling the good luck kiss bs card on me?" By this point I was intoxicated and after a minute of so-called "thinking" I said, you're lucky you're a great kisser and bam. There was A LOT more that happened after we left the bar. Intensity isn't even the word. But let's just say he was able to see that behind the "good girl image" I portray, I have an "aggressive" side and based on his words via text and in person, he was blown away. He started calling me sexy which he never has before, quite humourous that he calls me that after he left my place (I'll get to that). No I didn't sleep with him. He respected me enough to try to not initiate sex with me. But I expressed a small taste of passion that I normally would only show to someone who I fully trust and has much interest in courting me. I don't know what it is about him Capricorn ppl of DXP, but out of the few guys that I've recently been on casual dates with or talking to (libras, leos, etc), none have stimulated me on a mental and physical level like this cap guy has except for one Aries man. If I wasn't so stuck on my morals... you know the rest lol

I know I said in my old thread that I have zero expectations after what happened and I still do, until proven otherwise which I'm not holding my breath on. At one point after we left the restaurant. He had made a joke by saying "go out with me!" I told him, he's not ready to date someone like me.. As my best friend (leo guy) told me; "just continue to enjoy life and not give a F what anyone says. If one day something happens then it happens. The dude will continue to be in your life on & off because guys like the challenge of something they can't have, so good for you." So since then, cap man hasn't reached out to me and that's ok. If it was just a one time thing, then cool. Harmless fun never hurt anybody lol. At the end of the day, he was a gentleman in respecting me in not wanting to be intimate and he was sweet enough in making sure I made it safely back to my apartment since it was after midnight. He may "want me badly" as he stated more than once to me that night, but I don't want him in just that way. I want him in every way. Sigh, you cap men are something else. Charming, funny AF, sweet, PERSISTENT AF, but sorry not enough. 😢

Taurus shit! ?

i fucking love it.

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HAHA! You're awesome

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Posted by poison_ivy
Yea..

Caps give you bits and pieces of them..

You have to peel each layer of them away to get to their core.

It takes time.

Patience.

Loyalty

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Exactly! 😉

Posted by SugarandSpunk

Posted by T4taurus


(Not all just the one I'm dealing).

The cap. I'm "dealing" with is so corny to me, like 85% of the things he says seem disingenuous. I've known him for a while but we have just start talking (maybe a couple months ago).

I feel I know nothing about him although I have asked several questions to try and get to know him on a deeper level. I have expressed my feelings to him & vice versa and feel he is just uninterested in having a DEEP connection. And I know for sure he likes me A LOT (more than I like him) But he's giving me detached vibes. Anybody else experience this?

Heh.. I know this all too well. Funny story, this cap guy that I was very much into Fall 2016 decided to make his moves again on me this past weekend. He only shared 2 very deep stories in the 3 months that we were getting to know each other before he ghosted me for a long time till recently as mentioned before. Too long of a story to get into but it is in my old thread. We met up as just friends who haven't seen each other in a long time like "catching up". I honestly wasn't expecting anything to happen at all especially since I haven't seen him since end of November. And last time we spoke on skype was back in February where we were catching up and he was explaining why he ghosted and was honest about his single life when confronted by me which I appreciate 100% . Moving on, same cap logic while conversating; I've been busy with work, blah blah blah (clearly not busy to live your "single" life which granted he doesn't owe me any explanations on since we were never exclusive). We had dinner at a nice restaurant. I know he was flirting with me hence the compliments he was throwing at me on my hair, my eyes & the many times I caught him staring at my chest LOL. Yes purposely made sure I looked GOOD AF and dressed classy but sexy that day haha. We started having casual convos, eventually leading to being single convos. As a Taurus female for me personally, once I stop giving a full F about you on a emotional liking level, I start to talk to you as just a friend like "one of the guys". I tend to be very blunt like an a-hole type of person. So I started to say, you should definitely be enjoying your single life, who cares what anyone says, etc. Then he starts throwing the convo towards me being single. Had to remind him, that I'm old school, I choose the route where I like to be courted. He clearly remembered.

One thing led to another, we headed off for some drinks at some bar. I told him, drinks are on me so let's drink and enjoy. After a few drinks and shots he started to put his arms around me. I said; "what do you think you're doing? You're trying to slither your way back in? It doesn;t work that way". He laughs. Later on he kisses my cheek twice during different moments, I said "you got some balls trying to kiss me". He says, "a kiss is harmless". I said "that's how it starts, life isn't easy and getting the chance to really kiss me shouldn't be either". He says" yeah yeah I know, because I disappeared for a long time". I laughed because that let me know that he really knew him ghosting wasn't cool in my eyes, even though he explained himself back in Feb and did my best to understand and told myself to move on emotionally and to only see him as just a friend. He then says to me; "Can't you just give me one kiss for good luck on my business trip coming up?" I said "wow, pulling the good luck kiss bs card on me?" By this point I was intoxicated and after a minute of so-called "thinking" I said, you're lucky you're a great kisser and bam. There was A LOT more that happened after we left the bar. Intensity isn't even the word. But let's just say he was able to see that behind the "good girl image" I portray, I have an "aggressive" side and based on his words via text and in person, he was blown away. He started calling me sexy which he never has before, quite humourous that he calls me that after he left my place (I'll get to that). No I didn't sleep with him. He respected me enough to try to not initiate sex with me. But I expressed a small taste of passion that I normally would only show to someone who I fully trust and has much interest in courting me. I don't know what it is about him Capricorn ppl of DXP, but out of the few guys that I've recently been on casual dates with or talking to (libras, leos, etc), none have stimulated me on a mental and physical level like this cap guy has except for one Aries man. If I wasn't so stuck on my morals... you know the rest lol

I know I said in my old thread that I have zero expectations after what happened and I still do, until proven otherwise which I'm not holding my breath on. At one point after we left the restaurant. He had made a joke by saying "go out with me!" I told him, he's not ready to date someone like me.. As my best friend (leo guy) told me; "just continue to enjoy life and not give a F what anyone says. If one day something happens then it happens. The dude will continue to be in your life on & off because guys like the challenge of something they can't have, so good for you." So since then, cap man hasn't reached out to me and that's ok. If it was just a one time thing, then cool. Harmless fun never hurt anybody lol. At the end of the day, he was a gentleman in respecting me in not wanting to be intimate and he was sweet enough in making sure I made it safely back to my apartment since it was after midnight. He may "want me badly" as he stated more than once to me that night, but I don't want him in just that way. I want him in every way. Sigh, you cap men are something else. Charming, funny AF, sweet, PERSISTENT AF, but sorry not enough. 😢

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I love Taurus Woman! (My mom is a Taurus too..) 🙂

Posted by SweetestFatale
Be patient, if he's consistent he's most likely serious. When he does give bits and pieces receive them well and he'll give more and more as time passes. They come off as jokers so they aren't taken too seriously, but they're VERY serious people. Laugh at his jokes but mind every other word between them. They don't waste words as they've thought about which ones to use for longer and harder than you can imagine.

Lol they aren't really into answering questions because they don't get that time to think about their answers and the right words/response. If they answer what they feel is wrongly, they'll hold on to it for way too long. Ask the question but add "just get back to me on it if you can't think of anything right now". I've found my Cap always comes back to a question I've asked or a story he's suddenly cut short.

THIS! Explains everything. thank you I think I'll be taking this route

Posted by d0s3r
why do u want to know everything about someone at once

then there is nothing left to know

I never said I did. But to have known someone for years and know little of them is weird to me. Especially when I'm trying to get to know you deeper.

Posted by T4taurus

Posted by d0s3r
why do u want to know everything about someone at once

then there is nothing left to know

I never said I did. But to have known someone for years and know little of them is weird to me. Especially when I'm trying to get to know you deeper.

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Were you and him already friends before you started dating?

Posted by themilkyway36

Posted by T4taurus

Posted by d0s3r
why do u want to know everything about someone at once

then there is nothing left to know

I never said I did. But to have known someone for years and know little of them is weird to me. Especially when I'm trying to get to know you deeper.

Were you and him already friends before you started dating?

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